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AJsMommy122
Stop 2 smell the roses
Member since 5/05 2048 total posts
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Maxine
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Spinoff to forgive and forget..
How many times can you be hurt or "stepped on" before you can no longer forgive?
It dosent have to be exactly how many times, but when is enough, enough??
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Jax430
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Member since 5/05 18919 total posts
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Jackie
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Re: Spinoff to forgive and forget..
uch...unfortunately, I have a history of letting myself be hurt way too many times before no longer forgiving. Enough should be enough long before I decide it is. Wish I had a good answer for you!
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| Posted 9/7/05 5:59 PM |
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
Member since 5/05 24460 total posts
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Tania
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Re: Spinoff to forgive and forget..
I would think when someone did physical harm to any of my loved ones.
That would be it for me.
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| Posted 9/7/05 5:59 PM |
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suvenR
designer mutt
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Re: Spinoff to forgive and forget..
it depends. I stopped being friends with my high school best friend during our college years the 2nd time she ditched me for a guy.
my one BM, I tried calling her about a million times before I gave up on her.
So, it really depends on the situation
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| Posted 9/7/05 6:00 PM |
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lvdolphins
My Loves!
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Re: Spinoff to forgive and forget..
There is a long story I have about one of my brothers exes. Im not getting into it.
Lets just say "I won my brother back!"
For what she did to him, me, and my family, I forgive a little, but I cannot forget!
I dont want to forgive at all! Should I feel guilty! She hurt me a lot!
The good part is he found the "right:" one. They are together 2 years and I am the MOH in their wedding in July! She turned out to be not only my SIL but one of my best friends!
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| Posted 9/7/05 6:03 PM |
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dm24angel
Happiness
Member since 5/05 34581 total posts
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Donna
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Re: Spinoff to forgive and forget..
I would always forgive, but move on from the situation...
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| Posted 9/7/05 6:31 PM |
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
Member since 5/05 26170 total posts
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MrsERod™®
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Re: Spinoff to forgive and forget..
again, it would all depend on the situation and the people involved. some situations would warrant different responses, say if it involved someone you love, vs someone you could give a ratz azz about.
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| Posted 9/7/05 6:35 PM |
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baghag
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Re: Spinoff to forgive and forget..
like other said, it depends on the situation, but in general i have a very limited tolerance for getting hurt.
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| Posted 9/7/05 6:36 PM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: Spinoff to forgive and forget..
Posted by AJsMommy122
How many times can you be hurt or "stepped on" before you can no longer forgive?
It dosent have to be exactly how many times, but when is enough, enough??
GOOD QUESTION!
For me it depends on my friendship to begin with....And the circumstances.
Sometimes i will go the distance....other times i just need to get out
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| Posted 9/7/05 6:39 PM |
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dpli
Daylight savings :)
Member since 5/05 13973 total posts
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D
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Re: Spinoff to forgive and forget..
Depends on what I want out of the relationship. If it is just someone to hang out with, I can let things go. If it is someone I thought I could count on as a true friend, it might only take once or twice for that status to change. Depends on how badly I was hurt too.
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| Posted 9/7/05 9:00 PM |
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Eva Luna
Be kind...life's hard!
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God, bless & heal my DH, JenG's DH Rob & DebG
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Re: Spinoff to forgive and forget..
Posted by dm24angel
I would always forgive, but move on from the situation...
Me too. I'm a huge believer in karma and needing to let go. But I won't stay in toxic relationships...and that includes relatives and friends. I'll always forgive, I can't hold grudges.
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| Posted 9/7/05 9:07 PM |
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luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013
Member since 5/05 21840 total posts
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To a brand new year to a healthier me
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Re: Spinoff to forgive and forget..
well for me i had a best friend a long time ago and she during our elementry school say 6 thgrade she used me and she tried to make me hate my other friends than she called me to apologize after a couple of years have passed than i saw her in stonybrook and she started her crap again so for her i dont forgive and i will never forget.
than one of my exs which lvsdolphins knows
he used me for one thing which i wont get into and he mentally abused me so i will never forgive him and forget but lets say karma got him back!
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| Posted 9/7/05 9:10 PM |
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Bri
I Love You to Pieces!
Member since 5/05 9919 total posts
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Brianne
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Re: Spinoff to forgive and forget..
Unfortunately for me, due to too many past hurts, people get one chance in my book. I tend to write people off fairly quickly. I may not treat them as such, but the wall definitely goes up after just one time.
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| Posted 9/7/05 9:48 PM |
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Re: Spinoff to forgive and forget..
It depends on who it is. If I've mentioned that I'm hurt and it continues to happen, it doesn't take me long to "forget" that person.
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| Posted 9/7/05 10:08 PM |
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hailiesmom
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/07 527 total posts
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Crissie
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Re: Spinoff to forgive and forget..
enough is enough when it becomes a pattern... and not a mistake.
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