pregnancy & friends

I've been having a hard time lately b/c all I want to do is hang out w/ DH before baby arrives- get as much QT with him as possible b/f our lives change (for the better I know- but still change).

My BF is recently married and not TTC for a while- she is anticipating that our friendship is going to change (and I know it will)- and she is having a hard time. She lives in the city and doesn't have a car (we are in the burbs- so usually we have to go into the city to see them instead of vice versa).

How do I put her mind at ease? For example, yesterday we were supposed to hang out but I walked the gift show for 5 hours and I was just exhausted and went home- I know she is mad at me and doesn't understand since she's never been through it- but I don't want to say to her, you don't understand b/c you've never been through it b/c that annoyed me when my other friends did that to me when they were pg.

How are you guys dealing w/ this if you are in the same situation?

Re: pregnancy & friends

I have found that I have even lost touch with a few friends. One of my friends doesn't even acknowledge that I am even pregnant. When I talk to her about it, she doesn't want to hear about it. It's sad in a way that she doesn't understand where I am coming from - but on the other hand - so be it. If she can't support me and understand what I need to do in this "new" lifestyle - then I doubt she will be around for long.