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DanaRenee
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traveling for work..

So my firm is expecting me to go to a client in Ohio for 6 days when I will be 11 1/2 weeks pg. Now, I know its probably safe but I REALLY don't want to go b/c I can't stand my one manager. Do you think it would be really unreasonable/nervy to use the pg as my excuse not to go? They don't know yet that I am pg, I'm telling them next week (like a week before they book the flight!)

TIA!

Posted 2/23/07 10:15 AM
 
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my3bugs
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Re: traveling for work..

My personal philosophy was never to use my pregnancy as an excuse for anything at work...unless of course it was a serious medical issue. I would go unless you have a medical issue preventing you from it. I think it would make you look bad at 11.5 weeks to say no. It will make them think what will this woman be like when she is really really preggo?

Posted 2/23/07 11:36 AM
 

dawnie
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Re: traveling for work..

Posted by Niecey

My personal philosophy was never to use my pregnancy as an excuse for anything at work...unless of course it was a serious medical issue. I would go unless you have a medical issue preventing you from it. I think it would make you look bad at 11.5 weeks to say no. It will make them think what will this woman be like when she is really really preggo?



I totally agree!

Posted 2/23/07 11:38 AM
 

michele31
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Re: traveling for work..

I agree. If you had a medical reason I would not go, but just because you don't like a manager is not a good enough reason IMO.
If you use that as an excuse now you could hurt yourself down the line (career path I mean, not physically)

Posted 2/23/07 12:37 PM
 

patti08
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Re: traveling for work..

I'd be hesitant to use it as an excuse because I wouldn't want them to assume that further into my pregnancy I couldn't do my job.

I'd go, and use the pregnancy as an excuse not to spend any down time with the manager you dislike, you can certainly be tired and bow out of any socializing.

Posted 2/23/07 12:44 PM
 

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Re: traveling for work..

Posted by Niecey

My personal philosophy was never to use my pregnancy as an excuse for anything at work...unless of course it was a serious medical issue. I would go unless you have a medical issue preventing you from it. I think it would make you look bad at 11.5 weeks to say no. It will make them think what will this woman be like when she is really really preggo?



I totally agree with this.

I purposely make my appointments after work hours and take tests on my days off because I don't want work to ever say that my pregnancy kept me from doing my job.

Posted 2/23/07 12:45 PM
 

DanaRenee
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Re: traveling for work..

ok ladies *sigh*

thank you for your advice!

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Posted 2/23/07 12:46 PM
 
 

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