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S E X after a D&C
I had my D&C 1week ago today and eventhough i['m not ready to bd yet.................I am starting to get urges It has been awhile. Soooooooooooooooooo how long after a D&C before we can be "together" I think some lovin might help my fould, depressed, lonely moods I have been in.
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Posted 12/2/08 3:27 PM |
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sweetdreamz1181
Baby Girl on the way!
Member since 1/08 2186 total posts
Name: Jackie
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Re: S E X after a D&C
i felt the same exact way when i had a d&c but was told not to till after the docs appt
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Posted 12/2/08 3:37 PM |
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LemonHead
Sour Girl
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Re: S E X after a D&C
My Doctor said 2 weeks.
I'm surprised that so many girls feel like that after the D&C. It took me awhile to heal (I bled for over 3 weeks) and I didn't want DH to touch me with a ten foot pole afterwards!
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Posted 12/2/08 4:12 PM |
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Re: S E X after a D&C
Posted by faithann
My Doctor said 2 weeks.
I'm surprised that so many girls feel like that after the D&C. It took me awhile to heal (I bled for over 3 weeks) and I didn't want DH to touch me with a ten foot pole afterwards!
The thought of the act itself is not what i'm after in fact it scares the crapola out of me, but being with my husband is the comfort I need. I can't explain it. I need to feel like an us again instead of a me grieving and a him greiving. I need that physical and emotional attachment. I'll just drink a lot or take some pain meds to get through the act itself
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Posted 12/2/08 5:35 PM |
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ibl530
LIF Toddler
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Re: S E X after a D&C
i was told to wait 3 weeks, and I had to have a follow up with both the place that performed the d&E and my OB.
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Posted 12/2/08 5:49 PM |
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Lizzy
Carson's Mama
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Name: Elisabeth
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Re: S E X after a D&C
Oh lord... the doc said 2 weeks but I was so charged, we were doing it like bunnies 4 days afterwards. It's something about the drop in estrogen that causes the jump in libido.
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Posted 12/2/08 7:54 PM |
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sleepie76
enjoying every minute
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Re: S E X after a D&C
1st time told 2 weeks. 2nd time I was told to wait 3 weeks. I waited 2. I was done bleeding within a few days of the D&C.
I agree with lizzy. I was supercharged for a few months actually. It was very strange. It was like I was a different person.
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Posted 12/3/08 8:53 AM |
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WNA01
my 2 boys
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Re: S E X after a D&C
dr told me to wait 2-3 weeks. we waited until 2 weeks bc i bled for 2 weeks afdter d&c and wanted to be completly healed.
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Posted 12/3/08 10:11 AM |
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LemonHead
Sour Girl
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Re: S E X after a D&C
Posted by medic6809
The thought of the act itself is not what i'm after in fact it scares the crapola out of me, but being with my husband is the comfort I need. I can't explain it. I need to feel like an us again instead of a me grieving and a him greiving. I need that physical and emotional attachment.
I understand what you mean. It's such a hard thing for a couple to go through.
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Posted 12/3/08 3:34 PM |
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michey1217
LIF Infant
Member since 7/07 116 total posts
Name: Michelle
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Re: S E X after a D&C
I was told 2 weeks after the D&C by my doctor.
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Posted 12/3/08 7:47 PM |
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