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SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

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nancygrace
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SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

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Posted 8/15/08 6:35 PM
 
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2BEANS
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

Im guessing either the person slips up too you, or to someone who knows you by saying something about you and LIF.

Posted 8/15/08 6:43 PM
 

hbugal
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

My lurker is my ex's sister....

She printed up a picture that is in my LIF album. My girls saw it but didnt think anything of it...they then saw it in my LIF album and said "oh that's the pic that Aunt blah blah has"...No other way for her to get the pic unless she was lurking through LIF...

Posted 8/15/08 7:02 PM
 

2BEANS
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

Posted by hbugal

My lurker is my ex's sister....

She printed up a picture that is in my LIF album. My girls saw it but didnt think anything of it...they then saw it in my LIF album and said "oh that's the pic that Aunt blah blah has"...No other way for her to get the pic unless she was lurking through LIF...



Chat Icon wow defiantly a lurker.

Posted 8/15/08 7:03 PM
 

dawnygirl25
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

this is a good post because I worry about this a lot and wonder how you guys find out that you actually have someone lurking...anyone else?

Posted 8/15/08 7:42 PM
 

dawnygirl25
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

Posted by hbugal

My lurker is my ex's sister....

She printed up a picture that is in my LIF album. My girls saw it but didnt think anything of it...they then saw it in my LIF album and said "oh that's the pic that Aunt blah blah has"...No other way for her to get the pic unless she was lurking through LIF...



this is something my ex's sister would do....sad.

Posted 8/15/08 7:53 PM
 

debsey75
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

Posted by hbugal

My lurker is my ex's sister....

She printed up a picture that is in my LIF album. My girls saw it but didnt think anything of it...they then saw it in my LIF album and said "oh that's the pic that Aunt blah blah has"...No other way for her to get the pic unless she was lurking through LIF...



Wow she totally needs a life. Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/08 9:21 PM
 

LiveAgain
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

my lurkers/stalkers are my SIL and MIL.

This all happened a month before my wedding:

Come to find out either my SIL or someone who knows my SIL found/read a vent I had posted about how RIDICULOUS she was being about bringing her DD and her boyfriends DS to our wedding when it was blatantly obvious children were not invited. And I made a joke about her b/f being her sugar daddy Chat Icon Chat Icon

The post was over a month old, I had over 1,200 posts at the time and when I went to search, it was on the 6th page in....yea...no life. And MIL also made references to other posts that mentioned her so my guess is she sat and read all my posts. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I wish I had that kind of time on my hands Chat Icon Chat Icon

Well needless to say SIL and her b/f didn't end up coming to our wedding but SIL did show up to our 20min church ceremony and my MIL got wasted at our reception and made out with 2 of DH's friends.

And I'm sure they still pop on here and read what I'm writing which I think is great.

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Posted 8/15/08 10:17 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

Posted by LiveAgain

and my MIL got wasted at our reception and made out with 2 of DH's friends.

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Posted 8/15/08 10:18 PM
 

LiveAgain
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

Posted by stephanief

Posted by LiveAgain

and my MIL got wasted at our reception and made out with 2 of DH's friends.

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Yea but she's not an alcoholic!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/08 10:19 PM
 

Melbernai
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

Posted by stephanief

Posted by LiveAgain

and my MIL got wasted at our reception and made out with 2 of DH's friends.

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Posted 8/15/08 10:22 PM
 

jules
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

OMG...

i can't even imagine this happening
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Posted 8/15/08 10:23 PM
 

littlejoy06
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

There was a girl I used to be friends with and she knew way too much about my DD when I stopped talking to her. She didn't know any of my friends either so she didn't get it out of them. I'm sure she is still looking to this dayChat Icon Chat Icon

BUT I'm sure she is ****** that I don't tell her about my family to her face so Chat Icon it sucks for her.

Posted 8/15/08 11:27 PM
 

lipglossjunky73
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

Posted by stephanief

Posted by LiveAgain

and my MIL got wasted at our reception and made out with 2 of DH's friends.

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WHAAAaaaaaaAAAAATTT????Chat Icon

Posted 8/16/08 12:50 AM
 

rojerono
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

I had written a couple of 'dummy' posts because I had suspected someone was lurking. She took the bait and told someone else what I had written. I confronted her and told her that if she wanted to know anything about me - she can ask - she doesn't have to stalk me on line. She was mortified.

I don't write anything here that I would not say IRL - so the thought doesn't really bother me. BUT I just found it a little shady and obsessive that she was going out of her way to look for info on me instead of just ASKING, ya know?

Posted 8/16/08 7:23 AM
 

MsMBV
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

Co-worker lurker...my fault I chatted up this site so much she is addicted but won't post.

IL lurker, she was googling for "help" during our wedding & came across LIW. She has been cyber-stalking me ever since. Its pretty funny b.c she totally denies it, but yet had described thread conversations word-for-wordChat Icon


Posted 8/16/08 8:55 AM
 

Stefanie

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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

My mil's best friend's daughter looked me up, printed out all my posts and gave them to my mil. Then my mil starts a fight with me about all the things I wrote on here...which was al the truth and the way I felt about her.

She involved her daughter (my sil) and she came on here as a fakie to "defend" her mom and it became a 10 page Chat Icon night of bashing and trashing.

Ah memories.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/16/08 9:12 AM
 

HillW9608
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

Posted by Stefanie

My mil's best friend's daughter looked me up, printed out all my posts and gave them to my mil. Then my mil starts a fight with me about all the things I wrote on here...which was al the truth and the way I felt about her.

She involved her daughter (my sil) and she came on here as a fakie to "defend" her mom and it became a 10 page Chat Icon night of bashing and trashing.

Ah memories.Chat Icon Chat Icon



WOW.. thats ridiculous!!!!

Dont think I have any lurkers.. although I know my FMIL comes on and prints out the recent pics of Kaila that I post Chat Icon

Posted 8/16/08 10:18 AM
 

GoldenRod
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

If I'm lurking, I use this smilie..... just so they know...
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Posted 8/18/08 8:30 AM
 

EmmaNick
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

How would you know? That person brings something up out of the blue that you were just talking about on here. Or you post something and there are 500 views and one response. People need to get a life Chat Icon

Posted 8/18/08 8:34 AM
 

Faithx2
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

Posted by Stefanie

My mil's best friend's daughter looked me up, printed out all my posts and gave them to my mil. Then my mil starts a fight with me about all the things I wrote on here...which was al the truth and the way I felt about her.

She involved her daughter (my sil) and she came on here as a fakie to "defend" her mom and it became a 10 page Chat Icon night of bashing and trashing.

Ah memories.Chat Icon Chat Icon



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Posted 8/18/08 8:35 AM
 

Ang-Rich
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

I have two that I know of..

one is an ex-friend that used to dig up posts and then call me on them...fortunately they were never about her nor anything I had any regret posting Chat Icon She just wanted to show me that she knew what I was talking about.

the other is a co-worker and I knew they were stalking when their DH mentioned that they had told him all about the house when we bought it (but I never told her anything) and always looks for the updates on Lucas. Harmless but still uncomfortable at times.

Posted 8/18/08 8:47 AM
 

LuvMy2Girls
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

Mine flat out told me they read every single one of my posts since 2005 on here.

Posted 8/18/08 8:47 AM
 

HillW9608
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

Posted by LuvMy2Girls

Mine flat out told me they read every single one of my posts since 2005 on here.



WOW.. I'd be scared lol

Posted 8/18/08 9:07 AM
 

JenBenMen
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Re: SPINOFF....Im confused how do u know if u have a lurker???

Posted by Stefanie

My mil's best friend's daughter looked me up, printed out all my posts and gave them to my mil. Then my mil starts a fight with me about all the things I wrote on here...which was al the truth and the way I felt about her.

She involved her daughter (my sil) and she came on here as a fakie to "defend" her mom and it became a 10 page Chat Icon night of bashing and trashing.

Ah memories.Chat Icon Chat Icon



that is INSANE

Posted 8/18/08 9:20 AM
 
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