TTC #3 question for BTDT....

So my cousin and I just had a conversation about her wanting to TTC #3. This is her past situation....
DC #1- Was a one time and bam pregnant.
DC#2- Took 3 months, got pregnant, miscarried. Took an additional 10 months... finally got pregnant with her 2nd DC.
Now her 2nd DC is only a few months old but she is already talking about TTC. She asked me what I thought, and honestly I don't know. She and I both feel that, on one hand it was so fast with the first, but then it took almost a year with complications for the second. She is in her later 30's and is concerned about waiting too long. But at the same time, she 2 under 1 or 2 is a scary thought..lol.
Knowing what you know now... would you TTC now (well more like not prevent) or wait until after her DC is 1.
TIA!

Re: TTC #3 question for BTDT....

everyone is different, but my girls are 13 mths apart and i love it. they are super close and have a great relationship already.

Re: TTC #3 question for BTDT....

I would TTC now since she is older.

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If I were in her shoes, I think I would start not preventing for now. That way she is sort of trying.

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Ehhhh, I don't know. I could not handle two under two, nevermind two under one - but if she feels she can do it, and she wants another - then she should try not to prevent it.

Re: TTC #3 question for BTDT....

thanks! I'm gonna show her this thread!