Some Days I Just Don't

Want to be a stepmom anymore... since when did it become acceptable that when the BM can't handle her child its up to the SM? WHEN????

Oh and is it appropriate for the BM to call my DH stating she needs a break, asking what time are we picking up his daughter? What parent requests a BREAK????? Just b/c you have the capability of shuffling your child out doesn't make it right... am I wrong??? Oh and besides the fact that she allows her to sleep out 2 out of the 3 nights she normally has her anyway, what kind of break do you really need???? Are you serious?

Message edited 7/2/2010 10:29:32 PM.

Re: Some Days I Just Don't

So she only has her 1 night out the week and needs a break? Poor girl her mom just pushes her off to different people everyday...Shame on her

Re: Some Days I Just Don't

I've seeked counseling for these types of issues and the counselor actually said that these types of occurrences are considered neglect when it comes to my SD and I feel the exact same way... and its obvious when the BM allows her to just gallivant and sleep out constantly and then said she needs a break... UGH so frustrating some times!