Sex while pg esp first trimester

I'm being sooo bad bc I've been sooo nauseas constantly my poor DH has suffered...esp since the nausea is the worst at night....anyone else not DTD that much if at all with DH esp during the 1st trimester

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Add me to the team!

DH actually asked me if he would have to wait 9 months to do it again.

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DH and I had sex for the first time last week since getting pregnant. I was 18 weeks pregnant! It isn't even morning sickness for me, just no desire.

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gosh I don't know if we even did it in the first trimester! lol. It's not as appealing these days. It stinks!

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1 trimester it was pretty non existent
2nd lots
and 3rd still some but not as much since I don't even know whats going on down there

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I think DH and I have had sex maybe 4-5 times this entire time ... I am 16w4d.

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Umm yeah that was me...and still me. I feel so bad but we havent much at all. The 1st tri i was soo sick, the 2nd I was soo exhausted and now the 3rd well the 3rd has probably been the most but now hes weirded out about it and of course Im not so comfortable so yeah im right there with you!

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We pretty much only DTD in the 2nd tri.
I was so sick in the 1st and very uncomfy in the 3rd. We did try a couple of times in the 3rd, but it was just awkward for both of us. lol

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Ummm, I never thought I would be THAT wife but after spotting for a few weeks, I'm too scared.

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OK good, so I'm def not alone here...He was like wow, you go from begging me to have it to TTC to now breathing fire when I try to get near you

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I think the first time was at 16 weeks and it was mortifying even then... I kept thinking we're hurting the baby! Hasn't gotten much better ever since it's kind of a personal favor to DH this right now. He keeps asking where is the sex drive all the books I'm making him read keep promising

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I gets harder in the third trimester! Something to look forward to...

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Posted by JBaby

I think the first time was at 16 weeks and it was mortifying even then... I kept thinking we're hurting the baby! Hasn't gotten much better ever since it's kind of a personal favor to DH this right now. He keeps asking where is the sex drive all the books I'm making him read keep promising

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um we haven't done it at ALL. Since November 4th, the week before my BFP.

I'm a bad wife. he's not asking though, and even when i'm not nauseous i just don't FEEL like it.

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My Dr. actually advised us to stay away from it until I was out of the first trimester. Something to do with my having an IUI. Even before we had the first OB appt., DH wouldnt touch me . He was too nervous.

I go for my 12 week appt next Thursday and I think both of us are very anxious to get "back on the horse" so to speak . We have NEVER gone this long. I'm even going for a brazilian tomorrow in anticipation of the big event

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We barely did at all in the first trimester. I was so sick and exhausted all the time. Now I am feeling better and have been better about it, but even still more like once, maybe twice a week.

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nope not happening. too scared and paranoid.

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We did twice, but then the dr. told us not to anymore until the hematoma dissipates. Honestly now I'm scared shizless for the entire remainder. Uh, let's just say it's always an adventure when I go to watch something on Netflix and see what's on the "recently viewed" list

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Since I found out I was pregnant I have done the deed maybe 5 five times. I am going on 17w In the 1st tri I didn't even want dh to kiss me although he nagged he knew it was hormones

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we did a few times in the first tri...then I started having issues with my cervix so we were told not to. I think last time we did is was early aug...poor dh

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1st tri we were scared and then I had spotting/bleeding and couldn't...jwhen that subsided, dr said we could try and we've been sorta back to it since then and the drive definitely comes in the second tri...

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I'm just about 14w and we haven't AT ALL since TTC. Absolutely zero desire and I feel like a cow, so that doesn't help!

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glad im not the only one since getting my bfp i think we did it twice...i was getting ready to yell at dh for not thinking i was attractive anymore because i look fat...but then i realized i have no desire to either lol

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thats the only time dh and i dtd

Since ds got sick over a month ago hes been sleeping with us... hence theres NO whatsoever (ds is now perfectly fine - its just easier to have him sleep with us than hear him scream and cry and puke all over the place when hes in his crib )

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i think we've 3 times since my BFP and im 10w tomorrow .

luckily DH has been reading funkystork.com (on his own i might add ) so he's hoping they'll be more action in the second tri!