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UGH!!! I hate this crap!!! ~~ Ok, so if you wish hard enough sometimes it does come true...

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ajaysmom
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Jessica

UGH!!! I hate this crap!!! ~~ Ok, so if you wish hard enough sometimes it does come true...

So Now there is two more days in the month.... Still no AF after d&c!! ( thank you to the girls who answered last time and told me it could be a few more weeks...) I even took a HPT, (before that post) with a hope and a prayer but obviously it was a BFN Chat Icon BUT is it at all possible by some small miracle possible to to get pg at any point before the B*** shows up!?!?! Someone told me that after the d&c you are more fertile.. kinda like you are after giving birth. Is this true? I am so damn frusterated I can't take it anymore! Chat Icon I never thought in a million years I'd be wanting it to come! I almost feel like since we got pg so quick the first time that it's just not going to happen again, you can't be lucky twice... can you??

6/30/06: Sorry ladies for all my whining... Todday AF reared her ugly little head... and seems a little ****** off.. is it normal for it to be so heavy like this.. seems like it was after the d&c! Very very heavy... DON"T get me wrong... I'm thrilled I finally have it.. almost feel a bit normal today! So thanks... once again for all the support!

Message edited 6/30/2006 10:39:37 PM.

Posted 6/28/06 1:28 PM
 
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CkGm
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Christine

Re: UGH!!! I hate this crap!!!

You can get that lucky twice- in fact it took me a long time to conceive the first time and only a month to do it after my D/C. I think it does make you more fertile.

But I know how frustrating it can be waiting for that first period to come- you just want to get the whole ordeal over with so you can start over. I will tell you though, I was so excited to get A/F only to be terrified when it was time to BD at ovulation time because I was so scared to have it happen again.

Hang in there- there are many of us on here that have been through it. Feel free to FM us!Chat Icon

Posted 6/28/06 2:00 PM
 

purplegirl
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Re: UGH!!! I hate this crap!!!

I don't have an answer, but I just wanted to give you Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Good luck!

Posted 6/28/06 4:26 PM
 

heidla
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Re: UGH!!! I hate this crap!!!

I have been doing a lot of research the past couple of days. I am having my d&c tomorrow and was curious how soon we could try again. All of the info I have recieved says that you should get AF in 6-8 weeks and that your fetility is increased for about 3 months after the d&c. I hope this helps!!! Good luck and lots of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/29/06 11:50 AM
 

FeliciaDP

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Mommy

Re: UGH!!! I hate this crap!!!

Chat Icon I am sorry you are going through this .. I had a miscarraige and D&C at 13 weeks last year and I know that I could not WAIT to get my first AF after that point, because I just wanted to be 'back to normal' and back closer to TTC again -

It took about 7 weeks after my D&C to get AF ... and then my doctor had recommended that I wait another cycle before TTC again .. There is debate amongst people on how long you 'need' to wait after a miscarriage. Quite frankly, you dont need to wait at all (in particular if you have a natural miscarriage and don't require a D&C, you can try again right away) But doctors often recommend 'waiting' more for emotional/mental reasons, as well as so that you can have a better idea as to when you conceived if you are lucky to get PG right away again -

I will also share with you this: It took me well over 1 yr to get pregnant the first time due to various issues. But after my M/C, I was blessed that it only took 2 cycles to get pregnant again. I am now 24 weeks along with a healthy pregnancy - So I pray that brings you some hope that it might just happen quickly for you the next time Chat Icon

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Message edited 6/29/2006 12:12:16 PM.

Posted 6/29/06 12:10 PM
 

DRMom
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Melissa

Re: UGH!!! I hate this crap!!!

Just to give you something to measure on. I had a natural M/C(no d&C) I bled for a month had 2 free days and my period started, so really it took a month

Posted 6/29/06 2:07 PM
 

ajaysmom
LIF Adolescent

Member since 5/05

810 total posts

Name:
Jessica

Re: UGH!!! I hate this crap!!!

Posted by heidla

I have been doing a lot of research the past couple of days. I am having my d&c tomorrow and was curious how soon we could try again. All of the info I have recieved says that you should get AF in 6-8 weeks and that your fetility is increased for about 3 months after the d&c. I hope this helps!!! Good luck and lots of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Thank you soooo much for the info! I'm sorry that you are going through this too! Good Luck tomorrow! Chat Icon Chat Icon And tons of Chat Icon Chat Icon to you too!!

Posted 6/29/06 3:05 PM
 

Charly
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Re: UGH!!! I hate this crap!!!

Sorry you (and others) have to/had to go through this. Best of luck to you!!!Chat Icon

Posted 6/29/06 3:52 PM
 

aliasPook
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Laurie

Re: UGH!!! I hate this crap!!! ~~ Ok, so if you wish hard enough sometimes it does come true...

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Posted 7/1/06 6:31 AM
 

Jenziba
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Jennifer

Re: UGH!!! I hate this crap!!! ~~ Ok, so if you wish hard enough sometimes it does come true...

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Posted 7/2/06 12:09 AM
 
 

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