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ggt08
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someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
you can't seem to, even though deep down you really want to and move on. How do you do it?
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Posted 1/16/06 5:08 PM  |
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BobBsWife
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Re: someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
I find that I really can never move on! I try not to hold a grudge but it is very difficult. I don't feel it everyday but something may spark a memory and it starts a whirl-wind of emotions. I am so sorry you are feeling this!!
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| Posted 1/16/06 5:30 PM |
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mrswask
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Re: someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
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| Posted 1/16/06 5:37 PM |
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btrflygrl
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Re: someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
it depends on who it was.....
as much as I would WANT to forgive and move on, I don't think it can be done without confronting the person who broke that trust and working it out WITH them so that I would be able to move in with it and maybe begin to rebuild that trust, maybe not to the original level.
With that being said, I'll admit that I broke DH trust while we were dating and I thought we were over, but he just needed time to get over his anger and hurt. We worked it out together and figured out why I did what I did and we began rebuliding the trust over the following months.
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| Posted 1/16/06 5:45 PM |
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nancygrace
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Re: someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
My problem is that I forgive too easily but never trust again!
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| Posted 1/16/06 5:51 PM |
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Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew
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Re: someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
im actually in the same boat as you right now.
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| Posted 1/16/06 6:10 PM |
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Bri
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Re: someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
Posted by BobBsWife
I find that I really can never move on! I try not to hold a grudge but it is very difficult. I don't feel it everyday but something may spark a memory and it starts a whirl-wind of emotions. I am so sorry you are feeling this!!
I have been through the same situation and I found I would go through the same emotions . . .
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| Posted 1/16/06 6:21 PM |
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ggt08
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Re: someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
Posted by BobBsWife
I find that I really can never move on! I try not to hold a grudge but it is very difficult. I don't feel it everyday but something may spark a memory and it starts a whirl-wind of emotions. I am so sorry you are feeling this!!
thats what it is... everything wil be fine and them something will spark and the emotions and hurt start all over again.
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| Posted 1/16/06 6:28 PM |
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Bri
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Re: someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
Posted by kdelace
Posted by BobBsWife
I find that I really can never move on! I try not to hold a grudge but it is very difficult. I don't feel it everyday but something may spark a memory and it starts a whirl-wind of emotions. I am so sorry you are feeling this!!
thats what it is... everything wil be fine and them something will spark and the emotions and hurt start all over again.
Well it normally goes one of two ways- you either eventually get to a point where you learn to live with it with time or the relationship dissolves . . . . I just got to a point I couldn't do it anymore.
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| Posted 1/16/06 6:31 PM |
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Redhead
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Re: someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
you know how i feel mama
just wanna give ya some hugs
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| Posted 1/16/06 8:18 PM |
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05mommy09
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Re: someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
I find myself "forgiving" but never forgetting no matter how hard I try.... (So I guess thats no forgiving 100%)
I forgive to the extent that...Im no longer mad or upset...BUT in the back of my mind...its always there!!!
I struggle with this BIG time... when you find the answer- let me know
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| Posted 1/16/06 8:51 PM |
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peabody
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Re: someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
Posted by Princessmaris
I find myself "forgiving" but never forgetting no matter how hard I try.... (So I guess thats no forgiving 100%)
I forgive to the extent that...Im no longer mad or upset...BUT in the back of my mind...its always there!!!
I struggle with this BIG time... when you find the answer- let me know
I think this is how I am.
Regarding my own personal situation, I have forgiven and for the most part I am past the hurt and anger.
But I won't forgot.
In my opinon, I think you forgive when you aren't experiencing the hurt feelings. I think it is normal not to forget.
Are you still experiencing hurt and anger feelings?
Also, it takes time to for those feelings to subside.
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| Posted 1/17/06 12:22 AM |
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hailiesmom
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Re: someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
it's impossible to forget... forgive? if the person is really sorry for hurting y ou, shows it, proves it, and you personally can move on, i guess that is forgiveness... but it takes more then you to gain that back. it is a team effort!
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| Posted 5/31/07 8:15 PM |
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DRMom
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Re: someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
I'm a big believer if you listen to your instincts they usually won't steer you wrong. If you find over months the anger is still there this is probably not something you can forgive. You have to some to peace with things or you'll never have any!
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| Posted 5/31/07 8:26 PM |
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HarleyGirlFLA
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Re: someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
Posted by BobBsWife
I find that I really can never move on! I try not to hold a grudge but it is very difficult. I don't feel it everyday but something may spark a memory and it starts a whirl-wind of emotions.
Me too.
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| Posted 5/31/07 9:33 PM |
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islandersgirl74
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Re: someone breaks your trust, you want to forgive and move on but
Posted by Princessmaris
I find myself "forgiving" but never forgetting no matter how hard I try.... (So I guess thats no forgiving 100%)
I forgive to the extent that...Im no longer mad or upset...BUT in the back of my mind...its always there!!!
I struggle with this BIG time... when you find the answer- let me know
same here!!!
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