I never do this but I am pretty upset right now. My grandmother would be 100 yrs old this year. She is really sick, most likely dying soon (no one is telling me for sure) She is in the hospital & hasn't eaten in 5 days because she doens't want to. It sounds like she is giving up. She has never met my DS who is 4 months old because I wanted to wait until he was 6 months to take him to the nursing home she had been living in. Now I have to rush him there to see her hopefully before anything happens. My poor father's b-day is also at the end of the week & I really pray that she won't pass on his b-day. What could be worse than your parent passing on your b-day?