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JenG
Love my little boy!

Member since 6/05

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Name:
Jen

Question...

do you feel like you always get rude remarks from people who have kids. like "oh, you don't know what it's like to be busy, cuz you don't have any children"

i get that from one of my family members ALL the time and it is getting kinda old if you ask me Chat Icon i don't get it.....just because you don't have kids your life is not as busy or not important Chat Icon ????

Posted 6/8/09 2:03 PM
 

Lisa
I'm a PANK!!!

Member since 5/05

22334 total posts

Name:
Professional Aunts No Kids

Re: Question...

because people suck!

can you imagine if you said to someone that has children...God..I cant imagine not having any time to myself.

it works both wasy...KWIM?

I am sorry that this happened to you.

I hope someone on here has a witty comback line for you to use in the future! Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/09 2:54 PM
 

GoldenRod
10 years on LIF!

Member since 11/06

26792 total posts

Name:
Shawn

Re: Question...

You could say something like "Dealing with people like is almost like having kids.".... Chat Icon

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Posted 6/8/09 3:48 PM
 

Dani
Life is about choices.

Member since 5/05

6532 total posts

Name:
Dani

Re: Question...

Posted by JenG

do you feel like you always get rude remarks from people who have kids. like "oh, you don't know what it's like to be busy, cuz you don't have any children"

i get that from one of my family members ALL the time and it is getting kinda old if you ask me Chat Icon i don't get it.....just because you don't have kids your life is not as busy or not important Chat Icon ????




YES!! it drives me crazy too. and also because i do want kids one day but i went through a divorce and everything obviously got pushed off.

i made a comment right back usually. and lots of times i do have people comment for me! my friend waited a long time to have kids and will always say in that situation, 'you know people who don't have kids have lives too!' love her.

Posted 6/8/09 3:58 PM
 

Jackie24
~We Did it~

Member since 7/06

6718 total posts

Name:
Jackie

Re: Question...

YES, I am not busy, I am rich and I have tons and tons of me time all the time. And I love it that way!

Posted 6/8/09 5:47 PM
 

KittyKatCopper
missing my handsome boy

Member since 3/09

1579 total posts

Name:
Kat - HamptonsBride (LIW)

Re: Question...

Posted by Lisa

can you imagine if you said to someone that has children...God..I cant imagine not having any time to myself.




hahaha...i love this quote! Sometimes I get the "oh you're lucky you don't have kids" comment...and i just want to say...well no one put a gun to your head...it was your choice..don't be mad at me for your choices.

Posted 6/8/09 5:53 PM
 

Kara
Now Zagat Rated!

Member since 3/07

13217 total posts

Name:
They call me "Tater Salad"

Re: Question...

If anyone ever told me that I'm not busy because I don't have kids, I would burst out laughing right in front of them and so would anyone who knows me.

I'm busier than every, single person I know who has kids. Being busy has NOTHING to do with having or not having kids.

Posted 6/9/09 11:57 AM
 

deedee1013
LIF Adolescent

Member since 11/07

616 total posts

Name:
Diane

Re: Question...

Posted by JenG

do you feel like you always get rude remarks from people who have kids. like "oh, you don't know what it's like to be busy, cuz you don't have any children"

i get that from one of my family members ALL the time and it is getting kinda old if you ask me Chat Icon i don't get it.....just because you don't have kids your life is not as busy or not important Chat Icon ????



If anyone said that to me...I would say "our fur babies keep us quite busy".

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Posted 6/10/09 4:30 PM
 

lucamon
LIF Adult

Member since 6/09

1133 total posts

Name:
Samantha

Re: Question...

I think DH and I are busier than most of our friends who have kids. They pretty much just stay home to watch the kids. We actually plan stuff, go out and go away for the weekend. Plus we are doing a lot of work in the house ourselves. And we have 2 fur babies. Chat Icon

Posted 6/11/09 8:00 PM
 
 

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