LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

You must be logged in if you wish to write a forum mail.

Spinoff to letting your kids watch TV..

Posted By Message

LuvMy2Girls
@>---------

Member since 5/05

11165 total posts

Name:
Mommy

Spinoff to letting your kids watch TV..

I'm curious.

I see most of the parents who said their kids watch TV say that there vocabulary/speech/reading is advanced.

How do you know it wouldn't be like that without them watching TV? maybe they are just smart kids to begin with and TV has nothing to do with it?


Chat Icon Can we discuss?

EtA: Don't you think though that just the adult interaction you have with them, with say a book, could do the same thing as TV?

I'm very curious about thisChat Icon

My DD is advanced too with vocab/speech/and loves books. She hardly watches any TV if you count jeopardy and just starting last week, Curious george.

I think they learn just as much if you sit and point out things and interact with them with something-whether it be TV, a newspaper, a book.

I def feel there's no right or wrong, but what's best for your own family situation :)

Message edited 2/25/2008 3:43:48 PM.

Posted 2/25/08 3:33 PM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

nbc188
Best friends!

Member since 12/06

23090 total posts

Name:
C

Re: Spinoff to letting your kids watch TV..

I personally feel it would be the same, but that's just my opinion. Because as long as parents are teaching their kids, interacting, etc....the kids are going to pick it up too. That's my view.

Posted 2/25/08 3:34 PM
 

ckdk
My girls

Member since 5/05

7027 total posts

Name:
Cheryl

Re: Spinoff to letting your kids watch TV..

I don't think DD would be counting in Spanish if it weren't for DoraChat Icon

Posted 2/25/08 3:35 PM
 

LIMOMx2
...

Member since 5/05

24989 total posts

Name:

Re: Spinoff to letting your kids watch TV..

I think Andrew is smart no matter whatChat Icon but I think the wide variety of things he learns is a lot more then I could ever teach him. I wouldn't even think to but I am glad he knows it. If that makes any senseChat Icon

Posted 2/25/08 3:36 PM
 

yankinmanc
Happy Days!

Member since 8/05

18208 total posts

Name:

Re: Spinoff to letting your kids watch TV..

My son likes to watch TV (well while he is doing something else, he never just watches it) and he is a late talker, he doesn't talk much at all.

Posted 2/25/08 3:36 PM
 

FireIslandLove

Member since 5/05

12119 total posts

Name:

Re: Spinoff to letting your kids watch TV..

For my DDs I think it is that one extra time of day they see an image and can relate to it, maybe better. For example, there was an episode of Sesame Street where Elmo had bananas, after seeing them, they have been saying banana and recognizing them since. They characters are animated too and I think that brings more of an interest to what they are watching and learning.

I'm a HUGE fan of SS, its the only show I let DDs watch (95% of the time). They love the number song and when the show isn't on and I sing it, they listen closely and recognize it. Its also another method for me to point out numbers and colors to them.

Posted 2/25/08 3:40 PM
 

GoldenRod
10 years on LIF!

Member since 11/06

26792 total posts

Name:
Shawn

Re: Spinoff to letting your kids watch TV..

DS can read closed captioning. That means he is reading and interpreting pretty fast. There's no way I could get him to read that fast without TV.

I am also not a language/education expert. Most of the shows that DC watch are created by a team of experts, so they have different methods of teaching than I might use. I still do plenty of non-technology based teaching, but the more varied the methods, I think the more successful the education will be.

Posted 2/25/08 4:06 PM
 

LuvMy2Girls
@>---------

Member since 5/05

11165 total posts

Name:
Mommy

Re: Spinoff to letting your kids watch TV..

Posted by GoldenRod

DS can read closed captioning. That means he is reading and interpreting pretty fast. There's no way I could get him to read that fast without TV.

I am also not a language/education expert. Most of the shows that DC watch are created by a team of experts, so they have different methods of teaching than I might use. I still do plenty of non-technology based teaching, but the more varied the methods, I think the more successful the education will be.




That's awesome he can read the closed captioningChat Icon

it's true about the shows they watch being geared to certain age audiences and I'm not debating the positive affects of that.

But to those moms and dads who don't let their kids watch TV under the age of 2, like myself, sometimes the TV debate can get us thinking and 2nd guessing, are we denying our kids a certain resource of learning and information that maybe i cannot provide through books? But then docs and the AAP back up us up about TV prior to age 2. It's so confusing.Chat Icon

No one wants to do harm to their child, but no one wants their kid to be behind the other kids in kindergarden either.
KWIM?

I guess we all do what we think is best and hope we are giving our kids the best we possibly can.Chat Icon

Posted 2/25/08 4:12 PM
 

bicosi
life is a carousel

Member since 7/07

14956 total posts

Name:
M

Re: Spinoff to letting your kids watch TV..

Posted by GoldenRod

DS can read closed captioning. That means he is reading and interpreting pretty fast. There's no way I could get him to read that fast without TV.

I am also not a language/education expert. Most of the shows that DC watch are created by a team of experts, so they have different methods of teaching than I might use. I still do plenty of non-technology based teaching, but the more varied the methods, I think the more successful the education will be.



I agree with this!

I too am no language/education expert and although I do my best to sit down and dedicate my time to my kids to read, play and teach them things, but IMO it doesn't hurt to have the 2.

I truly believe that alot of these reports you read are because alot of parents aren't monitoring what their children are watching and kids are watching show, after show, after show with no other outside interests.

My kids watch educational shows (Sesame Street, Noggin, Disney), where you'll often hear them blurting out answers to Mickey's question or they're doing a dance or blurting out shapes and colors in English or another language or solving some type of puzzle. They aren't watching adult TV shows. I'm very cautious of that.

Chat Icon

Posted 2/25/08 4:20 PM
 

nbc188
Best friends!

Member since 12/06

23090 total posts

Name:
C

Re: Spinoff to letting your kids watch TV..

Posted by sweetness

Posted by GoldenRod

DS can read closed captioning. That means he is reading and interpreting pretty fast. There's no way I could get him to read that fast without TV.

I am also not a language/education expert. Most of the shows that DC watch are created by a team of experts, so they have different methods of teaching than I might use. I still do plenty of non-technology based teaching, but the more varied the methods, I think the more successful the education will be.




That's awesome he can read the closed captioningChat Icon

it's true about the shows they watch being geared to certain age audiences and I'm not debating the positive affects of that.

But to those moms and dads who don't let their kids watch TV under the age of 2, like myself, sometimes the TV debate can get us thinking and 2nd guessing, are we denying our kids a certain resource of learning and information that maybe i cannot provide through books? But then docs and the AAP back up us up about TV prior to age 2. It's so confusing.Chat Icon

No one wants to do harm to their child, but no one wants their kid to be behind the other kids in kindergarden either.
KWIM?

I guess we all do what we think is best and hope we are giving our kids the best we possibly can.Chat Icon




Yes, I feel the exact same way as you. DD is only 8 months, but I feel like she could be picking up stuff from the educational shows. But I think we're all doing well by our kids, no matter what we do-- we are teaching them and care that they learn, so we're all ahead of the game!!

That being said, soon I will probably start putting in an educational video a day or so for her to watch (no more than 30 minutes a day), to take things in. But that's it...I'll have to convince DH to go for that too. IMO, it doesn't hurt to have a little bit of it, as others have said if we don't use it as a babysitter it's probably all positives.

Do what YOU feel is best for you and your girls. I'm sure they're doing fantastic regardless.

ETA: I have no idea if DD will even concentrate on the TV for more than 5 minutes at a time, she's always on the go and I don't know if it will interest her enough...we'll see.

Message edited 2/25/2008 4:24:56 PM.

Posted 2/25/08 4:24 PM
 

LuvMy2Girls
@>---------

Member since 5/05

11165 total posts

Name:
Mommy

Re: Spinoff to letting your kids watch TV..

Posted by nbc188


Yes, I feel the exact same way as you. DD is only 8 months, but I feel like she could be picking up stuff from the educational shows. But I think we're all doing well by our kids, no matter what we do-- we are teaching them and care that they learn, so we're all ahead of the game!!




I feel exactly the same too to everything you saidChat Icon

Dont' get me wrong, i'm not 100% against TV for Gianna and Amelia, it's the mindless watching that worries me and I never want to see that glazed stare on their faces while they watch tv.

when gianna was about 18 months for the 1st time, I put on baby einstein for her and it has been beneficial, so i can't disagree with that. She learned to count to 5 and now counts to 10. I never do plop them in front of it though, i always sit, believe me sometimes after seeing the same video 100 times wanting to stick needles in my eyes, but she always asks me questions and i want to be there for when she does.

I'm all for everything in moderation with everythingChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/25/08 4:34 PM
 

nbc188
Best friends!

Member since 12/06

23090 total posts

Name:
C

Re: Spinoff to letting your kids watch TV..

Posted by sweetness

Posted by nbc188


Yes, I feel the exact same way as you. DD is only 8 months, but I feel like she could be picking up stuff from the educational shows. But I think we're all doing well by our kids, no matter what we do-- we are teaching them and care that they learn, so we're all ahead of the game!!




I feel exactly the same too to everything you saidChat Icon

Dont' get me wrong, i'm not 100% against TV for Gianna and Amelia, it's the mindless watching that worries me and I never want to see that glazed stare on their faces while they watch tv.

when gianna was about 18 months for the 1st time, I put on baby einstein for her and it has been beneficial, so i can't disagree with that. She learned to count to 5 and now counts to 10. I never do plop them in front of it though, i always sit, believe me sometimes after seeing the same video 100 times wanting to stick needles in my eyes, but she always asks me questions and i want to be there for when she does.

I'm all for everything in moderation with everythingChat Icon Chat Icon




could not agree more, could have written it word for word Chat Icon

Posted 2/25/08 4:43 PM
 

smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!

Member since 5/06

32461 total posts

Name:
me

Re: Spinoff to letting your kids watch TV..

I think it's about exposure and moderation.

We are teaching him differents ways of communication.

TV (Backyardigans!) is used for entertainment/singing and fun. He will smile when he sees the characters. We repeat their names, he recognizes their voices and will turn his head to the TV.

We speak English, French. We use sign language.

We use all tools available to use to expose him to the World.

Posted 2/25/08 5:07 PM
 

KangaMom
...

Member since 1/06

4593 total posts

Name:

Re: Spinoff to letting your kids watch TV..

DC watches very little tv, maybe 1 dvd or 1 show per day. Some days no tv. We read dozens of books every day and DC vocabulary- reading -speech has always been ahead of what all the milestones say Chat Icon

Posted 2/25/08 5:38 PM
 
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
Have you been asked to watch kids during your pregnancy? mitabtrfly 5/11/07 5 Pregnancy
Did anyone watch "Honey we're killing the kids" last night? LIMOMx2 4/10/07 4 Parenting
moms who watch other kids for extra $$$ jgm26 11/2/06 5 Parenting
What the hell...these people across the street have no problem letting their kids play in our back yard! beautyq115 5/4/07 5 Families Helping Families ™
Whats everyones feeling on letting their DC watch TV? sumlynmad 10/4/07 16 Parenting
Letting kids go potty alone (when in a restaurant).. 4monkeys 7/13/07 7 Parenting
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 837631 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows