Sorry, I need to vent about DH

Okay, DS's baptism is on Sunday. We're having the party here, in our backyard after. DH and FIL have been working on a project in the backyard, and though it is almost done, DH seems to get a new idea to add to it every day!

Now, I have not been able to go do any shopping to prepare, b/c I want to go w/o DS (it will be SO much faster) and I have not been able to get much cleaning done either.

Oh yeah, and I'm sick! I can't win!

I wanted to get a haircut (haven't had one since b4 I was PG), yeah THAT's not going to happen.

DH said he'd help clean. Yeah right. I asked when he'd help, he said after he is done outside. PS we've both been up since 7am, guarantee he'll be "too tired" to help me later!!

Re: Sorry, I need to vent about DH

When he says he is too tired, kick him in the shins and tell him it's his wake up call!!!

Re: Sorry, I need to vent about DH

i know all about "too tired"

mine gets up at the 3 or 4am feeding and then sleeps until 8am. (he works 15 min. away and doesn't ahve to be in until 9)

meanwhile, i get up at 5am everyday so i can shower/do my hair/makeup AND hang out with DS before work. which is why i don't get up at 3 or 4am...i'd be up for the day at those times. DH complains he's sooooo tired from the 3am feeding yet he gets a good 4 more hours of sleep in after it (we both pass out by 10pm). meanwhile, i am actually up beignn productive 3 hours more than him and i dn't complain about my exhaustion. makes me want to scream.

Re: Sorry, I need to vent about DH

I can totally understand your frustration. Can you get a cleaning lady over, even if it's just a one time thing? It shouldn't all fall on your shoulders.

Re: Sorry, I need to vent about DH

hope it works out can't wait to see pics. Of you little man