So pissed off

Got a congrats call from my cousin. I'm almost 13 weeks and only certain people know. Well we told our siblings this weekend and told them not to tell anyone. My sister told her mom, diff mom, well just found out sis' mom told my aunt, who told my cousin. I lost it on my cousin then apologized bc it wasn't her fault but now I think our big reveal next Sat is ruined. I'm so pissed off. We don't like her bc she always says nasty things about my dad who has been dead for almost 15yrs and always makes me feel like a 2nd class citizen which I could care less about. It took us 18 months to get pg and this may be our only one and she took it away from us. I don't know who knows but I'm livid. Dh called my brother who didn't answer and I texted my SIL to tell my brother to keep her fat mouth shut. I didn't want to call her bc it would have turned into me yelling. With how sick I've been the big reveal was something I was really looking forward to. Vent over.

So pissed off

I'm sorry. People don't think. At least the people who found out congratulated you. I know it doesn't make it any better, but. Dh's friends shared it with more friends that we didn't get to see yet, and none of them said a word to us. People just suck.

Re: So pissed off

That is awful! You should be pissed. I am super sick also and I know that it's certain things that really help you get through the day. My mom told my sister this time around and even though it was #2, it still annoyed me. Maybe not everyone knows though? I don't think your reveal is totallly ruined. I would also say something, nicely. I couldn't let this slide. Good luck and feel better!

Re: So pissed off

I'm sorry this happened to you. It's upsetting b/c you wanted to tell your family.

BUT, keep the big picture in mind - you're pregnant! It's exciting to tell people, and you're reveal next week will still be exciting b/c you'll be seeing everyone in person. Word has already been spread so there's no point in stressing yourself out over it. Just enjoy telling your friends and everyone else you haven't shared it with yet.