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UPDATE: DH has to work late tonight...

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MrsMessina
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UPDATE: DH has to work late tonight...

UPDATE: DH JUST called... he thinks they're going to be out of there in the next half hour or so!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon They're all rushing to finish!!!! I'm SO RELIEVED I could cry! (seriously) Thanks ladies!!!! My miracle is happening for tonight! WOOHOO!!!!!!!


He just called to tell me that he's probably not going to be home until after midnight... Chat Icon Chat Icon
Originally he was supposed to be home by 9 or def. 10 so he could give me my lupron shot.... now my anxiety is thru the roof!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon I mentioned it to my mom- and she said 'yeah but you've given them to yourself before' then when I told her that was w/ a pen (gonal-f) and this is an actual syringe that I have to prep, etc.... her face looked like this
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She's TERRIFIED of needles, so I know she won't be any help to me either. I CAN'T believe that I am going to have to do this to myself... Chat Icon Chat Icon My MIL lives almost an hour away so my mom suggested I drive there but I'm not going to show up on her doorstep after 10 at night to ask her to give me a shot.... this is like a nightmare. Chat Icon

Message edited 4/7/2008 8:28:55 PM.

Posted 4/7/08 11:32 AM
 
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MrsRbk
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Re: DH has to work late tonight...

Honestly, it's not any different than the Gonal-F. The only difference is that you have to draw it yourself.

Posted 4/7/08 11:34 AM
 

Bxgell2
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Re: DH has to work late tonight...

Honestly it's crazy, but with my fear of needles, I'd drive my arse up to where DH works, have him meet me in the car for 5 minutes and give me the shot! Chat Icon

Otherwise, can you enlist a good friend??

Posted 4/7/08 11:36 AM
 

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Re: DH has to work late tonight...

I have not given any of the shots to myself, but I watch DH do it all the time and he has it down pat...If you have any specific questions- I'd be happy to ask him for you !The biggest thing is to make sure there is no bubbles, that I know Chat Icon

Posted 4/7/08 11:39 AM
 

MrsMessina
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Re: DH has to work late tonight...

Posted by Bxgell2

Otherwise, can you enlist a good friend??



No, ALL of my friends are gone... none of them live w/in 2 hours of me anymore. Chat Icon There's actually a woman at DHs church that could've helped me I think but she's in Ohio visiting her son and his family... just my luck.
I'll force myself to do it- I just wish I didn't have to wait until tonight.. Chat Icon I'd rather just get it over with if I have to do it- b/c it's been giving me anxiety since he called and I know i'll have it all throughout the day until it's over....

Posted 4/7/08 11:40 AM
 

MrsMessina
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Re: DH has to work late tonight...

Posted by Bops

I have not given any of the shots to myself, but I watch DH do it all the time and he has it down pat...If you have any specific questions- I'd be happy to ask him for you !The biggest thing is to make sure there is no bubbles, that I know Chat Icon



Thanks Chat Icon I watch DH do it all the time too-- w/ the gonal-f shots. I couldn't watch the first few and then I got used to it. The only one I didn't EVER try to watch was the ovidrel b/c it's a real syringe and I knew I'd either Chat Icon or Chat Icon - I just TREMENDOUS fear of syringes.... don't know why- they're just 'REAL' needles to me- whereas the gonal-f pens aren't to me Chat Icon if that makes any sense...

Posted 4/7/08 11:43 AM
 

Bxgell2
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Re: DH has to work late tonight...

Posted by MrsMessina

Posted by Bxgell2

Otherwise, can you enlist a good friend??



No, ALL of my friends are gone... none of them live w/in 2 hours of me anymore. Chat Icon There's actually a woman at DHs church that could've helped me I think but she's in Ohio visiting her son and his family... just my luck.
I'll force myself to do it- I just wish I didn't have to wait until tonight.. Chat Icon I'd rather just get it over with if I have to do it- b/c it's been giving me anxiety since he called and I know i'll have it all throughout the day until it's over....



Well, you know I can relate to the anxiety - hang in there and think hard about the fact that this will ALL be a distant memory come tomorrow at this time Chat Icon

Posted 4/7/08 11:43 AM
 

fullofhope13
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Re: DH has to work late tonight...

I'm sorry you're in this situation; at least, you gave the Gonal-F pen to yourself-I can't even do that.

Here are some hugs for you; I know you'll do fine. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/7/08 12:19 PM
 

BA2008
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Re: DH has to work late tonight...

Oh, don't be worried. Its your fear that is ruling here. The needles are all the same size for sub-Q. You can do this. I know I live nearby (maybe 30 minutes) can I help you in any way? Though I will admit I cannot do the POI shots. I actually have a nurse come to my house every night at 8pm to give them to me.

My RE's website has a video. So, before you do it, watch the vid a couple of times until you are comfortable with it. Website: http://www.freedommedteach.com/player/Videos.aspx

You will see, after you do it you will be like "wow, that was so easy". And seriously, you cannot hurt yourself with it. any bubbles that don't get out wont hurt you either. I always had one stupid bubble in the same spot every time I had to do it. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/7/08 12:31 PM
 

IrishLasss334
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Re: DH has to work late tonight...

You can do it! I have faith in you! You'll be ok!

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Posted 4/7/08 3:35 PM
 

MrsJoeG
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Re: DH has to work late tonight...

Posted by BA2008

Oh, don't be worried. Its your fear that is ruling here. The needles are all the same size for sub-Q. You can do this. I know I live nearby (maybe 30 minutes) can I help you in any way? Though I will admit I cannot do the POI shots. I actually have a nurse come to my house every night at 8pm to give them to me.

My RE's website has a video. So, before you do it, watch the vid a couple of times until you are comfortable with it. Website: http://www.freedommedteach.com/player/Videos.aspx

You will see, after you do it you will be like "wow, that was so easy". And seriously, you cannot hurt yourself with it. any bubbles that don't get out wont hurt you either. I always had one stupid bubble in the same spot every time I had to do it. Chat Icon Chat Icon



I was going to suggest looking at you tube for a video to make you more comfortable. Also, may be take a pen and mark where the shot needs to go so you have a "target" to distracr you and ice it up first. GL!!!!

Posted 4/7/08 3:36 PM
 

MrsMessina
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Re: DH has to work late tonight...

UPDATE: I just tried to look at the link suggested to me above but they won't let me log in b/c I'm not a patient of theirs...
so i went on youtube and now I'm ready to Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon seriously- I was trying to find a 'professional' looking one and Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm just goign to do my best to get this out of my mind until around 10pm...
if I'm 'lucky' my mom will come to my house and give me moral support- last time I had to give myself my gonal-f injection she asked me if she could 'just close my eyes with the needle in my hand and give you the shot that way'.. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I said no thanks and then she turned all shades of green and kept her eyes closed asking me all the while 'is it done yet, is it done yet....'? I finally made her leave the room and wait in my living room for me.... Chat Icon Chat Icon Gotta love her for trying though...

Posted 4/7/08 3:44 PM
 

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Re: DH has to work late tonight...

Posted by MrsMessina

UPDATE: I just tried to look at the link suggested to me above but they won't let me log in b/c I'm not a patient of theirs...
so i went on youtube and now I'm ready to Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon seriously- I was trying to find a 'professional' looking one and Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm just goign to do my best to get this out of my mind until around 10pm...
if I'm 'lucky' my mom will come to my house and give me moral support- last time I had to give myself my gonal-f injection she asked me if she could 'just close my eyes with the needle in my hand and give you the shot that way'.. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I said no thanks and then she turned all shades of green and kept her eyes closed asking me all the while 'is it done yet, is it done yet....'? I finally made her leave the room and wait in my living room for me.... Chat Icon Chat Icon Gotta love her for trying though...



Try this link, it's to my RE's webpage: and then click on the bottom right hand corner icon. You shouldn't need to log in to view it.

Injection Videos

Posted 4/7/08 3:48 PM
 

MrsRivera
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Re: DH has to work late tonight...

I'm so sorry. I know what you're going through--I nearly had to give myself the Ovidrel shot, but DH came home at the last minute.

If you were close by, I would do it for you! Chat Icon Be strong!

Posted 4/7/08 3:52 PM
 

MrsMessina
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Re: DH has to work late tonight...

Posted by MrsRbk

Try this link, it's to my RE's webpage: and then click on the bottom right hand corner icon. You shouldn't need to log in to view it.

Injection Videos




Thanks, I just viewed it. I'm still feeling really Chat Icon Chat Icon though- maybe I should've waiting a while to watch it.... my fists automatically clenched so tightly when I saw that needle go in... Chat Icon Praying for a miracle that DH doesn't end up working as late as he says he's going to.... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/7/08 4:01 PM
 

babyfaith
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Re: DH has to work late tonight...

I am sorry you are going through this. As if you don't have enough stress already. I wish I could help but I have no Lupron experience. Maybe one of the ladies on this board can talk you through it on the phone.

Posted 4/7/08 4:51 PM
 

MrsMessina
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Re: UPDATE: DH has to work late tonight...

bumping w/ update at top!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/7/08 8:23 PM
 

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Re: UPDATE: DH has to work late tonight...

Chat Icon I'm so glad it worked out for you !!!!

Posted 4/7/08 8:26 PM
 
 

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