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"So...when are YOU two having kids?"

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MrsRivera
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Beth

"So...when are YOU two having kids?"

Self-explanatory.

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Posted 3/30/08 7:38 PM
 
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SweetTooth
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Lauren

Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

Worst question in the WORLD!

Posted 3/30/08 8:00 PM
 

ihilani
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alias

Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

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There's always another question:
"When are you going to have a boyfriend???"
"When are you going to get married?"
"When are you going to buy a house?"
"When are you going to have a baby?"

For me, I know when people are concerned when they STOP asking and move to this weird state of pity.
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Posted 3/30/08 8:32 PM
 

mommy-of-2-angels
It's all about Sophia

Member since 9/07

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Laurie

Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

ta i know all about that oneChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/30/08 8:42 PM
 

MrsRbk
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Michelle

Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

Wish people could learn to mind their own business.

Posted 3/30/08 9:57 PM
 

Hofstra26
Love to Bake!

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Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

People are just clueless sometimes!!

Posted 3/30/08 10:37 PM
 

-BabyMiracle-
When will my ship come in?

Member since 9/07

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J

Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

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In fact I got that question TWICE today...yep on just a normal Sunday....no family get together or special day of any kind. Still, twice.

Posted 3/30/08 10:55 PM
 

MrsMessina
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Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

lol--- been there- some people are so dumb Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/30/08 11:07 PM
 

CaseyGirl
Mommy to 3 Boys :)

Member since 5/05

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Jen - counting my blessings...

Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

I always say "working on it" and leave it at that Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/31/08 7:07 AM
 

Bxgell2
Perfection

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Beth

Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I feel your pain - at least once a week I am told how horrible I am for not giving my child a sibling. People s!ck, and there's not much you can do about it, except to vent on here and get lots of hugs Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/31/08 9:03 AM
 

Daisy32
Mommy

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Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

I get that ALL THE TIME....how I would love to just go right up to that person and say "mind your own &%$&ng business!!!"
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Posted 3/31/08 10:55 AM
 

BA2008
Need to find some hope!

Member since 2/08

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Beth -Ann

Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

I like to tell them all the details so they are sorry they askedChat Icon Chat Icon

You know I caught myself saying it to someone recently. Then I realized, people only say it because they have nothing else to say and they feel they need to say something to you. We live in a cookie cutter society.

At least we know better (or I should have).

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Posted 3/31/08 11:53 AM
 

LIPrincess
Foxy Lady

Member since 6/05

1610 total posts

Name:
Jaimie

Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

My answer is "I have three dogs". Not that I am comparing the two, but I am hoping they stop the question right there and they usually do.

Posted 3/31/08 12:03 PM
 

LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis

Member since 8/06

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L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)

Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

Most people don't ask me anymore because I lost a child at 36 weeks...but I did get that question a lot.

One day this guy at my job asked me (even after my loss). I didn't want to explain my IF issues, but he obviously knew about my son. I just said I wasn't ready yet. Can you believe he asked me why not?

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Posted 3/31/08 1:13 PM
 

IrishLasss334
I'll be there soon!

Member since 1/08

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Patty

Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

I have always had a snappy come-back depending on the person who asked...so they would never ask again.

My MIL lives with her boyfriend..I don't really care if they ever get married...she once said "when are you going to give me a give a grandchild?" I said, "oh, when are you and Bob going to get married?" That stopped it right there.

Posted 3/31/08 1:27 PM
 

Daisy32
Mommy

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Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

Posted by IrishLass

I have always had a snappy come-back depending on the person who asked...so they would never ask again.

My MIL lives with her boyfriend..I don't really care if they ever get married...she once said "when are you going to give me a give a grandchild?" I said, "oh, when are you and Bob going to get married?" That stopped it right there.



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Posted 3/31/08 2:44 PM
 

MrsRivera
2 under 2...whew!!

Member since 2/07

9876 total posts

Name:
Beth

Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

Posted by LaurenExp

Most people don't ask me anymore because I lost a child at 36 weeks...



Oh Lauren--I'm so sorry Chat Icon

Posted 3/31/08 4:01 PM
 

LIBOUND
Texting king

Member since 10/05

5289 total posts

Name:
Suzy

Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

After 2 years and 5 iui's and finally a healthy DS, they now ask "so, are you going to try right away for another one"...um, yeah, let me just shoot out another $5g's (my out of pocket last year) out of my azz and poof a baby will come...

I know the feeling....

Posted 4/1/08 12:55 PM
 

CAH127
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Member since 7/07

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Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

Posted by SweetTooth

Worst question in the WORLD!



I agree! I think it is so rude to ask and cannot understand why and how people ask.

Posted 4/1/08 3:28 PM
 

ynot2
LIF Adolescent

Member since 3/08

695 total posts

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Re: "So...when are YOU two having kids?"

Seriously - I cannot stand when people ask me that! I have had about 4 people at ask me that question in the last week. Some woman at work actually congratulated me! I was like "what are you congratulating me for?!" I wish I had something good like that to share!
If they only had a clue.......................

Posted 4/1/08 6:53 PM
 
 

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