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hotelcalie
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so ***?
So I was married 7 years....left DH bc he wanted baby and i was like NO WAY..now dating guy for 4 or so months and can totally imagine marrying him and having babies....OMG? Help! was it my x I didnt want to have baby with? This is freaking me the F out :(
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Posted 10/22/10 10:56 PM  |
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Jackie24
~We Did it~
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Jackie
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Re: so ***?
 I don't know anymore than what you've posted so I can't really say, but it sounds like there were more problems in your marriage.
That being said, its only been four months with the new guy, don't rush into anything!
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| Posted 10/22/10 11:16 PM |
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KittyKatCopper
missing my handsome boy
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Kat - HamptonsBride (LIW)
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Re: so ***?
when i was dating my ExBF i wanted kids...thought we'd get married and I'd be a SAHM..i was also younger...years and BFs later I meet DH...no desire to have kids...life is alot different and so am i now...i think you can change your mind easily depending on your partner and events going on in life 
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| Posted 10/22/10 11:21 PM |
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PrettyPeonies
GAW my baby boy <3
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Pino
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Re: so ***?
Posted by KittyKatCopper
when i was dating my ExBF i wanted kids...thought we'd get married and I'd be a SAHM..i was also younger...years and BFs later I meet DH...no desire to have kids...life is alot different and so am i now...i think you can change your mind easily depending on your partner and events going on in life
ITA...my situation is the complete opposite. I dated my EXBF and broke up w/him b/c he wanted me to be at SAHM & have a bunch of kids. I was 22 and RAN for the hills. 10 yrs later I am now married and would give any thing to pop out a few kids & be at SHAM!!!!
life is crazy & ever changing......
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| Posted 10/23/10 12:05 AM |
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DirtyBlonde
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Re: so ***?
It may just be the new found happiness that makes you willing to see yourself with the bf eventually having children.
It's okay to change your mind and go from wanting no children to actually wanting them. But give yourself more time with this guy before you make anything permanent.
Good luck and enjoy your new relationship!
Message edited 11/16/2011 11:38:30 AM.
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| Posted 10/25/10 10:25 AM |
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tourist
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Re: so ***?
Posted by DirtyBlonde
It's okay to change your mind and go from wanting no children to actually wanting them. But give yourself more time with this guy before you make anything permanent.
Good luck and enjoy your new relationship!
Agreed!
I did work with someone who was divorced & said she always thought she didn't want kids & now that she has been divorced a few years she realized that it was just that she didn't want to have kids with HIM. So it happens, don't let it freak you out.
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| Posted 10/25/10 10:29 AM |
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HoneyBadger
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Re: so ***?
Posted by tourist
Posted by DirtyBlonde
It's okay to change your mind and go from wanting no children to actually wanting them. But give yourself more time with this guy before you make anything permanent.
Good luck and enjoy your new relationship!
Agreed!
I did work with someone who was divorced & said she always thought she didn't want kids & now that she has been divorced a few years she realized that it was just that she didn't want to have kids with HIM. So it happens, don't let it freak you out.
I agree.
My cousin is an example of this. She NEVER wanted kids. Was married 17 years, got divorced. Is now dating someone else and said to me for the first time in her life, could see herself being a mom and having children with this man.
I think it's ok to change your mind, sometimes different relationships and people bring out different behaviors and reactions from us.
Enjoy what you've got now and see where it takes you.
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| Posted 10/25/10 11:05 AM |
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jilliibabii
Mrs. O'Connor
Member since 6/10 12821 total posts
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Jillian
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Re: so ***?
Posted by Jennie0898
Posted by tourist
Posted by DirtyBlonde
It's okay to change your mind and go from wanting no children to actually wanting them. But give yourself more time with this guy before you make anything permanent.
Good luck and enjoy your new relationship!
Agreed!
I did work with someone who was divorced & said she always thought she didn't want kids & now that she has been divorced a few years she realized that it was just that she didn't want to have kids with HIM. So it happens, don't let it freak you out.
I agree.
My cousin is an example of this. She NEVER wanted kids. Was married 17 years, got divorced. Is now dating someone else and said to me for the first time in her life, could see herself being a mom and having children with this man.
I think it's ok to change your mind, sometimes different relationships and people bring out different behaviors and reactions from us.
Enjoy what you've got now and see where it takes you.
They said it all! It's normal for your outlook to change as you go through life. Enjoy it! 
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| Posted 10/25/10 3:32 PM |
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