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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît
Member since 6/07 42079 total posts
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LB
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RSVPs
I am so tired of chasing RSVPs down.
Is it okay for me to just count anyone who didn't RSVP out?
My RSVP date was less than 3 weeks after the invites went out so I am planning on giving people extra time... maybe an extra week?
What would you do?
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Posted 8/16/10 10:02 PM  |
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DmarieK
My loves!!
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Re: RSVPs
RSVP's are the worst. I think so many people just assume you know they're coming so they don't bother calling.
I wouldn't count them out...i'd call...text or email them. You don't want an issue with people showing up that you didn't account for.
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| Posted 8/16/10 10:11 PM |
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CrankyPants
I'm cranky
Member since 7/06 18178 total posts
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Mama Cranky
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Re: RSVPs
THis drove me nuts during the planning for DDs party-it could go either way. Either they could assume you know they are coming so don't RSVP OR they don't plan on coming so they don't RSVP. Either way they really throw a wrench in your planning Chase those #@&^% down! Make them commit one way or the other
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| Posted 8/16/10 10:17 PM |
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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît
Member since 6/07 42079 total posts
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LB
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Re: RSVPs
It's mostly DH's friends - my friends and family have mostly replied.
I will make him chase them down 
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| Posted 8/17/10 7:59 AM |
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DeniseMarie
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Re: RSVPs
Dont count them out because you know almost all of them will show up and then you won't have enough food
I do "regrets only" on my invitations. It works out a lot better
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| Posted 8/17/10 8:06 AM |
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julz33
i run for bacon
Member since 5/05 20584 total posts
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julz
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Re: RSVPs
I found that usually the people that didn't RSVP are coming and assume you know they are coming.
It is very annoying. I've been doing "regrets only" for the last few parties and that seems to work out better.
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| Posted 8/17/10 8:55 AM |
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brownie
Baby #1 is here!
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Re: RSVPs
Posted by DeniseMarie
Dont count them out because you know almost all of them will show up and then you won't have enough food
I do "regrets only" on my invitations. It works out a lot better
ITA and I do the same
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| Posted 8/17/10 8:55 AM |
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KennysMommy
Never knew LOVE like it before
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Danielle
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Re: RSVPs
I'm always so nervous that "regrets only" is too open ended and would leave me assuming more people are coming than not. I guess I just like to know either way........ I'd hunt down those that didn't RSVP.
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| Posted 8/17/10 9:08 AM |
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