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This is month 4 after MC and nothing.... what am I doing wrong???

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ajaysmom
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Jessica

This is month 4 after MC and nothing.... what am I doing wrong???

Ok, so I've now been on 6,0000 differnet websites trying to figure out when the most fertile days would be.. All say Between 9/6 and 9/13, SUnday 9/10 being the "most" fertile day. My cycle has been 29 days. So Does this mean that Sunday I shoud O, or just most fertile. Or is that the same thing. I'm confused. And should we be BD'ing every day or every other?? I havent doen any of the OPK's or Temps or anything yet... but i'm wondering if I'm just timing it all wrong!?!

Posted 9/7/06 12:14 PM
 
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DRMom
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Name:
Melissa

Re: This is month 4 after MC and nothing.... what am I doing wrong???

Well why don't you buy OPK's. I honestly don't understand why people would not do thjis? it is simple, it is cheap and it helps to reduce uncertainty! My method is when i see EWCM I start to use my OPK's I usually get a positive about 2 days after I see EWCM.

Posted 9/7/06 12:22 PM
 

ajaysmom
LIF Adolescent

Member since 5/05

810 total posts

Name:
Jessica

Re: This is month 4 after MC and nothing.... what am I doing wrong???

ok, so if I do this, only test when I see EWCM? Is there a certain time of day I should be doing this? I'm sorry, but just never used them! With my son it was kind of an Ooopps (9 yrs ago) and this last time we were just starting to "try" and it happend so easy!

Posted 9/7/06 12:26 PM
 

skygirl
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Erica

Re: This is month 4 after MC and nothing.... what am I doing wrong???

I am not sure what, if anything you are doing wrong.
Maybe you are an early or late ovulator?
Without doing specific OPK's or temping, I think that the websites give an average estimated time.

A friend told me that she ovulated on day9 another on day 18.

If I were you, I would buy some OPK's this month just to see if you detect your surge and pay STRONG attention to your CM ETA_ and your EWCM. See if those things coincide.

As far as bding- the month that I got pg we bd'ed daily for 4 or 5 days consectutively. I have heard daily or every other day.

We got BFP's once, I hope we can do it again!!!! I am going into month 2 since my m/c.

BTW, I bought that book Taking Charge of Your Fertility last week and it's pretty amazing.( based upon a lot of recommendationsfrom the ladies here)
I just started charting on FF& I am usung my CBEDFM.


Good luck!!!!!!! HOpe this is your month!
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Message edited 9/7/2006 12:33:01 PM.

Posted 9/7/06 12:29 PM
 

skygirl
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Name:
Erica

Re: This is month 4 after MC and nothing.... what am I doing wrong???

Posted by ajaysmom

ok, so if I do this, only test when I see EWCM? Is there a certain time of day I should be doing this? I'm sorry, but just never used them! With my son it was kind of an Ooopps (9 yrs ago) and this last time we were just starting to "try" and it happend so easy!



The OPK tell you when to start based upon your cycle.
I think but not sure you should start them on day 8 or 9. I don't have a box of them in front of me but it is a good way to start.

Posted 9/7/06 12:32 PM
 

DRMom
Two in Blue

Member since 5/05

20223 total posts

Name:
Melissa

Re: This is month 4 after MC and nothing.... what am I doing wrong???

How long are your cycles. I assume you read what i wrote about starting to test when I see EWCM that is because for months I would start to test on CD 9 or 10 and always get a + the day after or two days after I saw EWCM so thats how i came up with that system. You have to use OPK's as Skygirl said probably from CD 8 or 9 for the first couple of months until you figure out your body.

Posted 9/7/06 2:28 PM
 

ajaysmom
LIF Adolescent

Member since 5/05

810 total posts

Name:
Jessica

Re: This is month 4 after MC and nothing.... what am I doing wrong???

Thanks ladies! I'll try it out and see what happens!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/8/06 7:49 AM
 
 

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