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bayla
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Spinoff to does everyone know each other
Was/is anyone nervous when they attend GTG for the first time? I will be going to my first one this weekend and since i haven't met anyone on the boards yet or even get the chance to be online a lot, i am actually a little nervous LOL Just wondering if i am the only one to feel this way
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Posted 10/18/07 12:23 PM |
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
Yes and no. I just go with the flow usually.
I started GTGs while on LIW.
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Posted 10/18/07 12:32 PM |
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cgdg61606
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
As you know, I haven't gone to one yet, but I DO plan to. I don't think I'll be nervous, just maybe a little anxious in hoping that everybody has a good time and enjoys each other's company. I really would love to make friends with people who have kids my son's age so they too can become friends as they get older.
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Posted 10/18/07 12:32 PM |
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Diana1215
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
I have to say that I don't think I would go to a big GTG alone. I'm kind of a wimp like that.
I've been to smaller ones - and didn't have a problem with that...it's just the bigger ones I think that I would maybe feel awkward.
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Posted 10/18/07 12:36 PM |
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LInative
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
I woudl be excited/nervous but since i live out of state now I dont' get to go to anything.I will be up in April though :)
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Posted 10/18/07 12:52 PM |
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FeliciaDP
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
I admit I was soo nervous when I went to my first GTG (back on LIWs) many moons ago I am very shy until I get comfortable around people and even though I'd chatted with the people I met for awhile "online" I was so anxious about making a good impression in person
That said... I had nothing to worry about. It was a wonderful GTG, we all felt like old friends who were just hanging out, and we had a blast.. ! (and are now best friends in real life as a result of that gtg!)
Since then , I've gone to many other GTGs and if I do go to any that have people I've never met, I do still get a bit of that nervous excitement going but quickly it fades and it's always a good time!
If a wimp like me can do it, anyone can
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Posted 10/18/07 1:12 PM |
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Kotka
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
I haven't been to an LIF GTG.. I have been to a few LIW ones.. I am a little shy as well.. I am uncomfortable until I get to know the person and see them a few times..
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Posted 10/18/07 1:17 PM |
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leighla
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
Posted by bayla
Was/is anyone nervous when they attend GTG for the first time? I will be going to my first one this weekend and since i haven't met anyone on the boards yet or even get the chance to be online a lot, i am actually a little nervous LOL Just wondering if i am the only one to feel this way
I was too.
I'll admit I "studied" up on the people I was meeting before the first GTG so I knew I would have something to say to them.
And by studied, I mean I looked at recent posts to remind myself who was who.
I didn't stalk them or anything.
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Posted 10/18/07 1:18 PM |
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pmpkn087
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
I've never been to a GTG, but I know that I m usually a quiet person when I'm in a new setting. When people introduce themselves to me and I feel comfy, you can't shut me up
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Posted 10/18/07 1:24 PM |
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
I am going to my first in Dec at gymboree. I am looking forward to it. I don't know anyone but I am sure it'll be a nice time.
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Posted 10/18/07 1:24 PM |
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dawnygirl25
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
Posted by pmpkn087
I've never been to a GTG, but I know that I m usually a quiet person when I'm in a new setting. When people introduce themselves to me and I feel comfy, you can't shut me up
same here
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Posted 10/18/07 1:25 PM |
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DJJ914
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
Posted by dawnygirl25
Posted by pmpkn087
I've never been to a GTG, but I know that I m usually a quiet person when I'm in a new setting. When people introduce themselves to me and I feel comfy, you can't shut me up
same here
I am the same way!
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Posted 10/18/07 1:28 PM |
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Diana1215
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
Posted by leighla
Posted by bayla
Was/is anyone nervous when they attend GTG for the first time? I will be going to my first one this weekend and since i haven't met anyone on the boards yet or even get the chance to be online a lot, i am actually a little nervous LOL Just wondering if i am the only one to feel this way
I was too.
I'll admit I "studied" up on the people I was meeting before the first GTG so I knew I would have something to say to them.
And by studied, I mean I looked at recent posts to remind myself who was who.
I didn't stalk them or anything.
You stalker!!!
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Posted 10/18/07 1:30 PM |
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mitabtrfly
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
Posted by pmpkn087
I've never been to a GTG, but I know that I m usually a quiet person when I'm in a new setting. When people introduce themselves to me and I feel comfy, you can't shut me up
You and I are the same!!!! I've never been to one either, although I'd love to..just haven't been able to go.
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Posted 10/18/07 1:30 PM |
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SweetCin
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
I went to my first one on LIW about 4 years ago & since then have made some wonderful friends I see often.
At first I was very nervous b/c I didn't know anyone & tend to be quite shy until I'm comfortable around you. Yet it was fine & everyone starts talking (back then about weddings & such & you just automatically jump in)...on here we obviously all have in common that we are mommies so there is always something to say. Don't stress, you'll have a good time!
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Posted 10/18/07 1:34 PM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
My first GTG was actually a fundraiser for Janet. There were so many people there. I brought my sister with me. I was so nervous. It turned out that people came up to me (MrsERod) was the very first and introduced themselves. Ended up having such a great time.
I've attended more after and always so nice to meet more and more people.
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Posted 10/18/07 1:56 PM |
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Well, my entire life, I've had to be in front of people that I didn't know... whether it was dancing, performing, or now presenting at conferences. I am so used to it, it doesn't faze me...
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Posted 10/19/07 6:28 AM |
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
Posted by lvdolphins
My first GTG was actually a fundraiser for Janet. There were so many people there. I brought my sister with me. I was so nervous. It turned out that people came up to me (MrsERod) was the very first and introduced themselves. Ended up having such a great time.
I've attended more after and always so nice to meet more and more people.
Wait - the one on the water??????
I was there!!!!
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Posted 10/19/07 6:28 AM |
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PrincessP
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
I am quite opposite most of the respones posted. I am overly friendly to everyone and aways enjoy having a good time. Maris can vouch for me. When I found out people lived in our development I was right on top of it. We now met blu-ize and I am soon to meet pumpkn. I love meeting new people and love for others to meet new people. I am always introducing and re-introducing. Makes me happy when people have a common bond I understand the anxiety level but I am comfortable with it especially when it comes to dd. Now ask me to do a speech....No thank you
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Posted 10/19/07 7:55 AM |
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PrincessP
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Re: Spinoff to does everyone know each other
Posted by Diana1215
Posted by leighla
Posted by bayla
Was/is anyone nervous when they attend GTG for the first time? I will be going to my first one this weekend and since i haven't met anyone on the boards yet or even get the chance to be online a lot, i am actually a little nervous LOL Just wondering if i am the only one to feel this way
I was too.
I'll admit I "studied" up on the people I was meeting before the first GTG so I knew I would have something to say to them.
And by studied, I mean I looked at recent posts to remind myself who was who.
I didn't stalk them or anything.
You stalker!!!
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Posted 10/19/07 7:57 AM |
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