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KarenAnthony
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question about going away without DC
my hubby wants to take a vacation without DS (who is now almost 6 months). The baby would stay with my mom. I can't imagine getting excited for this trip when i'm having anxiety over leaving the baby now..
..what would u do?
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Posted 11/18/08 12:12 PM  |
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LIMOMx2
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Re: question about going away without DC
GO!!!!
We are going on a cruise next Nov for 9 days and we are sooooooo excited!!!!
DS will be 3 1/2 and the new baby will be 10 months old.
I will need the break by then
Go and enjoy
It is great that you have the opportunity and someone to watch your DS 
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| Posted 11/18/08 12:15 PM |
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lovemy2boys
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Re: question about going away without DC
i have the same issue! DH wants to go away sans baby who will be 3.5 months at the time, I want to go away but I want to take  I feel terrible leaving him home, even tho he is small I feel like he would enjoy a vaca too!
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| Posted 11/18/08 12:18 PM |
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jea128
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Re: question about going away without DC
We went to Las Vegas when DD was 6 months old for my 30th birthday. I missed her sooooooo much, but it was also sooooo nice to be away. Plus, my mom loved having her for a few days, they did a lot of stuff together.
GO!!!!!!!
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| Posted 11/18/08 12:25 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Re: question about going away without DC
we went on a biking trip this summer and left josh with my parents. He had a great time with them.
I did call to check in.
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| Posted 11/18/08 12:41 PM |
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Diane
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Re: question about going away without DC
GO GO GO!!!!!
You 2 deserve it.
We have gone away on small weekend trips without the boys. You need to have your time alone together
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| Posted 11/18/08 12:44 PM |
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Tine73
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Re: question about going away without DC
I would go. We went to Aruba for 5 nights when DD was 8 months old and we had a blast!
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| Posted 11/18/08 12:46 PM |
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jms100303
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Re: question about going away without DC
Speaking from personal experience....GO!!!!
The same thing happened to me, DH wanted to go away and leave DS home, I wanted to bring him. He convinced me to leave him home. About 2 weeks before the trip (DS was 11 months) I had a lot of anxiety. I even looked into cancelling our trip. I am so glad we didn't. I won't tell you it wasn't hard, especially actually walking out the door (I was crying). But once we were off I was so much better. Sure I thought about Luke all the time and I missed him, but it was ok. We called home everyday and he was doing great. What surprised me was how easy/nice it was to just be a couple again. It was really good for us to have this time together as husband & wife and it was good for Luke too. We all survived and had a great time. I highly recommend it!!!
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| Posted 11/18/08 12:47 PM |
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LuvMy2Girls
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Re: question about going away without DC
GO! baby will be fine! Mommy and daddy need time alone, it's good for everyone involved!!
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| Posted 11/18/08 12:49 PM |
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curliegirl
He's here!!!!
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Re: question about going away without DC
We went last month without DS and it was great......our parents split the week.
It was terrifying to fly but once we got there we were able to relax and enjoy ourselves....
We missed him terribly but needed the time to relax and enjoy each other, which is something we desperately needed......
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| Posted 11/18/08 1:03 PM |
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