Ugh...why do i do this to myself???

I don't know what it is that makes me such an idiot but even though I'm only at 8 or 9 DPO i get up and test this morning even though i know it's too early and what happens...BFN! Exactly what I had expected but still I'm all down in the dumps now.
What a moron...thanks for letting me vent!

Message edited 9/10/2009 8:05:23 AM.

Re: Ugh...why do i do this to myself???

Don't be so hard on yourself!
I know how hard it is to resist testing give it a few more days and hopefully you will have your BFP!

Re: Ugh...why do i do this to myself???

I know it is so hard. I think the majority of us all give in and test way too early. The good thing is the results really are not accurate. SO you still have a chance to get your BFP. Don't get down yet you still may get that positve!

How many days until AF is suppose to arrive??

Re: Ugh...why do i do this to myself???

Try to hold out! I know its exciting to want to know...but I think the disappointment is worse with a BFN and then...you screw with your head and say well I tested early so it's wrong...and hopefully it is! But it just messes with your head!!!!

Re: Ugh...why do i do this to myself???

Posted by bride07



I know it is so hard. I think the majority of us all give in and test way too early. The good thing is the results really are not accurate. SO you still have a chance to get your BFP. Don't get down yet you still may get that positve!

How many days until AF is suppose to arrive??

Re: Ugh...why do i do this to myself???

Aw don't be so hard on yourself, its soo hard to not test so early when we're just so excited to see that we're pregnant, and in all of our cases, pregnant again.

You are not out yet!!!

Re: Ugh...why do i do this to myself???

Posted by jennarose023

Posted by bride07



I know it is so hard. I think the majority of us all give in and test way too early. The good thing is the results really are not accurate. SO you still have a chance to get your BFP. Don't get down yet you still may get that positve!

How many days until AF is suppose to arrive??

im not 100% sure...if my OPK's were accurate then AF should be due around next thursday

Re: Ugh...why do i do this to myself???

Dont be so hard on yourself. Im only on CD 8 and if you knew some of the irrational thoughts that were crossing my mind, you'd think I was nuts

Especially after a m/c, its hard to wait. I think by the end of the month I will be the same way.

Youre not out yet!! Good luck!!

Re: Ugh...why do i do this to myself???

I agree with Rachel...I think so many of us tend to give in and test before we "should". Of course, if you can wait a few days, that would be great. But if not, at least just get those cheapie tests so at least you don't go broke doing it!

Hang in there!!

Re: Ugh...why do i do this to myself???

Posted by jerseychick

I agree with Rachel...I think so many of us tend to give in and test before we "should". Of course, if you can wait a few days, that would be great. But if not, at least just get those cheapie tests so at least you don't go broke doing it!

Hang in there!!

Re: Ugh...why do i do this to myself???

Posted by jennarose023

Posted by jerseychick

I agree with Rachel...I think so many of us tend to give in and test before we "should". Of course, if you can wait a few days, that would be great. But if not, at least just get those cheapie tests so at least you don't go broke doing it!

Hang in there!!

I think having those $ tests are both a blessing and a curse...on one hand you aren't wasting a lot of money but on the other hand you have a tendency to test too soon since they are cheap!