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Lucky09
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Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?
My boss wants to send DH and I on a spa weekend in Dec which is SO nice... but here's the thing:
DH + I are planning a long vacation in Dec to go to Costa Rica. I haven't requested the time off yet and was planning on asking next week when we have booked our hotels.
I know she is offering to do this as a gift, but am afraid I will look spoiled/ungrateful if I take a long weekend to go to the spa and then take 6 days off from work for another vacation within a 3 week timespan...
What do you think?
ETA: This is the Spa....Mirbeau Spa
The town does a recreation of scenes from Charles Dickens "A Christmas Carol" every weekend in December - they have characters walking around in costume. She says its great.
Message edited 10/4/2007 5:25:11 PM.
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quasi3
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Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?
If you are taking your time to go on vacation I can't see that being a problem.
Message edited 10/4/2007 4:45:59 PM.
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| Posted 10/4/07 4:45 PM |
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Kara
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Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?
Say, "That's so generous. I was meaning to ask you for x dates off for our trip to Costa Rica in December. This would be such a nice way to start off our vacation!"
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| Posted 10/4/07 4:47 PM |
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Ginger123
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Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?
tell the truth asap..
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| Posted 10/4/07 4:53 PM |
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Lanabean
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Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?
Say that you were "meaning" to ask for the days off but thank you so much.....etc. It's fine; you have a nice boss!
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| Posted 10/4/07 4:54 PM |
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JessInCA
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Jess
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Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?
I would mention the trip you have planned ASAP. You won't look ungrateful, just busy! 
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| Posted 10/4/07 4:58 PM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?
Posted by Kara
Say, "That's so generous. I was meaning to ask you for x dates off for our trip to Costa Rica in December. This would be such a nice way to start off our vacation!"
ITA
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| Posted 10/4/07 5:26 PM |
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Lucky09
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DW
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Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?
But the problem is, when she first mentioned it to me, we hadn't booked our vacation yet. So I didn't say anything about it...
Now that we are planning it, I feel funny. I feel like it will seem like we are ungrateful or something... ya know? Like how many vacations does 1 person need?
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| Posted 10/4/07 5:40 PM |
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Ginger123
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Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?
Posted by MrsNYPDsGirl
But the problem is, when she first mentioned it to me, we hadn't booked our vacation yet. So I didn't say anything about it...
Now that we are planning it, I feel funny. I feel like it will seem like we are ungrateful or something... ya know? Like how many vacations does 1 person need?
just say your hubby suprised you and you wanted to let her know asap bc you diddnt want to look ungrateful
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| Posted 10/4/07 7:15 PM |
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Kara
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Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?
Do you have the vacation time from work? If so, I see no problem.
Just approach her about it ASAP and let her know what's up. I'm sure she'll understand that you are entitled to your vacations!
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| Posted 10/4/07 7:16 PM |
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TeddyBear922
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Chris
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Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?
just say your hubby suprised you and you wanted to let her know asap bc you diddnt want to look ungrateful
I would do this! 
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| Posted 10/5/07 9:02 AM |
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MsMBV
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Re: Spa Weekend Gift from Boss - WWYD?
Posted by Kara
Say, "That's so generous. I was meaning to ask you for x dates off for our trip to Costa Rica in December. This would be such a nice way to start off our vacation!"
Great suggestion.
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| Posted 10/5/07 9:03 AM |
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