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Spinoff to Holiday Gift Giving...who do you exchange gifts with?

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Melbernai
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Spinoff to Holiday Gift Giving...who do you exchange gifts with?

For me it's

DH
Emily

Mom
Dad
Sister Irene
Sister Randi, her DH and their daughter
Brother Cliff, his DW and daughter

FIL
BIL
BIL's step-daughter
and this year it'll be BIL's GF also

Dh's cousin, wife and thier 3 kids...

I get all of my coworkers a paif or christmas socks (it's my thing) and cards, just something little and cute -- we just exchange little things if at all with eachother

Plus the babysitter and some close friends...

I have to say though that Christmas KILLS me.

My DH's family doesn't just get 1-2 gifts for eachother, it's like 15 things for eachother --- so we go crazy on them and it's just getting harder and harder to do as the family grows. I want to put at $ limit on it this year if they'll go for it.

Posted 9/23/06 2:29 PM
 
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VirginiaDeb
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Re: Spinoff to Holiday Gift Giving...who do you exchange gifts with?

Too many freaking people!

DH
Mom
Dad
Step-mom
Step-dad
MIL
FIL
Step-MIL
SIL
Brother
Step-brother
Sister
Grandpa
Grandma
Grandma
Aunt
Aunt
And then we do a Secret Santa.

And that's just family. Chat Icon

Posted 9/23/06 2:33 PM
 

kms717
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Re: Spinoff to Holiday Gift Giving...who do you exchange gifts with?

If I have to list everyone I'm going to break out in hives Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon !!!

About 50 people, most are familly.

Posted 9/23/06 2:35 PM
 

dpli
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D

Re: Spinoff to Holiday Gift Giving...who do you exchange gifts with?

DH
3 siblings and spouses my side
1 sibling & spouse (DH sde)
3 nieces
4 nephews
5 close friends
1 friend's child
Small things for assorted aunts and uncles if we know we will see them
Donate a few toys to the FD or church

It isn't too bad, but I choose not to join any extra secret santas or start new gift giving with friends. I have enough to do.

Posted 9/23/06 2:36 PM
 

KateDevine
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Re: Spinoff to Holiday Gift Giving...who do you exchange gifts with?

Man, we've cut down since we don't do Christmas Eve with DH's extended family anymore, but here goes:

DH
My mom
My Dad
My Sister

DH's sister, her DH and their DD
DH's sister
DH's sister
DH's brother
DH's step-mother

My Aunt &Uncle (usually something small like a bottle of wine)
My 3 cousins
My 2 little cousins

We don't exchange with DH's mother and her girlfriend really. Last year we sent her a really nice bag and she sent us used books on tape, so DH said she is cut offChat Icon

Posted 9/23/06 2:39 PM
 

Goldi0218
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Re: Spinoff to Holiday Gift Giving...who do you exchange gifts with?

The siblings do not give to each other - there are too many of us plus our spouses. so we all give to mom and the nieces and nephews. Mom gives to all of us.

Posted 9/23/06 3:12 PM
 

Phyl
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Re: Spinoff to Holiday Gift Giving...who do you exchange gifts with?

Mom
2 Sisters-we have a limit
Neice
Great Neice & Great Nephew
My 2 DD's
Their boyfriends

I also give Candy or Wine to the Neighbors

Message edited 9/23/2006 3:45:37 PM.

Posted 9/23/06 3:43 PM
 

LIBOUND
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Re: Spinoff to Holiday Gift Giving...who do you exchange gifts with?

Usually only immediate family and one thing we've been doing in my extended family for years:

On Thanksgiving, we put all of our names in a hat and you only have to buy 1 gift with a $50 limit.

For 18 and under we usually buy individual items.

Posted 9/23/06 3:46 PM
 

saraH
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Re: Spinoff to Holiday Gift Giving...who do you exchange gifts with?

immediate family only. dh will buy a gift for his godparents too, but that it.

Posted 9/23/06 4:03 PM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: Spinoff to Holiday Gift Giving...who do you exchange gifts with?

My Dad
My brother
DH's parents
5 nieces and nephews (usually gift cards as they live OOS)
BF
BF's daughter
DH

For the BIL and SIL we decided to do a group charitable donation last year. Much easier and it goes to a good cause.

Posted 9/23/06 4:17 PM
 

MissJones
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Re: Spinoff to Holiday Gift Giving...who do you exchange gifts with?

I've cut down my list A LOT over the years!!!

Mom and step dad
Dad and step mom
MIL/FIL/BIL/SIL -Secret Hannukah person
Niece
Half Bro/Half Sis

DH of course!!!
Grandparents
Aunt and her family in CA
Uncle

My 2 best friends

Aides at school
Security Agen
Custodians
Principal and AP
My class of 27 kids

Maybe something small for our new neighbors, like a bottle of vodka.

Our super and his assistant

Posted 9/23/06 4:23 PM
 

jerrysgirl
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Re: Spinoff to Holiday Gift Giving...who do you exchange gifts with?

Posted by LIBOUND

Usually only immediate family and one thing we've been doing in my extended family for years:

On Thanksgiving, we put all of our names in a hat and you only have to buy 1 gift with a $50 limit.

For 18 and under we usually buy individual items.



this is what we started last year amongst people outside of your current house with a limit of 100. i live with my parents and younger sister, so i can't pick them out of a hat, but i can pick my other brothers and sisters and their significant others who live outside of the house. it helped a lot last year. that cuts out 10 people off my list.. still have 5 under 18 though.

Posted 9/23/06 4:23 PM
 

charon54
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Rebecca

Re: Spinoff to Holiday Gift Giving...who do you exchange gifts with?

My Mom
My Dad
My Brother
My Sister
My Grandma
DH's Mom
DH's Dad
DH's Brother
My best friend

DH's best friends all go out to a nice dinner instead of buying gifts.

Posted 9/23/06 4:45 PM
 
 

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