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Palebride
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Lori
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Rude comments continuing after giving birth???
While pregnant, I became quite bloated and swollen, and anyone who believes in old wive's tales knew I was having a girl....and told me it. Nice.
Today, someone told me TO MY FACE that they knew I was having a girl because she stole my beauty and now I'm pretty again. I was too shocked to say anything back.
I told my husband, and he didn't that it was that bad of a thing to say....am I the only one who thinks it's a little rude to tell someone they were ugly?
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Posted 7/8/07 10:07 PM  |
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aidamarie
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Re: Rude comments continuing after giving birth???
I think thats really RUDE!!! Some people have a lot of nerve and dont think beofre they speak!
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| Posted 7/8/07 10:09 PM |
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Re: Rude comments continuing after giving birth???
So that was a "nice" way of her calling you ugly???  To me that is not nice at all - that is totally rude!!!! 
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| Posted 7/8/07 10:13 PM |
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avamamma
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Re: Rude comments continuing after giving birth???
It is rude...definately something that someone in my family would say
As far as your husband... they just don't get it, never will..
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| Posted 7/8/07 10:14 PM |
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Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: Rude comments continuing after giving birth???
RUDE!!!
Tha fact that she said you are now "pretty again" just makes it a "back-handed compliment". Rude and passive-aggressive.
If this is a person you will see again there's probably no use in saying anything, they'll most likely claim they were giving you a compliment
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| Posted 7/8/07 10:17 PM |
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jenny
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Re: Rude comments continuing after giving birth???
Well when I was preggo w/ DD, before we knew she was a girl, people said to me that it's a boy because I looked so beautiful I think it's just one of those annoying things that comes with pregnancy. Don't pay too much attention to it.
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| Posted 7/8/07 10:37 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Rude comments continuing after giving birth???
I think it's rude to comment negatively on anyone's appearance.
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| Posted 7/8/07 10:41 PM |
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2girls4now
Proud Mommy
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Re: Rude comments continuing after giving birth???
if it helps- I've been told the same thing...i have been told that my pregnancy "tore me up" but I bounced back so well- gee thanks
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| Posted 7/8/07 10:42 PM |
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heidla
Me and the guys
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Re: Rude comments continuing after giving birth???
You should have said "At least I had beauty to get stolen and get back, unlike others I know."
Some people just suck.
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| Posted 7/8/07 11:25 PM |
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smdl
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Re: Rude comments continuing after giving birth???
Yes, the comments never end.
I just wonder what people are going to say when I go back to work. Like comments on my weight if I lost enough or not enough, how fast/slow I lost the weight, etc.... I may not be as nice and patient this time as I was with ankle woman.
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| Posted 7/9/07 9:42 AM |
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