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cjik
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TMI-Sex Related
I'm just wondering--is there anyone else out there who has 0 desire for sex?
I'm in my 20th week now, and I kept reading that your sex drive increases in the 2nd trimester. Well, I'm well into it now, and I do feel quite good physically, but I have no urge for sex. It's to the point where I'd be happier to never have it at all. I do once in awhile for DH, and it's okay, but nothing outstanding.
I wasn't like this before pregnancy, and I wish I could get into it, because I think I'll want it even less during the last trimester.
Does this sound odd? Something I should mention to my doctor?
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Re: TMI-Sex Related
mine comes and goes. i don't think its odd. but, now i'm no pelvic rest until who knows when so sex is out regardless. 
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Bklyngrl
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Re: TMI-Sex Related
I dont think its odd. Your body is going through so many changes as are your emotions. i just don't feel sexy so i'm not into it as much but i do miss it at times.
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| Posted 7/19/07 3:00 PM |
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Re: TMI-Sex Related
Sounds normal. Your body is going through a lot of changes.
I wouldn't say I have no desire, but I definitely have no problem not doing it
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| Posted 7/19/07 3:00 PM |
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DancinBarefoot
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Right there with you, zero desire & 20 weeks on Sunday. DH keeps asking what happened to the nympo he married. A few days ago he asked if he could make an appointment to have sex. I feel horrible, but I don't know what to do about it either.
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Re: TMI-Sex Related
Posted by cjik
I'm just wondering--is there anyone else out there who has 0 desire for sex?
I'm in my 20th week now, and I kept reading that your sex drive increases in the 2nd trimester. Well, I'm well into it now, and I do feel quite good physically, but I have no urge for sex. It's to the point where I'd be happier to never have it at all. I do once in awhile for DH, and it's okay, but nothing outstanding.
I wasn't like this before pregnancy, and I wish I could get into it, because I think I'll want it even less during the last trimester.
Does this sound odd? Something I should mention to my doctor?
nope..not odd. haven't done it since we found out we were pregnant. that was almost 18 weeks ago.  i have no drive. poor DH haven't complain yet. maybe one of these days he'll get lucky 
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Re: TMI-Sex Related
Posted by Bklyngrl
I dont think its odd. Your body is going through so many changes as are your emotions. i just don't feel sexy so i'm not into it as much but i do miss it at times.
I feel the exact same way!!
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| Posted 7/19/07 3:04 PM |
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cjik
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Re: TMI-Sex Related
Thanks for replying! I was starting to think something must be wrong, but I was embarassed to bring it up with my doctor earlier this week. Sounds like it's not unusual at all.
It's a good thing we've been working on our house a lot lately, and packing! DH is too tired to feel interested most nights, so it's easy to avoid! Never thought I'd feel this way though.
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Re: TMI-Sex Related
Posted by julybride0706
Posted by cjik
I'm just wondering--is there anyone else out there who has 0 desire for sex?
I'm in my 20th week now, and I kept reading that your sex drive increases in the 2nd trimester. Well, I'm well into it now, and I do feel quite good physically, but I have no urge for sex. It's to the point where I'd be happier to never have it at all. I do once in awhile for DH, and it's okay, but nothing outstanding.
I wasn't like this before pregnancy, and I wish I could get into it, because I think I'll want it even less during the last trimester.
Does this sound odd? Something I should mention to my doctor?
nope..not odd. haven't done it since we found out we were pregnant. that was almost 18 weeks ago. i have no drive. poor DH haven't complain yet. maybe one of these days he'll get lucky
Us too! I'm 27 weeks.
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None.
Zero.
Zip.
Nada.
Zilch.
Are you having a girl by any chance? I ask because I already have 2 boys, and throughout each of my pregnanices with them, I was a nympho 
I am currently 32 weeks PG with our 3rd baby, our first 
I am wondering if my lack of interest has to do with this being a girl? Hormones are different?
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| Posted 7/19/07 3:24 PM |
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My DH and I are usually 5x per weekers so when the doctor put us on pelvic rest at the beginning of my pregnancy it was a bit of a shock. Especially after all the fun we had trying to conceive!
I was allowed off pelvic rest after about 18 weeks or so and we havent really taken advantage of it. I just havent felt like it...
ALTHOUGH....
We did a couple of nights ago and I think I felt things starting to stir again!!!!!!!!
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| Posted 7/19/07 3:26 PM |
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cjik
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Re: TMI-Sex Related
Posted by Mommytimesthree
Are you having a girl by any chance? I ask because I already have 2 boys, and throughout each of my pregnanices with them, I was a nympho
I am currently 32 weeks PG with our 3rd baby, our first
I am wondering if my lack of interest has to do with this being a girl? Hormones are different?
Probably not. I was told I'm having a  . Unless there was a mistake, and I'm really having a ?
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Re: TMI-Sex Related
if its odd.. than sign me up with yoU!
I also have very little drive.. welll non at all! I feel bad.. as its been 20 weeks.. but i have no drive.. what can i do?
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Re: TMI-Sex Related
I'm with ya...absolutely no drive!
Although, I didn't have much to begin with and now its like non existant.
The only drive I have is the drive to have more drive! I feel bad for DH but he's been really good about it. He'll hint at when he wants it and I'd never turn him down, but I think he's also alittle afraid of the whole "theres a baby in there" idea so its been very infrequent lately.
I wish there was a magic pill b/c once we get started I'm totally into it, its just getting me there thats the problem!
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Re: TMI-Sex Related
Hmmmm, let's see here...
Weeks 7-15 I had morning sickness and had NO desire because I had constant nausea!
Week 20 I was told I had a low lying placenta and was put on pelvic rest... sorry DH!!!
Week 28 I was told my placenta moved so I was off pelvic rest.
I am now closing in on 34 weeks and we have not done the deed much in the past 6 weeks. I am with you... the desire is just not there. I feel big and to have to maneuver the big old belly makes me tired just thinking about it!!!
You are definitely NOT alone!!!
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I really hope that the sex drive improves in the 2nd trimester.
Right now with the morning sickness I tell him to not even think about it.
If the poor guy doens't get some action soon he acts like his thing will fall off...oh well.
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Re: TMI-Sex Related
I really have no desire.
The beginning because of MS, now because I just don't feel like it. I did for a little while, but it went away.
DH is a little freaked about the whole baby-might-feel-it thing, so we are both on the same page.
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nope..not odd. haven't done it since we found out we were pregnant. that was almost 18 weeks ago. i have no drive. poor DH haven't complain yet. maybe one of these days he'll get lucky
Us too! I'm 27 weeks.
um...yeah, me too...i have 0 desire poor dh
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I've had ZERO desire pretty much this whole pregnancy...
The first trimester, I was too exhausted to even entertain the idea most days
The second trimester, I was better, but not really into it all that often.
Now that I am 35 weeks, it's just too uncomfortable, and I really have no desire!
I miss it, and I can't wait until my drive is back!!
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Re: TMI-Sex Related
I've had 0 desire since the beginning. At first it was the morning sickness...now I feel better still have no desire. And I am having a
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Some desire but not a whole lot. Less than usual for sure. I'm on pelvic rest anyway, due to low lying placenta.
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