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Tell me to stay strong......Do I tonight??

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IrishTracy
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Posted 3/24/07 8:12 AM
 
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Posted 3/24/07 8:24 AM
 

Diane
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Re: Tell me to stay strong......

thansk ladies....I found that when he saw me it made it worse.

He finally went down at 1:30 am.....Christopher woke up and then went back to bed, I cant believe he slept through most of his crying.
I went in there and rubbed his back and just to check if he had a wet diaper, and he would contiually flip over on his back, (he is a belly sleeper)
I almsot gave in and warmed a little bottle and when I went up there, he was sound a sleep on his side after putting the crib aquarium on.
He then woke up again at 4 am, and then knew he was hungry. I gave him a bottle then he went cak to sleep . He fussed alittle at 6 am, but I didnt go in and he fell aslepp with the aquarium on, and then woke up at 7:30

Im so tired. Thank goodness DH is away, because Idont think he would have been able to handle it, now the lack of sleep.

I know Im in for another night...I can just tell.
Then back to work on Monday, I hope it gets better..
Thanks ladies for listening.....hope I can get some more advice from BTDT moms

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Posted 3/24/07 8:37 AM
 

FireIslandLove

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You are so good for recognizing what he needed! And so strong - hopefully he'll nap today and give you the break that you need!!!! Chat Icon

Posted 3/24/07 8:38 AM
 

rose825
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Re: Tell me to stay strong......

Good job!!! It aint easy but its worth it. I also had to do it when DH wasnt home, because I knew he could not handle it AT ALL!!!

Posted 3/24/07 9:33 AM
 

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Posted 3/24/07 10:31 AM
 

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Re: Tell me to stay strong......

Diane you did good last night...hope tonight isn't too bad Chat Icon

Posted 3/24/07 12:18 PM
 

Diane
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Re: Tell me to stay strong......Do I tonight??

So, after a tooth popping up on Christopher...Matthew has s rough spot on his gum, so I think any day now it will pop up.
He had a really rough day crying during the bottle. I have never seen him like this.

So..I think he is in a lot of pain...I cant let him CIO tonight right??
Now it breaks my heart knowing if he was in pain last nightChat Icon

Posted 3/24/07 6:00 PM
 

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Re: Tell me to stay strong......Do I tonight??

Posted by Diane

So, after a tooth popping up on Christopher...Matthew has s rough spot on his gum, so I think any day now it will pop up.
He had a really rough day crying during the bottle. I have never seen him like this.

So..I think he is in a lot of pain...I cant let him CIO tonight right??
Now it breaks my heart knowing if he was in pain last nightChat Icon



What about some baby tylenot before bed tonight and still doing CIO?

Posted 3/24/07 6:02 PM
 

Diane
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Re: Tell me to stay strong......Do I tonight??

Posted by CkGm

Posted by Diane

So, after a tooth popping up on Christopher...Matthew has s rough spot on his gum, so I think any day now it will pop up.
He had a really rough day crying during the bottle. I have never seen him like this.

So..I think he is in a lot of pain...I cant let him CIO tonight right??
Now it breaks my heart knowing if he was in pain last nightChat Icon



What about some baby tylenot before bed tonight and still doing CIO?




Maybe I will

Posted 3/24/07 6:04 PM
 

smdl
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Re: Tell me to stay strong......Do I tonight??

You are NOT a bad mommy. You child needs to know that you are here. This CIO theory is so old and was only the theory of one Dr.

Unfortunatelly his theory made it through the ages and still alive today. Plenty of psychiatrist do not approve of the CIO.

Posted 3/24/07 6:11 PM
 

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sounds like you're doing a great job Diane! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/24/07 6:30 PM
 

Little-J-Mommy
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Re: Tell me to stay strong......Do I tonight??

Diane, I think you're doing a great job. I also learned the hard way with Jack that once we started letting him CIO, we couldn't go in to soothe. It just made it so much worse. Like everytime he saw us, he started all over again and would be more upset than the last time. The 1st night of not going in....he cried for 40 mins. The worst 40 mins EVER. But he fell asleep, the next night 30 mins, then 20 mins etc. It totally does work!!!

As far as the teething...I would put the little teethers or orajel or whatever brand you have on his gums and then do CIO. I found the best way to be successful with CIO is to be consistent. Good luckChat Icon Chat Icon

FM if you need any help/support!

Posted 3/24/07 6:40 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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Re: Tell me to stay strong......Do I tonight??

Oh Diane , I'm sure it was a rought night but it sounds like you did GREAT! You are an awesome Mommy Chat Icon

Posted 3/24/07 6:55 PM
 

Diane
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Posted by Little-J-mommy-to-be

Diane, I think you're doing a great job. I also learned the hard way with Jack that once we started letting him CIO, we couldn't go in to soothe. It just made it so much worse. Like everytime he saw us, he started all over again and would be more upset than the last time. The 1st night of not going in....he cried for 40 mins. The worst 40 mins EVER. But he fell asleep, the next night 30 mins, then 20 mins etc. It totally does work!!!

As far as the teething...I would put the little teethers or orajel or whatever brand you have on his gums and then do CIO. I found the best way to be successful with CIO is to be consistent. Good luckChat Icon Chat Icon

FM if you need any help/support!



Thanks....WOW....40 minutes.....it was 2 hours with him...so that means tonight he will only cry an hour??
I hope. I will NOT let it go another 2 hours again....My heart diedChat Icon

Posted 3/24/07 7:37 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Tell me to stay strong......Do I tonight??

Posted by Diane

Posted by Little-J-mommy-to-be

Diane, I think you're doing a great job. I also learned the hard way with Jack that once we started letting him CIO, we couldn't go in to soothe. It just made it so much worse. Like everytime he saw us, he started all over again and would be more upset than the last time. The 1st night of not going in....he cried for 40 mins. The worst 40 mins EVER. But he fell asleep, the next night 30 mins, then 20 mins etc. It totally does work!!!

As far as the teething...I would put the little teethers or orajel or whatever brand you have on his gums and then do CIO. I found the best way to be successful with CIO is to be consistent. Good luckChat Icon Chat Icon

FM if you need any help/support!



Thanks....WOW....40 minutes.....it was 2 hours with him...so that means tonight he will only cry an hour??
I hope. I will NOT let it go another 2 hours again....My heart diedChat Icon




Chat Icon I think that if he's teething, some tylenol will definitely help. I know it's hard to hear your little one cry, but it really does get better. I promiseChat Icon hang in there and stay strong!

Posted 3/24/07 7:47 PM
 
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