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msma88
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UGHH MIL
Does anyone have a MIL that doesn't respect your wishes and does whatever the hell she pleases. Mine thinks she does good till I cry for days straight. If I say NO i mean NO. I am going to have it out with her one day.
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Posted 3/27/06 5:51 PM  |
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Marcie
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Re: UGHH MIL
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| Posted 3/27/06 5:59 PM |
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Tany
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Tania
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Re: UGHH MIL
sorry to hear.
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| Posted 3/27/06 6:01 PM |
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Janice
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Re: UGHH MIL
been there, I wish they came with a how to book. It is the most difficult situation I have ever encountered. I try and come up with solutions, but it has reached impossible levels.
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| Posted 3/27/06 6:03 PM |
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msma88
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Re: UGHH MIL
I just don't get her, and don't understand why nobody says anything to her. Plus she promises everything and doesn't do crap and forgets.
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| Posted 3/27/06 6:08 PM |
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MelToddJulia
Love my Family!
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Mel
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Re: UGHH MIL
My MIL use to be that way, till I said something to her! I would have a talk with her about it.
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| Posted 3/27/06 6:22 PM |
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Stefanie
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Re: UGHH MIL
Sorry..
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| Posted 3/27/06 6:31 PM |
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05mommy09
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Re: UGHH MIL
I feel your pain!
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| Posted 3/27/06 6:39 PM |
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msma88
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Re: UGHH MIL
Posted by MelTodd604
My MIL use to be that way, till I said something to her! I would have a talk with her about it.
Can I ask what you said to her. And how come guys never say anything to their mothers. Meanwhile girls will tell their mothers when they are wrong.
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| Posted 3/27/06 6:45 PM |
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Snozberry
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Re: UGHH MIL
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reggie
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Re: UGHH MIL
I had it out with mine. We don't even talk anymore.
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| Posted 3/27/06 7:34 PM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: UGHH MIL
So sorry!
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| Posted 3/27/06 10:01 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: UGHH MIL
My MIL plays martyr for the most part. I think I may scare her having the final say over the grandchildren.
Message edited 3/27/2006 10:40:02 PM.
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| Posted 3/27/06 10:39 PM |
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Shanti
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Re: UGHH MIL
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| Posted 3/27/06 10:56 PM |
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MelToddJulia
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Re: UGHH MIL
Posted by msma88
Posted by MelTodd604
My MIL use to be that way, till I said something to her! I would have a talk with her about it.
Can I ask what you said to her. And how come guys never say anything to their mothers. Meanwhile girls will tell their mothers when they are wrong.
I can tell my mom when she is wrong , cause shes my mom and I have a way of saying it to her that she will understand. Talking to my MIL and letting her know when she is wrong is different cause I dont have that same connection with her like I do with my own mom.
Men dont say anything to there moms cause they have been hearing it from them there whole lives so they are use to it, and it doesnt bother them, like it does us.
I knew I couldnt change my MIL, I could just let her know how her comments bothered me and just made her aware of it. It did make our relationship better, but there are somedays she still irritates me!!
Hope everything works out for you and your MIL!
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| Posted 3/27/06 11:19 PM |
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msma88
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Re: UGHH MIL
Posted by MelTodd604
Posted by msma88
Posted by MelTodd604
My MIL use to be that way, till I said something to her! I would have a talk with her about it.
Can I ask what you said to her. And how come guys never say anything to their mothers. Meanwhile girls will tell their mothers when they are wrong.
I can tell my mom when she is wrong , cause shes my mom and I have a way of saying it to her that she will understand. Talking to my MIL and letting her know when she is wrong is different cause I dont have that same connection with her like I do with my own mom.
Men dont say anything to there moms cause they have been hearing it from them there whole lives so they are use to it, and it doesnt bother them, like it does us.
I knew I couldnt change my MIL, I could just let her know how her comments bothered me and just made her aware of it. It did make our relationship better, but there are somedays she still irritates me!!
Hope everything works out for you and your MIL!
Thanks so much! And I have to add your daughter is so adorable. 
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