Thinking it's time for the last one and to close up shop...

I have always wanted a big family. I had two when I was 18 & 20yrs. Needless to say their dad is long gone(long story)and 6yrs. ago I met DH and he has been their dad(their choice too)ever since. He is actually planning to adopt them once we can afford all the legalities. Anyhow, DH had a child when he was 18yrs. and once I came into the pic. her mom moved her to florida and made it impossible to have any relationship with his daughter(kinda if I cant have you, you dont get your daughter). Well in the 6yrs we have had two beautiful little boys and always talked about having just one more.
Well we talked about it the other night because in June I will be 35yr and I dont want to have children after that(just my preference). DH says that he wants to but I dont know if he means it or if he is just saying it because I want too. Im not sure if it's just my nerves or not either. I have a weight issue right now that Im trying to get under control and would rather not be pregnant either on top of it. I know his family is totally against anymore children and were less than thrilled after finding out I was pregnant with the second one. I love children and I know Im not guarenteed but I would love to have a little girl with DH. Just dont know why Im so unsure. Thanks for listening.

Re: Thinking it's time for the last one and to close up shop...

It seems like you're trying to push one out because you feel like it's your last shot. If that's the case, don't do it. Forget about what family thinks and only discuss it with DH. Sit down and talk about it.