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MandJZ
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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

I have a feeling a lot of women are very sheltered from how men Speak to one another when there aren't any women around.

I am not shocked by this kind of talk. Especially By a rich man who probably had his share of women because of who he is.

If he wasn't running for office, nobody would even be talking about this in this way.

This was a private conversation between two horn dogs. More men talk like this then don't. This wasn't recorded yesterday but a long time ago when he was just a rich old man.

I'm not It defending him and what was said - its not the nicest stuff to hear. But ... this is how men/guys/guidos - whatever you want to call it... this is how they talk when it's just guys.

What do you think men talk about on bachelor parties to strip joints? Stocks? How wonderful their wives are?
They objectivity the women that are rubbing their bodies on each other, they talk about what they would do with them and most of the time go to the back room to do it.

I mean Bill Clinton , our actual president was getting head under the desk while in office. Do you really think that was the only time?

I try so hard not to say anything on these posts, but the absolute shock response to this from the posts here, are shocking to me! I ether know only raunchy men OR having a lot of brothers kept me in the loop more

Edited to add:

What I find shocking and disgusting is how almost every post that has to do with trump always has "and anyone who would vote for him is....
That, to me, is so absolutely wrong. It's borderline bully tactics

And BTW: I'm not pro trump and sure as shit not pro Clinton. I just hate watching these threads and the absolute disregard for others choices. Whatever it may be



My husband would and has never claimed he can grab a woman's *****. And my son sure as shit never will if he knows what's good for him.

And I will not apologize for the fact that I have zero regard for any woman who can vote for this man. I just don't. If that makes me a bully - so be it. But you know who is ACTUALLY a bully? The man who has now proven with his words that those sexual assault claims against him are likely true. There's your bully.

Posted 10/7/16 9:24 PM
 
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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by MandJZ

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

I have a feeling a lot of women are very sheltered from how men Speak to one another when there aren't any women around.

I am not shocked by this kind of talk. Especially By a rich man who probably had his share of women because of who he is.

If he wasn't running for office, nobody would even be talking about this in this way.

This was a private conversation between two horn dogs. More men talk like this then don't. This wasn't recorded yesterday but a long time ago when he was just a rich old man.

I'm not It defending him and what was said - its not the nicest stuff to hear. But ... this is how men/guys/guidos - whatever you want to call it... this is how they talk when it's just guys.

What do you think men talk about on bachelor parties to strip joints? Stocks? How wonderful their wives are?
They objectivity the women that are rubbing their bodies on each other, they talk about what they would do with them and most of the time go to the back room to do it.

I mean Bill Clinton , our actual president was getting head under the desk while in office. Do you really think that was the only time?

I try so hard not to say anything on these posts, but the absolute shock response to this from the posts here, are shocking to me! I ether know only raunchy men OR having a lot of brothers kept me in the loop more

Edited to add:

What I find shocking and disgusting is how almost every post that has to do with trump always has "and anyone who would vote for him is....
That, to me, is so absolutely wrong. It's borderline bully tactics

And BTW: I'm not pro trump and sure as shit not pro Clinton. I just hate watching these threads and the absolute disregard for others choices. Whatever it may be



My husband would and has never claimed he can grab a woman's *****. And my son sure as shit never will if he knows what's good for him.

And I will not apologize for the fact that I have zero regard for any woman who can vote for this man. I just don't. If that makes me a bully - so be it. But you know who is ACTUALLY a bully? The man who has now proven with his words that those sexual assault claims against him are likely true. There's your bully.



Sexual assault?
Taking it to a place it's not from. He didn't in up and down the street or on the train grabbing vaginas

He was talking shit w the guy. Being a dirty old man. And like I said before... there are plenty of women in these circles who will do anything for the $$$

That I know for sure bc unfortunately an old friend was in those circles. Not a friend anymore.

And don't apologize for not being open to allow others to have their own opinion. It works for you. That's great. I just feel it's close minded

Message edited 10/7/2016 9:27:48 PM.

Posted 10/7/16 9:26 PM
 

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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

Posted by MandJZ

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

I have a feeling a lot of women are very sheltered from how men Speak to one another when there aren't any women around.

I am not shocked by this kind of talk. Especially By a rich man who probably had his share of women because of who he is.

If he wasn't running for office, nobody would even be talking about this in this way.

This was a private conversation between two horn dogs. More men talk like this then don't. This wasn't recorded yesterday but a long time ago when he was just a rich old man.

I'm not It defending him and what was said - its not the nicest stuff to hear. But ... this is how men/guys/guidos - whatever you want to call it... this is how they talk when it's just guys.

What do you think men talk about on bachelor parties to strip joints? Stocks? How wonderful their wives are?
They objectivity the women that are rubbing their bodies on each other, they talk about what they would do with them and most of the time go to the back room to do it.

I mean Bill Clinton , our actual president was getting head under the desk while in office. Do you really think that was the only time?

I try so hard not to say anything on these posts, but the absolute shock response to this from the posts here, are shocking to me! I ether know only raunchy men OR having a lot of brothers kept me in the loop more

Edited to add:

What I find shocking and disgusting is how almost every post that has to do with trump always has "and anyone who would vote for him is....
That, to me, is so absolutely wrong. It's borderline bully tactics

And BTW: I'm not pro trump and sure as shit not pro Clinton. I just hate watching these threads and the absolute disregard for others choices. Whatever it may be



My husband would and has never claimed he can grab a woman's *****. And my son sure as shit never will if he knows what's good for him.

And I will not apologize for the fact that I have zero regard for any woman who can vote for this man. I just don't. If that makes me a bully - so be it. But you know who is ACTUALLY a bully? The man who has now proven with his words that those sexual assault claims against him are likely true. There's your bully.



Sexual assault?
Taking it to a place it's not from. He didn't in up and down the street or on the train grabbing vaginas

He was talking shit w the guy. Being a dirty old man. And like I said before... there are plenty of women in these circles who will do anything for the $$$

That I know for sure bc unfortunately an old friend was in those circles. Not a friend anymore.



but that doesn't make it OK.........it doesn't excuse this away.

Posted 10/7/16 9:28 PM
 

PhyllisNJoe
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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by 2BadSoSad

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

Posted by MandJZ

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

I have a feeling a lot of women are very sheltered from how men Speak to one another when there aren't any women around.

I am not shocked by this kind of talk. Especially By a rich man who probably had his share of women because of who he is.

If he wasn't running for office, nobody would even be talking about this in this way.

This was a private conversation between two horn dogs. More men talk like this then don't. This wasn't recorded yesterday but a long time ago when he was just a rich old man.

I'm not It defending him and what was said - its not the nicest stuff to hear. But ... this is how men/guys/guidos - whatever you want to call it... this is how they talk when it's just guys.

What do you think men talk about on bachelor parties to strip joints? Stocks? How wonderful their wives are?
They objectivity the women that are rubbing their bodies on each other, they talk about what they would do with them and most of the time go to the back room to do it.

I mean Bill Clinton , our actual president was getting head under the desk while in office. Do you really think that was the only time?

I try so hard not to say anything on these posts, but the absolute shock response to this from the posts here, are shocking to me! I ether know only raunchy men OR having a lot of brothers kept me in the loop more

Edited to add:

What I find shocking and disgusting is how almost every post that has to do with trump always has "and anyone who would vote for him is....
That, to me, is so absolutely wrong. It's borderline bully tactics

And BTW: I'm not pro trump and sure as shit not pro Clinton. I just hate watching these threads and the absolute disregard for others choices. Whatever it may be



My husband would and has never claimed he can grab a woman's *****. And my son sure as shit never will if he knows what's good for him.

And I will not apologize for the fact that I have zero regard for any woman who can vote for this man. I just don't. If that makes me a bully - so be it. But you know who is ACTUALLY a bully? The man who has now proven with his words that those sexual assault claims against him are likely true. There's your bully.



Sexual assault?
Taking it to a place it's not from. He didn't in up and down the street or on the train grabbing vaginas

He was talking shit w the guy. Being a dirty old man. And like I said before... there are plenty of women in these circles who will do anything for the $$$

That I know for sure bc unfortunately an old friend was in those circles. Not a friend anymore.



but that doesn't make it OK.........it doesn't excuse this away.



Totally not trying to excuse it away. I just saw everyone rolling with this. Went to assault. Like way far from what it really is. 2 men being douchebags talking about women as objects to obtain. Unfortunately, it exists everywhere. And like i said before .. if he wasn't running for office, it wouldn't be to this extreme

Posted 10/7/16 9:29 PM
 

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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

I have a feeling a lot of women are very sheltered from how men Speak to one another when there aren't any women around.

I am not shocked by this kind of talk. Especially By a rich man who probably had his share of women because of who he is.

If he wasn't running for office, nobody would even be talking about this in this way.

This was a private conversation between two horn dogs. More men talk like this then don't. This wasn't recorded yesterday but a long time ago when he was just a rich old man.

I'm not It defending him and what was said - its not the nicest stuff to hear. But ... this is how men/guys/guidos - whatever you want to call it... this is how they talk when it's just guys.

What do you think men talk about on bachelor parties to strip joints? Stocks? How wonderful their wives are?
They objectivity the women that are rubbing their bodies on each other, they talk about what they would do with them and most of the time go to the back room to do it.

I mean Bill Clinton , our actual president was getting head under the desk while in office. Do you really think that was the only time?

I try so hard not to say anything on these posts, but the absolute shock response to this from the posts here, are shocking to me! I ether know only raunchy men OR having a lot of brothers kept me in the loop more

Edited to add:

What I find shocking and disgusting is how almost every post that has to do with trump always has "and anyone who would vote for him is....
That, to me, is so absolutely wrong. It's borderline bully tactics

And BTW: I'm not pro trump and sure as shit not pro Clinton. I just hate watching these threads and the absolute disregard for others choices. Whatever it may be



Bully Tactics that would be Trump that man is a bully to women. I don't consider myself sheltered. I'm well aware of what men say. In case you missed it Trump said he did this. BIG DIFFERENCE!

I do think voting for this man after knowing he sexually assaulted a woman is wrong, and women and men of both parties should call for his resignation as the nominee. He is a PIG!!!! All women should be OUTRAGED!

Posted 10/7/16 9:31 PM
 

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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

Posted by 2BadSoSad

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

Posted by MandJZ

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

I have a feeling a lot of women are very sheltered from how men Speak to one another when there aren't any women around.

I am not shocked by this kind of talk. Especially By a rich man who probably had his share of women because of who he is.

If he wasn't running for office, nobody would even be talking about this in this way.

This was a private conversation between two horn dogs. More men talk like this then don't. This wasn't recorded yesterday but a long time ago when he was just a rich old man.

I'm not It defending him and what was said - its not the nicest stuff to hear. But ... this is how men/guys/guidos - whatever you want to call it... this is how they talk when it's just guys.

What do you think men talk about on bachelor parties to strip joints? Stocks? How wonderful their wives are?
They objectivity the women that are rubbing their bodies on each other, they talk about what they would do with them and most of the time go to the back room to do it.

I mean Bill Clinton , our actual president was getting head under the desk while in office. Do you really think that was the only time?

I try so hard not to say anything on these posts, but the absolute shock response to this from the posts here, are shocking to me! I ether know only raunchy men OR having a lot of brothers kept me in the loop more

Edited to add:

What I find shocking and disgusting is how almost every post that has to do with trump always has "and anyone who would vote for him is....
That, to me, is so absolutely wrong. It's borderline bully tactics

And BTW: I'm not pro trump and sure as shit not pro Clinton. I just hate watching these threads and the absolute disregard for others choices. Whatever it may be



My husband would and has never claimed he can grab a woman's *****. And my son sure as shit never will if he knows what's good for him.

And I will not apologize for the fact that I have zero regard for any woman who can vote for this man. I just don't. If that makes me a bully - so be it. But you know who is ACTUALLY a bully? The man who has now proven with his words that those sexual assault claims against him are likely true. There's your bully.



Sexual assault?
Taking it to a place it's not from. He didn't in up and down the street or on the train grabbing vaginas

He was talking shit w the guy. Being a dirty old man. And like I said before... there are plenty of women in these circles who will do anything for the $$$

That I know for sure bc unfortunately an old friend was in those circles. Not a friend anymore.



but that doesn't make it OK.........it doesn't excuse this away.



Totally not trying to excuse it away. I just saw everyone rolling with this. Went to assault. Like way far from what it really is. 2 men being douchebags talking about women as objects to obtain. Unfortunately, it exists everywhere. And like i said before .. if he wasn't running for office, it wouldn't be to this extreme



I believe the assault was mentioned because there is currently a lawsuit filed against him for sexual assault/statutory rape. The allegations are even more plausible now after these comments came to light.

Posted 10/7/16 9:32 PM
 

MandJZ
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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

http://mobile.nytimes.com/2016/10/09/opinion/sunday/donald-trump-groper-in-chief.html?smid=tw-share&referer=

One example of sexual assault allegations. There are others. I didn't make anything up. Multiple women have accused him of improper sexual behavior.

Also. I didn't apologize. And I don't plan to. I don't consider it closed minded to be baffled and angered that other women can support this kind of man.

Message edited 10/7/2016 9:37:03 PM.

Posted 10/7/16 9:35 PM
 

2BadSoSad
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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

For the record, I just had a friend who was a staunch Trump supporter, who would defend him to the death, write than she has now changed her mind. In light of this, and as a mother to a daughter, she cannot vote for him any longer and will be voting 3rd party.

Posted 10/7/16 9:37 PM
 

PhyllisNJoe
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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

I know you guys are adiment about your trump hatred

I was just reading everything here and couldn't help but say it's not shocking to me. It's really not

I think I said worse things about Adam Levine in the past 3 days and I'm grateful nobody was recording me

Posted 10/7/16 9:40 PM
 

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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

Posted by 2BadSoSad

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

Posted by MandJZ

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

I have a feeling a lot of women are very sheltered from how men Speak to one another when there aren't any women around.

I am not shocked by this kind of talk. Especially By a rich man who probably had his share of women because of who he is.

If he wasn't running for office, nobody would even be talking about this in this way.

This was a private conversation between two horn dogs. More men talk like this then don't. This wasn't recorded yesterday but a long time ago when he was just a rich old man.

I'm not It defending him and what was said - its not the nicest stuff to hear. But ... this is how men/guys/guidos - whatever you want to call it... this is how they talk when it's just guys.

What do you think men talk about on bachelor parties to strip joints? Stocks? How wonderful their wives are?
They objectivity the women that are rubbing their bodies on each other, they talk about what they would do with them and most of the time go to the back room to do it.

I mean Bill Clinton , our actual president was getting head under the desk while in office. Do you really think that was the only time?

I try so hard not to say anything on these posts, but the absolute shock response to this from the posts here, are shocking to me! I ether know only raunchy men OR having a lot of brothers kept me in the loop more

Edited to add:

What I find shocking and disgusting is how almost every post that has to do with trump always has "and anyone who would vote for him is....
That, to me, is so absolutely wrong. It's borderline bully tactics

And BTW: I'm not pro trump and sure as shit not pro Clinton. I just hate watching these threads and the absolute disregard for others choices. Whatever it may be



My husband would and has never claimed he can grab a woman's *****. And my son sure as shit never will if he knows what's good for him.

And I will not apologize for the fact that I have zero regard for any woman who can vote for this man. I just don't. If that makes me a bully - so be it. But you know who is ACTUALLY a bully? The man who has now proven with his words that those sexual assault claims against him are likely true. There's your bully.



Sexual assault?
Taking it to a place it's not from. He didn't in up and down the street or on the train grabbing vaginas

He was talking shit w the guy. Being a dirty old man. And like I said before... there are plenty of women in these circles who will do anything for the $$$

That I know for sure bc unfortunately an old friend was in those circles. Not a friend anymore.



but that doesn't make it OK.........it doesn't excuse this away.



Totally not trying to excuse it away. I just saw everyone rolling with this. Went to assault. Like way far from what it really is. 2 men being douchebags talking about women as objects to obtain. Unfortunately, it exists everywhere. And like i said before .. if he wasn't running for office, it wouldn't be to this extreme



No one said he assaulted anyone at the time of these comments but the fact that he made those comments makes it HIGHLY likely that the claims of sexual Assad made against Trump are true. And yes, if he wasn't running to be PRESIDENT and was stir just a loud mouth reality TV "star" his words would be troublesome but he would not be looking to be the most influential person in the world and someone who is supposed to be the the ultimate protector of human rights for ALL Americans

And as if what he said is t bad enough, he said it about 8 months after marrying Melania - just makes it so extra special

Posted 10/7/16 9:41 PM
 

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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

I'm glad you're fine writing this off as a dirty old man shooting the shit with a friend. But this is rape culture. By definition. Allowing men, and ESPECIALLY men in positions of power, to get away with speaking and acting like this because it's "how men are" (I feel very sorry for any woman who has men in her life who are like this) is the reason we have the Brock Turners of the world. Young boys and men are and will continue to grow up thinking they can say and do whatever they want to and about women and women's bodies if we brush this language and behavior off as meh.

Message edited 10/7/2016 9:44:32 PM.

Posted 10/7/16 9:43 PM
 

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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by MandJZ

I'm glad you're fine writing this off as a dirty old man shooting the shit with a friend. But this is rape culture. By definition. Allowing men, and ESPECIALLY men in positions of power, to get away with speaking and acting like this because it's "how men are" (I feel very sorry for any woman who has men in her life who are like this) is the reason we have the Brock Turners of the world. Young boys and men are and will continue to grow up thinking they can say and do whatever they want to and about women and women's bodies if we brush this language and behavior off as meh.



YES!!!!!

Posted 10/7/16 9:47 PM
 

PhyllisNJoe
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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by MandJZ

I'm glad you're fine writing this off as a dirty old man shooting the shit with a friend. But this is rape culture. By definition. Allowing men, and ESPECIALLY men in positions of power, to get away with speaking and acting like this because it's "how men are" (I feel very sorry for any woman who has men in her life who are like this) is the reason we have the Brock Turners of the world. Young boys and men are and will continue to grow up thinking they can say and do whatever they want to and about women and women's bodies if we brush this language and behavior off as meh.




This. This right here. This is an obnoxious response.
If you don't see it, it's cool. This is the reason. I really never say anything on these types of threads. But - it's my fault for speaking my mind on this topic.

This is how "some" men are. This is. It rape culture. Ifeel like it may be a good idea to take a step back and realllly pay attention to what goes on outside of your immediate life. You may see a bit more

Posted 10/7/16 9:48 PM
 

MandJZ
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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

Posted by MandJZ

I'm glad you're fine writing this off as a dirty old man shooting the shit with a friend. But this is rape culture. By definition. Allowing men, and ESPECIALLY men in positions of power, to get away with speaking and acting like this because it's "how men are" (I feel very sorry for any woman who has men in her life who are like this) is the reason we have the Brock Turners of the world. Young boys and men are and will continue to grow up thinking they can say and do whatever they want to and about women and women's bodies if we brush this language and behavior off as meh.




This. This right here. This is an obnoxious response.
If you don't see it, it's cool. This is the reason. I really never say anything on these types of threads. But - it's my fault for speaking my mind on this topic.

This is how "some" men are. This is. It rape culture. Ifeel like it may be a good idea to take a step back and realllly pay attention to what goes on outside of your immediate life. You may see a bit more




Yes. This is rape culture. And I know this because I pay attention to the world around me. And because I studied this in grad school and have a degree in social welfare. I don't really understand your response. If you're fine with it that's great. If you find that obnoxious that's also fine. Your opinion of my opinion has no bearing on me. But please. If this isn't an example of rape culture tell me what is.

Posted 10/7/16 9:50 PM
 

mnmsoinlove
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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by MandJZ

I'm glad you're fine writing this off as a dirty old man shooting the shit with a friend. But this is rape culture. By definition. Allowing men, and ESPECIALLY men in positions of power, to get away with speaking and acting like this because it's "how men are" (I feel very sorry for any woman who has men in her life who are like this) is the reason we have the Brock Turners of the world. Young boys and men are and will continue to grow up thinking they can say and do whatever they want to and about women and women's bodies if we brush this language and behavior off as meh.



Chat Icon If our country votes this PIG into office we are saying to men that this behavior is ok. We are saying to our daughters that its ok for men to talk this way, for men of power to act this way because well they are men. Come on America in 2016 we should know and do better!!!!!

Posted 10/7/16 9:50 PM
 

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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Also
I'd like to know why I can't say this isn't shocking to me? Why do you (the General you) need to teach me a history lesson with your replies? Why can't I say I have heard this type of talk before and to me, it's typical dirty old man talk?

It's truly impossible to have a different view then the masses.

Posted 10/7/16 9:51 PM
 

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Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

I'm not justifying him at all.

But, how is he any worse than Clinton, or even JFK for that matter?

Posted 10/7/16 9:53 PM
 

PhyllisNJoe
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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by MandJZ

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

Posted by MandJZ

I'm glad you're fine writing this off as a dirty old man shooting the shit with a friend. But this is rape culture. By definition. Allowing men, and ESPECIALLY men in positions of power, to get away with speaking and acting like this because it's "how men are" (I feel very sorry for any woman who has men in her life who are like this) is the reason we have the Brock Turners of the world. Young boys and men are and will continue to grow up thinking they can say and do whatever they want to and about women and women's bodies if we brush this language and behavior off as meh.




This. This right here. This is an obnoxious response.
If you don't see it, it's cool. This is the reason. I really never say anything on these types of threads. But - it's my fault for speaking my mind on this topic.

This is how "some" men are. This is. It rape culture. Ifeel like it may be a good idea to take a step back and realllly pay attention to what goes on outside of your immediate life. You may see a bit more




Yes. This is rape culture. And I know this because I pay attention to the world around me. And because I studied this in grad school and have a degree in social welfare. I don't really understand your response. If you're fine with it that's great. If you find that obnoxious that's also fine. Your opinion of my opinion has no bearing on me. But please. If this isn't an example of rape culture tell me what is.



Your schooling has absolutely nothing to do with Me and my response to the latest trump Fiasco. I gave my opinion and you're disagreeing with it.
Do you think my opinion will change based on you telling me I'm wrong for it?

Posted 10/7/16 9:55 PM
 

MandJZ
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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by evrythng4areason

I'm not justifying him at all.

But, how is he any worse than Clinton, or even JFK for that matter?



Maybe he isn't, though I didn't live here when Clinton was president. But Donald is running for president RIGHT NOW, and the world has evolved and changed, and RIGHT NOW we can do something about this man.


Just because something was accepted before now doesn't mean we have to continue to accept it.

Message edited 10/7/2016 9:58:20 PM.

Posted 10/7/16 9:55 PM
 

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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

Posted by MandJZ

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

Posted by MandJZ

I'm glad you're fine writing this off as a dirty old man shooting the shit with a friend. But this is rape culture. By definition. Allowing men, and ESPECIALLY men in positions of power, to get away with speaking and acting like this because it's "how men are" (I feel very sorry for any woman who has men in her life who are like this) is the reason we have the Brock Turners of the world. Young boys and men are and will continue to grow up thinking they can say and do whatever they want to and about women and women's bodies if we brush this language and behavior off as meh.




This. This right here. This is an obnoxious response.
If you don't see it, it's cool. This is the reason. I really never say anything on these types of threads. But - it's my fault for speaking my mind on this topic.

This is how "some" men are. This is. It rape culture. Ifeel like it may be a good idea to take a step back and realllly pay attention to what goes on outside of your immediate life. You may see a bit more




Yes. This is rape culture. And I know this because I pay attention to the world around me. And because I studied this in grad school and have a degree in social welfare. I don't really understand your response. If you're fine with it that's great. If you find that obnoxious that's also fine. Your opinion of my opinion has no bearing on me. But please. If this isn't an example of rape culture tell me what is.



Your schooling has absolutely nothing to do with Me and my response to the latest trump Fiasco. I gave my opinion and you're disagreeing with it.
Do you think my opinion will change based on you telling me I'm wrong for it?



You're more than entitled to your opinion. But rape culture isn't something that is opinion based. It's something with a definition. And what has come to light today is BY DEFINITION an example of rape culture. My schooling is important because it allows me to speak with some authority on the matter.

Posted 10/7/16 9:57 PM
 

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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by MandJZ

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

Posted by MandJZ

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

Posted by MandJZ

I'm glad you're fine writing this off as a dirty old man shooting the shit with a friend. But this is rape culture. By definition. Allowing men, and ESPECIALLY men in positions of power, to get away with speaking and acting like this because it's "how men are" (I feel very sorry for any woman who has men in her life who are like this) is the reason we have the Brock Turners of the world. Young boys and men are and will continue to grow up thinking they can say and do whatever they want to and about women and women's bodies if we brush this language and behavior off as meh.




This. This right here. This is an obnoxious response.
If you don't see it, it's cool. This is the reason. I really never say anything on these types of threads. But - it's my fault for speaking my mind on this topic.

This is how "some" men are. This is. It rape culture. Ifeel like it may be a good idea to take a step back and realllly pay attention to what goes on outside of your immediate life. You may see a bit more




Yes. This is rape culture. And I know this because I pay attention to the world around me. And because I studied this in grad school and have a degree in social welfare. I don't really understand your response. If you're fine with it that's great. If you find that obnoxious that's also fine. Your opinion of my opinion has no bearing on me. But please. If this isn't an example of rape culture tell me what is.



Your schooling has absolutely nothing to do with Me and my response to the latest trump Fiasco. I gave my opinion and you're disagreeing with it.
Do you think my opinion will change based on you telling me I'm wrong for it?



You're more than entitled to your opinion. But rape culture isn't something that is opinion based. It's something with a definition. And what has come to light today is BY DEFINITION an example of rape culture. My schooling is important because it allows me to speak with some authority on the matter.



OK

I don't think this recording is anything more then a dirty old man. Again.. i have been saying way worse about Adam Levine for 3 days now.

Posted 10/7/16 9:59 PM
 

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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

Also
I'd like to know why I can't say this isn't shocking to me? Why do you (the General you) need to teach me a history lesson with your replies? Why can't I say I have heard this type of talk before and to me, it's typical dirty old man talk?

It's truly impossible to have a different view then the masses.



You can say whatever you want, but I think your view that this type of talk is ok is shocking to most people and especially women (if it wasn't shocking , it wouldn't be all over the news). And even if this type of talk is "just guy talk", our president should always be held to a higher standard. Look at how many prominent republicans have declared they will not support Trump and even more bailed today after this became public. Very few people on any side of the political spectrum see what he said as anywhere near acceptable or "normal"

And there is a major difference between what you, a private citizen say and what a PRESIDENTIAL CANDIDATE says in a completely demeaning and derogatory manner

Message edited 10/7/2016 10:03:43 PM.

Posted 10/7/16 10:00 PM
 

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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

Also
I'd like to know why I can't say this isn't shocking to me? Why do you (the General you) need to teach me a history lesson with your replies? Why can't I say I have heard this type of talk before and to me, it's typical dirty old man talk?

It's truly impossible to have a different view then the masses.



You can say whatever you want, but I think your view that this type of talk is ok is shocking to most people and especially women (if it wasn't shocking , it wouldn't be all over the news). And even if this type of talk is "just guy talk", our president should always be held to a higher standard. Look at how many prominent republicans have declared they will not support Trump and even more bailed today after this became public. Very few people on any side of the political spectrum see what he said as anywhere near acceptable or "normal".



It being all over the news means nothing to me. If trump farts sideways it's all over the news. You can't deny that.
I would imagine many presidents, past and future, aren't perfect gentlemen.

Posted 10/7/16 10:02 PM
 

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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

I am
Not a trump fan by any means

I don't condone what he said

But I totally see what Phyllis is saying.

I've heard similar talk from men and woman

And if you scroll down the celeb board you would find some things that nobody is batting a eye at

And before the claws come out and teach me a lesson and send me links and rip me a new one

I'm not defending. I know what rape culture is.

I'm saying he is a pig. But he always has been.

I'm more surprised that people are surprised that he has said things like this

Posted 10/7/16 10:02 PM
 

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Re: Trump recorded making extremely derogatory, lewd, and aggressive comments about women...

Posted by evrythng4areason

I'm not justifying him at all.

But, how is he any worse than Clinton, or even JFK for that matter?



it may not be, but we didn't know this UP FRONT, going in to it. Now that we KNOW, we have a responsibility to stand up against it. The difference is WE KNOW beforehand. And bc other men have done it, does NOT make it OK.

Posted 10/7/16 10:05 PM
 
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