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Diva
I am what I am
Member since 12/05 2825 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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Trying to get this board moving sooo....
What do you think is the biggest misconception of couples that choose to be childfree?
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Posted 6/24/09 4:26 PM |
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Diva
I am what I am
Member since 12/05 2825 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
I'll answer first
People assume I hate kids. Soooo not true!!
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Posted 6/24/09 4:27 PM |
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DonnaJoe708
Hello
Member since 5/05 4002 total posts
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
Posted by Diva
I'll answer first
People assume I hate kids. Soooo not true!!
Ditto! Another assumption is that childless couples are completely self-absorbed.
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Posted 6/24/09 4:30 PM |
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Lisa
I'm a PANK!!!
Member since 5/05 22334 total posts
Name: Professional Aunts No Kids
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
not responsible enough although I know a few parents that aren't responsible enough!!
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Posted 6/24/09 4:45 PM |
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BunnyWife
Insert Witty Comment Here
Member since 5/07 8274 total posts
Name: BunnyWife
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
They think you are immature and selfish.
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Posted 6/24/09 4:59 PM |
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KittyKatCopper
missing my handsome boy
Member since 3/09 1579 total posts
Name: Kat - HamptonsBride (LIW)
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
Posted by BunnyWife
They think you are immature and selfish.
I agree that people think the selfish part...although i think its less selfish to not have kids because i know i don't have the time/patience for them...
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Posted 6/24/09 5:14 PM |
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Jackie24
~We Did it~
Member since 7/06 6718 total posts
Name: Jackie
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
1. Selfish 2. Immature 3. Can't have children
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Posted 6/24/09 7:03 PM |
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
As a couple with infertility, i always wonder what their "issue" is! But for the most part I think ppl would say:
selfish or financial concerns
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Posted 6/24/09 8:59 PM |
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Kara
Now Zagat Rated!
Member since 3/07 13217 total posts
Name: They call me "Tater Salad"
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
"You'll change your mind."
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Posted 6/25/09 8:35 AM |
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Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st
Member since 5/05 15287 total posts
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
Posted by Kara
"You'll change your mind."
I got this one and "How could you not want to have kids?"
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Posted 6/25/09 9:07 AM |
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IrishLasss334
I'll be there soon!
Member since 1/08 6549 total posts
Name: Patty
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
That my life isn't as important as theirs because I don't have kids.
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Posted 6/25/09 9:10 AM |
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DonnaJoe708
Hello
Member since 5/05 4002 total posts
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
I thought of a couple of more...
-That we have zero committments on weekends because we don't have kids.
-That we have piles of money sitting in the bank.
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Posted 6/25/09 9:14 AM |
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baghag
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
Posted by DonnaJoe708
I thought of a couple of more...
-That we have zero committments on weekends because we don't have kids.
-That we have piles of money sitting in the bank.
I don't know about you, but I spend my piles of $$$ on butt plugs.
Then I spend all weekend using them.
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Posted 6/25/09 9:27 AM |
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DonnaJoe708
Hello
Member since 5/05 4002 total posts
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
Posted by baghag
Posted by DonnaJoe708
I thought of a couple of more...
-That we have zero committments on weekends because we don't have kids.
-That we have piles of money sitting in the bank.
I don't know about you, but I spend my piles of $$$ on butt plugs.
Then I spend all weekend using them.
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Posted 6/25/09 9:29 AM |
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BunnyWife
Insert Witty Comment Here
Member since 5/07 8274 total posts
Name: BunnyWife
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
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Posted 6/25/09 9:33 AM |
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thewinterone
You make me happy
Member since 5/05 2474 total posts
Name: cause you are gray.
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
Posted by DonnaJoe708
I thought of a couple of more...
-That we have zero committments on weekends because we don't have kids.
-That we have piles of money sitting in the bank.
There aren't too many people in our lives that don't think this. I know because they mention it often .
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Posted 6/26/09 4:26 AM |
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JessInCA
live laugh love
Member since 8/06 5082 total posts
Name: Jess
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Re: Trying to get this board moving sooo....
"You don't have kids, so you wouldn't understand."
I may not know firsthand exactly what it's like to be a parent in whatever situation you're dealing with, but don't dismiss me as incapable of even understanding.
I have had plenty of experience caring for children as a big sister/cousin, babysitter, day care worker, and au pair, and have also had jobs as a camp counselor, tutor, and elementary school teacher. Plenty of my family members and friends have children. I may very well have had more experience with children than some first-time parents do. So I can, at minimum, "understand".
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Posted 6/26/09 7:02 PM |
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