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Were you spanked?

Forum Opinion Poll
Yes 135 51.14%
No 48 18.18%
Rarely 75 28.41%
Other 6 2.27%
 

Spankin' Poll

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rileysmama
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Member since 10/09

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Spankin' Poll

Posted 4/12/10 4:20 PM
 

Nifheim
allo

Member since 1/09

5476 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: Spankin' Poll

i was never spanked but my brother was my mom thought that was mean so she switched to screaming and throwing things at me instead.

Posted 4/12/10 4:22 PM
 

rileysmama
needing a vacation..!

Member since 10/09

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Re: Spankin' Poll

Posted by Nifheim

i was never spanked but my brother was my mom thought that was mean so she switched to screaming and throwing things at me instead.



Chat Icon that doesn't sound any better.Chat Icon

Posted 4/12/10 4:23 PM
 

NinaLemon
It's a boy!!!

Member since 10/07

6453 total posts

Name:
Jeannine

Re: Spankin' Poll

My parents didn't spank, my Mom just had this look where we knew she meant business. I'm not sure what it was that we were afraid was going to happen since they never hit us, but when she put on that face we listened!


I need to learn that look!Chat Icon

Posted 4/12/10 4:24 PM
 

PaddysGirl
Little princess is here!

Member since 4/07

5923 total posts

Name:
Crystal

Re: Spankin' Poll

I chose other bc I wouldn't get a full out "spanking" but I would get smacked (wooden spoons, hands, whatever)

ETA: My mother would scream like no other at us, over the smallest things as well. It wasn't fun growing up all the time

Message edited 4/12/2010 4:26:57 PM.

Posted 4/12/10 4:25 PM
 

MrsRbk
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Member since 1/06

19197 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: Spankin' Poll

Yes, and more often than not it was with the belt and not the hand.

That and screaming in my house growing up

Posted 4/12/10 4:28 PM
 

Jenn627
Laaaaaaaambert!

Member since 5/08

9818 total posts

Name:
Jenn

Re: Spankin' Poll

Posted by MrsRbk

Yes, and more often than not it was with the belt and not the hand.

That and screaming in my house growing up



Ditto.

I was very handsy and also a yeller up to about 4 yrs ago..... I've gotten loads better.

Soooooo - I will definitely spank my kids but no belt or other weapon (wooden spoon, hairbrush, etc). And I will try not to raise my voice. It doesn't accomplish much.

Posted 4/12/10 4:36 PM
 

Kara
Now Zagat Rated!

Member since 3/07

13217 total posts

Name:
They call me "Tater Salad"

Re: Spankin' Poll

Never.

Posted 4/12/10 4:39 PM
 

Pray4Baby2010
<3 Cutest Giants Fan

Member since 10/09

5796 total posts

Name:
MB

Re: Spankin' Poll

on occasion and I usually earned it Chat Icon

Almost always was a hand although my mom did keep a wooden spoon in the car in case we acted up on road trips

Posted 4/12/10 4:39 PM
 

eddiesmommy
best buds!

Member since 5/09

11524 total posts

Name:
Melissa

Re: Spankin' Poll

yes and Im not remotely damaged from it.

Posted 4/12/10 4:49 PM
 

SoinLove
Making big changes

Member since 5/05

16541 total posts

Name:
Kristin

Re: Spankin' Poll

It was a rarity, but it happened and was always well-earned. It never had a negative impact in my life.

Posted 4/12/10 4:52 PM
 

Melimaup
love lockdown

Member since 11/07

1509 total posts

Name:
Melissa

Re: Spankin' Poll

Spanked would be an understatement Chat Icon I got pulled by my hair, smacked..you name it! No negative impact on my life either Chat Icon

Posted 4/12/10 4:55 PM
 

johnsae
Sip.

Member since 3/06

18677 total posts

Name:

Re: Spankin' Poll

yep and I believe in it as well

Posted 4/12/10 4:58 PM
 

DiamondGirl
You are my I love you

Member since 7/09

18802 total posts

Name:
DiamondMama

Re: Spankin' Poll

Yes and as I said in the other thread when I was it was deserved !

I am sure I will do the same when we have kids!

Posted 4/12/10 5:10 PM
 

WaterGirl
Momma!!!

Member since 1/10

1060 total posts

Name:
Amanda

Re: Spankin' Poll

I got spanked and everytime I did, I totally deserved it!

Posted 4/12/10 5:18 PM
 

Otherme
Square head cutie pants

Member since 3/06

6899 total posts

Name:

Re: Spankin' Poll

I only remember actually getting spanked a few times, and i know it was definitely because i deserved it.

My mother's look and tone of voice were usually enough to make me shrink back from whatever i was doing!

Posted 4/12/10 5:26 PM
 

CAMCaps
Live Laugh Love Run

Member since 6/07

4922 total posts

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Re: Spankin' Poll

I as never spanked and neither were any of my siblings. My mom did have a look though that meant business.

Posted 4/12/10 5:51 PM
 

MsSissy
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Member since 3/07

39159 total posts

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Re: Spankin' Poll

As an adult...yesChat Icon

As a child...no.

Posted 4/12/10 6:09 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Spankin' Poll

I was never spanked. I got the "LOOK OF DEATH" and knew better than to do anything that would cause me bodily harm. I inherited that look and plan on using it on Abby and the one to come.

Posted 4/12/10 6:21 PM
 

2PreciousBlessings
The Perfect Pair

Member since 5/06

19861 total posts

Name:
Best Wife & Mommy

Re: Spankin' Poll

Posted by johnsae

yep and I believe in it as well



Same!!!

Posted 4/12/10 6:29 PM
 

MrsProfessor
hi

Member since 5/05

14279 total posts

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Re: Spankin' Poll

Yes. Have no intentions of spanking my own kid. I think it would have happened by now. Chat Icon

Posted 4/12/10 6:35 PM
 

checka
She's here!

Member since 5/05

1769 total posts

Name:
Me

Re: Spankin' Poll

I was rarely spanked as a child and when I was it was for something big. Mostly my parents just gave me "the look" and I stopped whatever I was doing.

Posted 4/12/10 7:00 PM
 

pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe

Member since 9/05

32436 total posts

Name:
Stephanie

Re: Spankin' Poll

my sister was spanked a good bit (she was a handful Chat Icon ), I was pretty good so rarely but yes, my parents would spank us occasionally

Posted 4/12/10 7:07 PM
 

headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

Member since 6/07

42079 total posts

Name:
LB

Re: Spankin' Poll

I chose "yes" but I was not just spanked, most of the time I was slapped hard (in the head/arms/torso area).

My children will not be hit Chat Icon save for the occasionally hand slap in dangerous situations (such as near a hot stove). I was not abuses per se but I have VIVID memories of being hit, especially the time I was pushed to the ground and pounded on the back by my father - at age seven - for talking back to my mother.

ETA: I don't feel that I was very negatively impacted by it, though I do think it caused me, in turn, to hit my sisters a lot while fighting... but I just do not want my children to be able to include hitting them in their memories of me. Chat Icon

Message edited 4/12/2010 7:13:10 PM.

Posted 4/12/10 7:11 PM
 

Ma-n-Pa2008
Mommy's Big Boy

Member since 3/09

2584 total posts

Name:
Melissa

Re: Spankin' Poll

Posted by Otherme

I only remember actually getting spanked a few times, and i know it was definitely because i deserved it.

My mother's look and tone of voice were usually enough to make me shrink back from whatever i was doing!



this is exactly what i was going to write! i remember the 4-5 times i was spanked and it was only because i did something really bad and never did that again!

My mom yelled at us more than anything and a look from my dad was enough to stop! for me at least!

My husband on the other hand got the wooden spoon and chased by his mom quite a few times.

Posted 4/12/10 7:15 PM
 
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