LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?

Posted By Message

Lucky09
2017!

Member since 1/06

7537 total posts

Name:
DW

Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?

My boss wants to send DH and I on a spa weekend in Dec which is SO nice... but here's the thing:

DH + I are planning a long vacation in Dec to go to Costa Rica. I haven't requested the time off yet and was planning on asking next week when we have booked our hotels.

I know she is offering to do this as a gift, but am afraid I will look spoiled/ungrateful if I take a long weekend to go to the spa and then take 6 days off from work for another vacation within a 3 week timespan...

What do you think?

ETA: This is the Spa....Mirbeau Spa

The town does a recreation of scenes from Charles Dickens "A Christmas Carol" every weekend in December - they have characters walking around in costume. She says its great.
External Image

Message edited 10/4/2007 5:25:11 PM.

Posted 10/4/07 4:44 PM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

quasi3
LIF Adult

Member since 7/07

1764 total posts

Name:
Stacey

Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?

If you are taking your time to go on vacation I can't see that being a problem.

Message edited 10/4/2007 4:45:59 PM.

Posted 10/4/07 4:45 PM
 

Kara
Now Zagat Rated!

Member since 3/07

13217 total posts

Name:
They call me "Tater Salad"

Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?

Say, "That's so generous. I was meaning to ask you for x dates off for our trip to Costa Rica in December. This would be such a nice way to start off our vacation!"

Posted 10/4/07 4:47 PM
 

Ginger123
Sooo happy

Member since 8/07

1235 total posts

Name:
dana

Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?

tell the truth asap..

Posted 10/4/07 4:53 PM
 

Lanabean
Yoginis

Member since 11/05

9202 total posts

Name:
Lana

Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?

Say that you were "meaning" to ask for the days off but thank you so much.....etc. It's fine; you have a nice boss!

Posted 10/4/07 4:54 PM
 

JessInCA
live laugh love

Member since 8/06

5082 total posts

Name:
Jess

Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?

I would mention the trip you have planned ASAP. You won't look ungrateful, just busy! Chat Icon

Posted 10/4/07 4:58 PM
 

lvdolphins
My Loves!

Member since 5/05

46292 total posts

Name:

Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?

Posted by Kara

Say, "That's so generous. I was meaning to ask you for x dates off for our trip to Costa Rica in December. This would be such a nice way to start off our vacation!"




ITA

Posted 10/4/07 5:26 PM
 

Lucky09
2017!

Member since 1/06

7537 total posts

Name:
DW

Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?

But the problem is, when she first mentioned it to me, we hadn't booked our vacation yet. So I didn't say anything about it...

Now that we are planning it, I feel funny. I feel like it will seem like we are ungrateful or something... ya know? Like how many vacations does 1 person need?

Posted 10/4/07 5:40 PM
 

Ginger123
Sooo happy

Member since 8/07

1235 total posts

Name:
dana

Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?

Posted by MrsNYPDsGirl

But the problem is, when she first mentioned it to me, we hadn't booked our vacation yet. So I didn't say anything about it...

Now that we are planning it, I feel funny. I feel like it will seem like we are ungrateful or something... ya know? Like how many vacations does 1 person need?



just say your hubby suprised you and you wanted to let her know asap bc you diddnt want to look ungrateful

Posted 10/4/07 7:15 PM
 

Kara
Now Zagat Rated!

Member since 3/07

13217 total posts

Name:
They call me "Tater Salad"

Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?

Do you have the vacation time from work? If so, I see no problem.

Just approach her about it ASAP and let her know what's up. I'm sure she'll understand that you are entitled to your vacations!

Posted 10/4/07 7:16 PM
 

TeddyBear922
LIF Adult

Member since 8/06

1265 total posts

Name:
Chris

Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?

just say your hubby suprised you and you wanted to let her know asap bc you diddnt want to look ungrateful


I would do this! Chat Icon

Posted 10/5/07 9:02 AM
 

MsMBV
:P

Member since 5/05

28602 total posts

Name:
Me

Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?

Posted by Kara

Say, "That's so generous. I was meaning to ask you for x dates off for our trip to Costa Rica in December. This would be such a nice way to start off our vacation!"

Great suggestion.

Posted 10/5/07 9:03 AM
 
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
Gift Help?!?!!? (for my boss) Jesaroo 10/20/06 3 Families Helping Families ™
Boss' 50th B-day gift - need ideas! SweetestOfPeas 10/9/06 14 Families Helping Families ™
Wedding Gift or $ for the boss? BikerGrl 4/8/06 10 Families Helping Families ™
Gift from Boss Sandra 12/23/05 1 Families Helping Families ™
Gift question for my boss Cheryl 12/12/05 3 Families Helping Families ™
Do you guys get your boss a holiday gift? CookiePuss 11/29/05 8 Families Helping Families ™
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 353379 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows