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robcoll1002
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Member since 5/05 2073 total posts
Name: Colleen
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S E X and pregnancy
Are you ever scared to have sex while being pregnant? I am 16 weeks and DH and I have not had sex since before I found out ( I know, TMI). I have a history of miscarriage (3 before DD was born) and am scared having s e x could cause one. Am I nuts? Since entering the second trimester its all I think about . When I was pregnant with DD we never did it and then I was put on pelvic rest due to a low lying placenta.
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Posted 5/29/08 8:36 AM |
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Bluepixie
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Member since 6/07 2618 total posts
Name: Laura
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Re: S E X and pregnancy
Unless your doctor tells you to avoid sex, you're fine and it's safe for the baby. s/he's in her own little encased world in you and won't be bothered by mom having a little fun.
In some of the books I read, they say that the "rocking" sometimes soothes the baby
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Posted 5/29/08 8:41 AM |
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1stimemom
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Member since 2/08 8766 total posts
Name: Mrs Dee
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Re: S E X and pregnancy
Personally, I avoided it for the 1st trimester, but at that 13 week mark I made sure I got some! Now that I actually look pregnant, my DH is "scared he will hurt the Baby" and lately, I really want it! (sorry TMI) PS - The books say that an o-gasm feels like a hug for the baby
Message edited 5/29/2008 8:58:45 AM.
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Posted 5/29/08 8:57 AM |
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junebride06
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Member since 2/08 3181 total posts
Name: Robin
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Re: S E X and pregnancy
Colleen - I'm so glad I'm not the only one that feels this way!!! I'm 13 weeks and still scared we will hurt the baby. I feel bad for DH but he completely understands. I've heard a lot of girls spot after and that would scare me to death seeing blood
Message edited 5/29/2008 10:05:53 AM.
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Posted 5/29/08 10:05 AM |
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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît
Member since 6/07 42079 total posts
Name: LB
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Re: S E X and pregnancy
i must be the only one who is just not interested i really don't think it will hurt the baby, but i am just too tired to think about it!
i am sure having a little fun won't even register on the baby's radar
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Posted 5/29/08 10:07 AM |
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neener1211
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Member since 4/07 22952 total posts
Name: J
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Re: S E X and pregnancy
DH has not left me alone for 21 weeks.
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Posted 5/29/08 10:07 AM |
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JandJ1224
Member since 6/06 5911 total posts
Name: Jannette
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Re: S E X and pregnancy
I don't really every feel like it and it makes me nervous to have an ****** because it does cause slight contractions, so I can't really enjoy
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Posted 5/29/08 11:05 AM |
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Hofstra26
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Re: S E X and pregnancy
I was nervous in the beginning but once I was into the 2nd trimester I was totally fine with having sex. In fact, for the past few weeks my desire to have sex is in overdrive and the orgasms are crazy awesome so I am going to enjoy it all now while it's still comfortable and before I am too big.
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Posted 5/29/08 1:20 PM |
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pumpkinpye517
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Member since 3/08 1060 total posts
Name: Tiffany
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Re: S E X and pregnancy
Posted by JandJ1224
I don't really every feel like it and it makes me nervous to have an ****** because it does cause slight contractions, so I can't really enjoy
i agree with you on this one. Now it just hurts, maybe since im dilated so its been a few weeks. Its just way too frustrating for me and I do not enjoy it at all.. and i have to stop b/c of contractions. I told DH, we arent doing this anymore til after the baby. poor DH...
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Posted 5/29/08 2:05 PM |
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MrsRivera
2 under 2...whew!!
Member since 2/07 9876 total posts
Name: Beth
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Re: S E X and pregnancy
We avoided it for the first 10 weeks or so, and then we decided to try it--and all has been fine. Better than fine.
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Posted 5/29/08 3:59 PM |
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