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This is so much worse since I've gotten preggo, but...

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KristinasMama
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This is so much worse since I've gotten preggo, but...

Does anyone have issue when DH/SO does something in the house that he feels is helping, but it soooooooooooooo drives you nuts?

Last night I got home, and Brian was all happy that he washed the dishes for me. I HATE when he washes the dishes.... He doesn't do them the way that I like, and it makes me rewash everything allllll over again.... Plus the fact that we just had the dishwasher repaired, so all he had to do was load the damn thing!

I shouldn't complain because I know plenty of men that wouldn't try to help, but.... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/18/07 2:27 PM
 
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DmarieK
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Re: This is so much worse since I've gotten preggo, but...

Ummm...no. He doesn't do anything without being asked first...lol.

Posted 12/18/07 2:29 PM
 

mooshyboo
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Re: This is so much worse since I've gotten preggo, but...

actually since i have been preggo i am not as picky about anything lately ~ I think i am sooo tired i have no energy to even get mad at DH... and just let him do his thing especially if he is helping me... plus my DH has been making dinner a lot so don't want him to get mad (i am loving having dinner when i get home from work) Chat Icon

Posted 12/18/07 2:46 PM
 

jambalady
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Re: This is so much worse since I've gotten preggo, but...

Yes!

DH doesn't know how to load the dishwasher. He just piles everything on top of each other haphazardly so that NOTHING ends up getting clean. I then, have to unload everything, reload and run it again, and then hand wash the things that never should have gone in there in the first place! So annoying.

And, he has decided that I am no longer allowed to clean the bathroom because of chemicals but he's only actually cleaned it twice in the past 5 months! I love looking at pee stains every day!

Posted 12/18/07 3:59 PM
 

hope07
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Re: This is so much worse since I've gotten preggo, but...

I welcome all and any help since I am preggo especially! If someone does it right, wrong or different... I DONT CARE, just do it so I dont have to!

Posted 12/18/07 5:01 PM
 

KristinasMama
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Re: This is so much worse since I've gotten preggo, but...

Posted by jambalady

Yes!

DH doesn't know how to load the dishwasher. He just piles everything on top of each other haphazardly so that NOTHING ends up getting clean. I then, have to unload everything, reload and run it again, and then hand wash the things that never should have gone in there in the first place! So annoying.

And, he has decided that I am no longer allowed to clean the bathroom because of chemicals but he's only actually cleaned it twice in the past 5 months! I love looking at pee stains every day!



this is my point EXACTLY! he tries, but in vain.... I only have to rewash everything so he's doing nothing but wasting my soap!!!!!

Posted 12/18/07 5:43 PM
 

snowboardgirl
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Re: This is so much worse since I've gotten preggo, but...

I think its sweet that they are helping out. Can you tell them to do it differently next time?

Posted 12/18/07 7:02 PM
 

KristinasMama
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Re: This is so much worse since I've gotten preggo, but...

I wish... he thinks that he does a perfectly fine job, so I just chose not to battle this one....

It just frustrates me to no end...

Posted 12/18/07 7:04 PM
 

ChrisDee
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Re: This is so much worse since I've gotten preggo, but...

I get little to nothing without begging! I would take the half a$$ way just to not have to do it myself.

Posted 12/18/07 7:23 PM
 

clwp
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Re: This is so much worse since I've gotten preggo, but...

I never ever complain when DH helps - even if it's wrong or not exactly the way I like it done. I'd rather him try than not do anything to help out. After a while I may suggest ways to do something better or more efficiently, but I do it in a loving way.

Posted 12/18/07 7:27 PM
 
 

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