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Stay or Go?

Forum Opinion Poll
Stay 8 14.04%
Go 49 85.96%
 

Stay or Go?

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CAJ
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Stay or Go?

What would you do if you just found out your spouse of ten years had previously undergone a sex change operation?

Posted 1/18/06 10:54 PM
 

Shorty
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Re: Stay or Go?

WOW what a question.

I would GO, because if he couldn't tell me in TEN YEARS, then our relationship would have absolutely no trust, and would not be worth saving.

Posted 1/18/06 10:55 PM
 

CAJ
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Re: Stay or Go?

Just for the record this is a question to think about not based on true life.... Chat Icon well at least my own....

Posted 1/18/06 10:57 PM
 

Luvlylady
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Re: Stay or Go?

Very Odd question!!!!!!!

Posted 1/18/06 10:59 PM
 

nancygrace
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Re: Stay or Go?

i want to know who would stay and why????

Posted 1/18/06 11:00 PM
 

Luvlylady
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Re: Stay or Go?

Posted by CAJ

What would you do if you just found out your spouse of ten years had previously undergone a sex change operation?



Previously meaning before they met??????

Posted 1/18/06 11:01 PM
 

HarleyGirlFLA
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Re: Stay or Go?

Were you watching discovery health????

Their was actually an episode on discovery health where a couple was married for many years and had children. The husband never felt complete and had undergone a sex change. They divorced.

Posted 1/18/06 11:02 PM
 

CAJ
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Re: Stay or Go?

Posted by Luvlylady

Posted by CAJ

What would you do if you just found out your spouse of ten years had previously undergone a sex change operation?



Previously meaning before they met??????



Yes I guess so...because if it was after I am sure the spouse would have known about it...

Message edited 1/18/2006 11:06:36 PM.

Posted 1/18/06 11:03 PM
 

CAJ
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Re: Stay or Go?

Yes I saw that but the question came from that game what would you do?

Posted 1/18/06 11:04 PM
 

Luvlylady
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Re: Stay or Go?

Posted by CAJ

Posted by Luvlylady

Posted by CAJ

What would you do if you just found out your spouse of ten years had previously undergone a sex change operation?



Previously meaning before they met??????



Yes I guess so...because if it was after I am sure the spouse would have know about it...


Well something I guess would trigger this comming out!
Also this would not be a completly honest person!!!!!

Posted 1/18/06 11:06 PM
 

luvsbob4603
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Re: Stay or Go?

If my Husband under went surgery to change his sex i would go because i married a man not a woman!

Posted 1/18/06 11:06 PM
 

Moehick
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Re: Stay or Go?

Wow if he could keep something like that from me for 10 years then there is no hope for trust in that marriage!

Posted 1/19/06 6:38 AM
 

Redhead
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Re: Stay or Go?

Go...

Posted 1/19/06 6:39 AM
 

Diane
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Re: Stay or Go?

go....

Posted 1/19/06 7:18 AM
 

dm24angel
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Re: Stay or Go?

If he hadnt told me , GO!!!

Posted 1/19/06 7:47 AM
 

GenLCSW
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Re: Stay or Go?

I would go....

Posted 1/19/06 8:44 AM
 

CookiePuss
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Re: Stay or Go?

Posted by nancygrace

i want to know who would stay and why????



I think I would stay. Yes, something like that should have been shared with me before hand but this is still the person I fell in love with and built a 10 year marriage with. I also think that with people that change their sex, they are becoming who they always thought they should be.

Posted 1/19/06 9:03 AM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: Stay or Go?

I voted stay by accident. But I can understand why someone would stay...I mean if everything else was going great in the marriage and I had no inkling that he used to be a woman, I guess there's a possibility. It wouldn't change whether or not I loved him.

But...I don't know how long staying would last for those who would stay because things would never be the same...especially in the bedroom.

Posted 1/19/06 9:07 AM
 

Janice
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Re: Stay or Go?

I am not honestly sure what I would do, but I am leaning towards stay. I have no issues in my marriage now, I really love him and it must have been killing him to keep it a secret. I would imagine that if someone does undergo the change that their life has been plagued with fear of rejection. I could not reject the one that I love so much for something that happened years ago. I would be upset by the secret, but in reality, I can understand why a person would keep that a secret.

Posted 1/19/06 9:24 AM
 

dandr10199
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Re: Stay or Go?

Posted by Shorty

WOW what a question.

I would GO, because if he couldn't tell me in TEN YEARS, then our relationship would have absolutely no trust, and would not be worth saving.



I agree

Posted 1/19/06 9:42 AM
 

LI2VA
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Re: Stay or Go?

I wouldn't just go... I would RUN!

Posted 1/19/06 10:37 AM
 

MommyofG
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Re: Stay or Go?

Posted by mrsv1015

I wouldn't just go... I would RUN!

Same here!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/19/06 10:39 AM
 
 

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