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So, I asked my husband last night...

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JsWife
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So, I asked my husband last night...

is there really a baby in here?

I know - I'm crazy. I'm 19 weeks and haven't gained much weight, am still wearing regular clothes, haven't felt much but a little fluttering. And I haven't had any "typical" pregnancy symptoms.

I do have a doppler for the baby's heart beat which I check every night and we have our anatomy scan next Wednesday but this all seems unreal still.

KWIM? When will it actually hit me?

Posted 12/2/08 9:11 AM
 
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MarisaK
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Re: So, I asked my husband last night...

I'm 21 weeks, have gained about 2 lbs and almost all of my clothes still fit - I randomly feel some 'vibrating' here and there, but nothing regularly .........

When we went last week and found out the sex, it was a BIT more real for me - but I still don't feel PG ...........

I seriously don't think I'm going to connect w/ this kid until he's actually born !!

Posted 12/2/08 9:13 AM
 

JsWife
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Re: So, I asked my husband last night...

Posted by MarisaK

I'm 21 weeks, have gained about 2 lbs and almost all of my clothes still fit - I randomly feel some 'vibrating' here and there, but nothing regularly .........

When we went last week and found out the sex, it was a BIT more real for me - but I still don't feel PG ...........

I seriously don't think I'm going to connect w/ this kid until he's actually born !!



I'm glad to hear that I am not alone!

Posted 12/2/08 9:21 AM
 

MarisaK
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Re: So, I asked my husband last night...

Posted by JsWife
I'm glad to hear that I am not alone!



You're not - and it doesn't make you a bad person - I joke around that I'm a heartless b*tch b/c I KNOW that's what people are totally thinking of me - ESPECIALLY b/c my DH is the total opposite and SO excited about everything (especially b/c it's a boy)

I KNOW I'm PG, I'm doing everything I'm supposed to do, and not doing what I'm not supposed to do and starting to get everything ready .......but I am not an excitable person by nature - So, am I bouncing off the walls about the IDEA of this baby? ........No, to me, he's not real yet. - And I KNOW he's in there, but I can't see him or feel him or hold him so it's just not 'real' to me -

Posted 12/2/08 9:29 AM
 

randella
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Re: So, I asked my husband last night...

I am 32 weeks and will have a baby in a matter of weeks at this point-- and I still don't really *get* that I am pregnant.

DH jokes that I will say when the kid graduates HS, "I had a baby?!"

I know the baby is coming, but still can't really believe it-- which has been causing me to freak out a bit.

Posted 12/2/08 9:32 AM
 

MrsRbk
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Re: So, I asked my husband last night...

Patricia - I'm 30 weeks and STILL ask my husband that all the time! Although, I will say the reality of it is starting to sink in finally!

Posted 12/2/08 9:41 AM
 

babyfaith
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Re: So, I asked my husband last night...

I am right there with you. I am 19 weeks and only gained about 3 pounds. I am still in regular clothes and my only pregnancy symptom has been fatigue. I feel occasional movement (flutters, tickles). This pregnancy is still very surreal for me.

Message edited 12/2/2008 11:44:13 AM.

Posted 12/2/08 11:42 AM
 

MrsS2005
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Re: So, I asked my husband last night...

I'm almost 37 weeks and may have the baby this week. It still hasn't fully sunk in that I'm about to be a parent. It definitely felt more real though once I could feel the baby move.

Posted 12/2/08 11:55 AM
 

JsWife
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Re: So, I asked my husband last night...

Thanks ladies!

Posted 12/2/08 1:59 PM
 

jaysee00
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Re: So, I asked my husband last night...

Posted by randella

I am 32 weeks and will have a baby in a matter of weeks at this point-- and I still don't really *get* that I am pregnant.

DH jokes that I will say when the kid graduates HS, "I had a baby?!"

I know the baby is coming, but still can't really believe it-- which has been causing me to freak out a bit.



This is exactly how I feel! Although I am so excited, sometimes I feel removed from it in a way. It's like I can't believe I am actually pregnant, and I will be 30 weeks on Thursday. It's making me feel freaked out too!

Posted 12/2/08 6:18 PM
 

drewsgirl
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Re: So, I asked my husband last night...

haha dd is 19mths old, still cant believe she was in my belly and ours..im in awe everyday - it still has yet to sink in lol

Posted 12/2/08 7:44 PM
 

Goobster
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Re: So, I asked my husband last night...

If this means anything to you...it never hit me. I just had DD last week, a mth early and I almost STILL can't believe she was in me. I also didn't gain alot, only 17 lbs and it's hard to believe she was inside of me. She was pretty large considering a mth early, 7.4 lbs, yet it just feels so surreal! I keep saying when am I going to feel like it's real?

Posted 12/2/08 9:36 PM
 
 

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