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Samnjenna
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Member since 5/06 297 total posts
Name: Jenna
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Pregnancy Hormones?
Just wondering how many of us feel like we're suffering from pregnancy hormones?
My problem (at least right now) is that I'm really POed at DH and I don't know whether I'm justified or its just a hormone thing.
I think when its hormones you realize (eventually) that you are being unreasonable, but I actually can't sleep b/c of our fight and even now hours later I can't figure out if I'm crazy or right.
In either case -- can't I just play the preggo card and get him to give in????
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Posted 5/21/07 5:48 AM |
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Porrruss
Nya nya nya
Member since 5/05 11618 total posts
Name: Amy
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Re: Pregnancy Hormones?
Yes, I truly believe that pregnancy hormones play a factor in how *emotional* a situation can get. I found that ESPECIALLY in the beginning, run-of-the-mill disagreements would (to me) escalate into these crying jags where I'd really get my feelings hurt. Later, I'd realize I often overreacted.
However, I don't think it's fair to *play the hormone* card to get DH to give in. Believe me, do that enough and he'll start to resent you. VERY early on my DH sat me down and told me that while he was thrilled about the baby and loved me more than anything, that the constant need to be on eggshells with me was wearing thin on him.
I straightened that out within me quickly. I realized that I needed to TRY to keep a cool head during a disagreement rather than give into emotional temper tantrums. Often, when I feel like I'm really getting hot, I'll tell him and just leave the situation until we can discuss it later. It took a few attempts, but it really worked.
I am so sorry your feeling wacked out- I know how it is. It sucks to not know if it's hormones or truly justifiable anger.
Hopefully today you'll both have cooled down and be able to compromise on whatever your argument was about.
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Posted 5/21/07 7:38 AM |
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hbugal
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Re: Pregnancy Hormones?
While I truly believe firmly in the whole pregnancy hormone deal I think Im dealing with a whole slew of other feelings...as are other women.
1st For me there is the lack of sex due to pelvic rest. 2nd I quit smoking 3rd I cant exercise 4th My whole body hurts 5th I feel like the pillsbury dough boy 6th Constant worry that the baby is going to come to early
All this..plus some others...makes one very stressed out women. Add to that the preggo hormones and voila..1 certified basket case!
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Posted 5/21/07 7:46 AM |
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debsey75
My two best friends!
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Name: Debbie
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Re: Pregnancy Hormones?
Well I think I was hit with a double dose of them. I am soooooo emotional that sometimes I wonder how DH can stand to be around me.
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Posted 5/21/07 7:50 AM |
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Bklyngrl
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Re: Pregnancy Hormones?
Posted by hbugalla
While I truly believe firmly in the whole pregnancy hormone deal I think Im dealing with a whole slew of other feelings...as are other women.
1st For me there is the lack of sex due to pelvic rest. 2nd I quit smoking 3rd I cant exercise 4th My whole body hurts 5th I feel like the pillsbury dough boy 6th Constant worry that the baby is going to come to early
All this..plus some others...makes one very stressed out women. Add to that the preggo hormones and voila..1 certified basket case!
i'm with ya. i quit smoking too (hence why i prob felt the need to munch on everything like a lunatic esp. in the beginning). i just feel overally crabby/cranky some days and p'd off at DH sometimes for no reason!
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Posted 5/21/07 11:14 AM |
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karacg
Babygirl is 4!
Member since 5/05 17076 total posts
Name: Kara®
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Re: Pregnancy Hormones?
DH says I haven't been wacky at all...I don't think I have been. But, I don't get PMS either so...
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Posted 5/21/07 11:15 AM |
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chelle
It's a Good Life
Member since 8/06 15404 total posts
Name: Isn't it obvious?
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Re: Pregnancy Hormones?
Posted by karacg
DH says I haven't been wacky at all...I don't think I have been. But, I don't get PMS either so...
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Posted 5/21/07 11:20 AM |
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