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Question Re: Thank you's for parties

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Smileyd17
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Question Re: Thank you's for parties

Do you feel they should be written out and personalized?

Or

with just a basic thank you is ok-
say.....Picture and words of thank's printed out?

Just feeling out the opinions out there.

Thanks!

Posted 4/30/08 3:59 PM
 
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bicosi
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

I think that ANY thank you (even those that have pics and a pre-printed thank you message) should each be handwritten out and personalized.

I find those pre-printed thank you's without personalization to be very rude IMO.

Posted 4/30/08 4:00 PM
 

Ang-Rich
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

Posted by bicosi

I think that ANY thank you (even those that have pics and a pre-printed thank you message) should each be handwritten out and personalized.

I find those pre-printed thank you's without personalization to be very rude IMO.



ITA. I always hand-write every thank you. I've heard too many comments from family about pre-typed generic messages from others so I avoid it all together.

Posted 4/30/08 4:02 PM
 

Laura1
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

I did the picture ones from CVS, but I wrote out a little thank you note on the back

Posted 4/30/08 4:03 PM
 

justshir
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

i had only 20ish thank you's to write so it wasn't such a biggie. i was able to whip em out during ds' naps. but any more than that..??? recipients will jsut have to understand getting a generic thank you card.

Posted 4/30/08 4:06 PM
 

Diana1215
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

My family is not big on the preprinted ones. I ordered them for Jack's thank you's when he was born bc I knew I would be in no state of mind to complete a sentence.

I don't give it a second thought either way when I receive thank you's - but I do think it's nicer to personalize them.

Posted 4/30/08 4:09 PM
 

Kelly9904
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

Posted by bicosi

I think that ANY thank you (even those that have pics and a pre-printed thank you message) should each be handwritten out and personalized.

I find those pre-printed thank you's without personalization to be very rude IMO.



I agree. For DSs christening I did picture cards by on the back of each I handwrote a note to each person as if it was coming solely from my DS.

Posted 4/30/08 4:11 PM
 

jprimrose
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

I usually always write out thank yous, but for my DS's Christening I was so tired of writing thank yous from my shower and then for all the baby gifts I received that I decided to do ones with a picture and preprinted message.

I have received ones with the picture and preprinted message I and I do not get offended. As long as a thank you is sent I think it is fine. JMO I am sure others in my family may feel different.

Posted 4/30/08 4:12 PM
 

MommyofG
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

the thank you's with pics are so cute but I would def personalize each one.

Posted 4/30/08 4:18 PM
 

Belladonna219
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

I do the picture and personalize a pre-printed message. Chat Icon
I dont mean to be rude. I am horrible with any type of cards. My family and friends know better of me to care.

Posted 4/30/08 4:21 PM
 

nbc188
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

I prefer them hand written & personalized, but it doesn't bother me to get the pre-printed ones from others.

Posted 4/30/08 4:26 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

personalized definitely

Posted 4/30/08 5:14 PM
 

emilain
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

well, for me it is either you get a photo thank you or nothing at all, I don;t have the time to write thank you to each person (especially since the big events are at least 50 people)Chat Icon

Posted 4/30/08 6:02 PM
 

lululu
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

I dont think i would ever send something preprinted without including a personalized note. my thought is that if people can take time out to get me a gift, I can take 30 seconds to write out a thank you note. I do other things to save time - like i make sure i have all the mailing labels pre printed. IMO addressing envelopes is far more painful than writing out the thank you.

Posted 4/30/08 6:17 PM
 

jms100303
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

Funny you should post this question TODAY. I just got a generic thank you for a baby gift I gave when the baby was born. To be honest it rubbed me the wrong way. I like personalized thank yous and think that is proper. For a bday gift I could see why you would do the photos and wouldn't mind as much as I did with the baby gift one. However, it would be nice if you added a little personalized note with each one.

Posted 4/30/08 7:25 PM
 

smdl
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

I bought matching thank you notes to the invitations.

I will handwrite a personal thank you to each person who are coming.

Posted 4/30/08 7:51 PM
 

FireIslandLove

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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

Posted by lululu

I dont think i would ever send something preprinted without including a personalized note. my thought is that if people can take time out to get me a gift, I can take 30 seconds to write out a thank you note. I do other things to save time - like i make sure i have all the mailing labels pre printed. IMO addressing envelopes is far more painful than writing out the thank you.



I agree - for DDs' birthday I created a picture card and wrote a thank you note on the back of each one.

Posted 4/30/08 7:55 PM
 

Sweets13
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

It doesn't bother me when I get a pre-printed thank you. I know the person appreciates the gift.................

Message edited 4/30/2008 7:59:28 PM.

Posted 4/30/08 7:59 PM
 

EmmaNick
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Re: Question Re: Thank you's for parties

I ordered note cards with a party pic on them through Shutterfly and hand wrote them all. I don't think it really matters either way though.

Posted 4/30/08 8:59 PM
 
 

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