Spinoff- how would you like to hear hard news- in person or anonymous

I was thinking about the "possible cheating husband" post and I was wondering, if it happened to me, how would I like to know. I think definitely in person. If it was anonymous- I would be so uncomfortable with the thought of people talking about me and my marriage behind my back. It would make me feel better just to be confronted.

Re: Spinoff- how would you like to hear hard news- in person or anonymous

Is not knowing at all an option? I have never had to deal with this and maybe my mind would change if I had, but I think if someone knew I was being cheated on, I would like them to keep it to themselves.

I was at the beach one time, and my friend had just bought a new mustang convertible. She was at work, but I saw her husband in it, driving around a blonde girl in a bikini. It made me feel sick. As much as I wanted to tell her, I felt like it was not my place. Maybe it would blow over, maybe not. But in time what ever happens happens...

Re: Spinoff- how would you like to hear hard news- in person or anonymous

I would definetly want to know in person!