shower related issue please read...LONG

I am sorry to post this on pregnacy but i figured maybe some of you had some family issues with showers as well so you may be able to help.

My sister doesnt care for or get along with my moms family.Back in march we had a huge arguement b/c i told her she is down right RUDE to them she said she isnt blah blah blah so anyway we are somewhat ok now and my shower is next saturday and heres my thing. i am doing assinged seating and i have a table with my mom and her family, all the ones my sister doenst like, do i

A) sit my sister and my sisters mil at that table ( i doubt she would start anythign with her own mil there) or

B) do i sit her with my bf and her family and i would sit there too.

My dilema is whatever i do i can can see her getig annoyed if i sit her with the family then she will probobly be miserable and to be honest i know the family doenst want to sit with her b/c they have had it too or do i sit her with my bf , her family and me but then i keep thinking she will think i did that b/c i dont trust her not to cause a scene at my shower. BTW causing a scene at function is sometign she is known for but denies completelty when i confronted her about it.

HELLLPP

Re: shower related issue please read...LONG

I would sit her with you

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I would also sit her with you. If she really cares about your feelings, then she can put any sh!t aside for one day. I'm dealing with a similar situation so i feel your pain.

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You are best sitting her with you or if you have a young crowd table. Both are explainable tables. Who needs drama at a shower!

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i would ask her to see which makes her more comfortable if you are torn...

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I would ask her where she wants to sit.