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sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

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Daisy32
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sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

I'm 16dpo and still havent gotten AF. I'm too chicken to test b/c I'm afraid of the disappointment. I've been experiencing AF cramping for the last few days but she hasnt shown yet. My question is have any of you actually experienced what you though was AF cramping and still get your BFP? Thanks in advance and congratulations on your soon to be bundles of joy.

Message edited 6/17/2008 11:24:34 AM.

Posted 6/17/08 11:23 AM
 
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MrsS2005
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

I did. I thought AF was definitely coming. Then, the cramps stopped and AF never showed. I took a test for fun, never thinking I was actually pregnant, and it was a faint BFP. Good luck! Chat Icon

Posted 6/17/08 11:25 AM
 

neener1211
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

Yes, it is called implantation cramping. Go test, that is the only way you'll know for sure! Good Luck!!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/17/08 11:25 AM
 

sunflowerjesss
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

I definitely had cramping before my BFP. But I tested 3 days before AF was due and got a BFP.

The cramping was slightly different then AF cramping. Sort of in a different location and not quite as strong/consistent.

Posted 6/17/08 11:26 AM
 

tann22
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??



Yeap I had cramping, I thought AF was
on her way. TEST!!

Posted 6/17/08 11:28 AM
 

Daisy32
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

i wanna test but I know I'll be so disappointed if it comes out negative Chat Icon Chat Icon
Plus DH and I had to do IUI and I dont know how many more of these I can afford.

Posted 6/17/08 11:30 AM
 

neener1211
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

Posted by daisy32

i wanna test but I know I'll be so disappointed if it comes out negative Chat Icon Chat Icon
Plus DH and I had to do IUI and I dont know how many more of these I can afford.




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Posted 6/17/08 11:36 AM
 

DeniseMarie
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

yes! i would swear almost every night that i was going to wake up with AF and she never showed.

Posted 6/17/08 11:40 AM
 

dgirl
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

Yes. I was sure she was coming. I had all the regular AF symptoms.

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Posted 6/17/08 11:49 AM
 

headoverheels
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

i remember i was SO upset when i started having AF cramps at 6DPO, i really thought AF was early.

then i tested at 10DPO and i got my BFP Chat Icon

i would say that cramping for several days is a very good sign - especially at 16DPO with no sign of AF. i would definitely test. we are ALL here for you. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/17/08 11:50 AM
 

Daisy32
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

Posted by headoverheels

i remember i was SO upset when i started having AF cramps at 6DPO, i really thought AF was early.

then i tested at 10DPO and i got my BFP Chat Icon

i would say that cramping for several days is a very good sign - especially at 16DPO with no sign of AF. i would definitely test. we are ALL here for you. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



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Posted 6/17/08 11:55 AM
 

1stimemom
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

Definately. I was a week late before I tested b/c I was sure AF was coming. Just test, we are here for you either way. Keep us updated. Good luck!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

ETA - you did an IUI and the doc didn't have you come in for bloodwork yet?Chat Icon

Message edited 6/17/2008 12:01:44 PM.

Posted 6/17/08 12:00 PM
 

Daisy32
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

Posted by 1stimemom

Definately. I was a week late before I tested b/c I was sure AF was coming. Just test, we are here for you either way. Keep us updated. Good luck!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

ETA - you did an IUI and the doc didn't have you come in for bloodwork yet?Chat Icon



thanks for the kind words Chat Icon

I'm going for bloodwork on Thurs.....I know I was supposd to go sooner but as you can probably tell by now....I am trying to put off any disapointment for as long as possible. I must sound like a nut to you guys LOL

Posted 6/17/08 12:09 PM
 

headoverheels
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

Posted by daisy32

Posted by 1stimemom

Definately. I was a week late before I tested b/c I was sure AF was coming. Just test, we are here for you either way. Keep us updated. Good luck!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

ETA - you did an IUI and the doc didn't have you come in for bloodwork yet?Chat Icon



thanks for the kind words Chat Icon

I'm going for bloodwork on Thurs.....I know I was supposd to go sooner but as you can probably tell by now....I am trying to put off any disapointment for as long as possible. I must sound like a nut to you guys LOL



not at all!!! IF is such a difficult journey, sometimes you just need to reduce the total amount of potential disappointments you can handle just to make it through the day Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/17/08 12:16 PM
 

Daisy32
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

Posted by headoverheels

Posted by daisy32

Posted by 1stimemom

Definately. I was a week late before I tested b/c I was sure AF was coming. Just test, we are here for you either way. Keep us updated. Good luck!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

ETA - you did an IUI and the doc didn't have you come in for bloodwork yet?Chat Icon



thanks for the kind words Chat Icon

I'm going for bloodwork on Thurs.....I know I was supposd to go sooner but as you can probably tell by now....I am trying to put off any disapointment for as long as possible. I must sound like a nut to you guys LOL



not at all!!! IF is such a difficult journey, sometimes you just need to reduce the total amount of potential disappointments you can handle just to make it through the day Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Thanks you hit the nail on the head.
And thanks again to everyone else. Chat Icon

Posted 6/18/08 11:53 AM
 

cjik
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

Yes, I had AF cramping right around the time AF was due, and was upset that yet another month had gone by without conceiving (it took us a long time).

I kept checking, but no AF. A couple days later I took a home test and got my BFP.

Good luck! I hope this is it for you!

Posted 6/18/08 12:04 PM
 

Katie111806
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

When was AF due? I know what you about being scared to test.

I actually tested at 10DPO (may have even been 9DPO because I'm not exactly sure when I ovulated) because I was SOOOOO convinced that it was going to be a BFN because of all the cramping I had. I had promised DH I wouldn't test until AF was late so boy was I in trouble when it came up BFP. Chat Icon The cramps can be a really good sign - I hope they are for you! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/18/08 12:05 PM
 

Daisy32
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

Posted by Katie111806

When was AF due? I know what you about being scared to test.

I actually tested at 10DPO (may have even been 9DPO because I'm not exactly sure when I ovulated) because I was SOOOOO convinced that it was going to be a BFN because of all the cramping I had. I had promised DH I wouldn't test until AF was late so boy was I in trouble when it came up BFP. Chat Icon The cramps can be a really good sign - I hope they are for you! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Hi Katie....AF was due on 6/10. BUT I took clomid this month and some girls have said that clomid makes your period late. I called the RE's office and the nurse there said she never heard of clomid making you late.... so I dont know what to think.
I go for a blood test on Friday so we'll see what happens.

Posted 6/18/08 12:19 PM
 

angnick
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Re: sorry to crash ladies but maybe you can answer a ??

If it makes you feel better- just wait until the blood test results come back. - If you can hold it in that long without testing..

To be honest with you- I am having cramping too- it is implanation and the uterus making room.

Since we o'd around the same time, it could very well be that you are pg.

I am saying prayers for you. I hope it worked this month!

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Posted 6/18/08 12:47 PM
 
 

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