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Michi
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Re: UPDATE!!! Tricky gift problem- would you have DH say something?
Posted by myboysmyheart
Posted by ali120206
Posted by Michi
Posted by myboysmyheart
If you return to Amazon they have to notify the buyer. I tried to return a tablet my in laws bought us last year because we did not need it, we have 4, but I didn't want them to know, we ended up keeping it because Amazon said they would have to notify the buyer.
Are you sure because I returned a gift via amazon and it specifically said that the gift giver would not be notified AND the credit went straight to my account..
My friend returned a bag she got last year for Christmas as well and the buyer wasn't notified and she received a credit in her account.
This makes me so mad. Lol. They specifically told me my in laws would be notified. So we kept a tablet that we ddid not need. I'm so angry.
That is so strange. Maybe it was from a random 3rd party seller or something?
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clotheshorse
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Re: UPDATE!!! Tricky gift problem- would you have DH say something?
Why does the buyer need to be notified?
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| Posted 12/15/15 9:01 AM |
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Paramount
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Re: UPDATE!!! Tricky gift problem- would you have DH say something?
Sell the bag on eBay. Or on the Long Island moms group.
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| Posted 12/15/15 9:27 AM |
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Mom0710
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Re: UPDATE!!! Tricky gift problem- would you have DH say something?
Wait what??? He doesn't care if you don't like it, he picked it out for you so that's that!?! I call bs on that. I don't know what else to say
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| Posted 12/15/15 11:38 AM |
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Pumpkin1
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Re: UPDATE!!! Tricky gift problem- would you have DH say something?
Posted by Mom0710
Wait what??? He doesn't care if you don't like it, he picked it out for you so that's that!?! I call bs on that. I don't know what else to say
I kinda agree with this. By buying you something that they know you will never use, its like not buying you a gift at all.
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| Posted 12/15/15 11:39 AM |
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Cacarina
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UPDATE!!! Tricky gift problem- would you have DH say something?
This is the most bizarre and narcissistic thing I've read in a while. Really??? They are going to give you a $300 gift that they know you won't like just because it'll make FIL feel good? Isn't gift giving about making the receiver feel good, not the giver? I can't even comprehend this. This is just so insanely selfish.
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| Posted 12/15/15 3:09 PM |
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NervousNell
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Re: UPDATE!!! Tricky gift problem- would you have DH say something?
Sell that bag on a buy and sell group or ebay.
At least you'll get SOMETHING for it
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| Posted 12/15/15 3:29 PM |
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JandJ1224
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Re: UPDATE!!! Tricky gift problem- would you have DH say something?
I would still try to return it...
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luvbuffet
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Re: UPDATE!!! Tricky gift problem- would you have DH say something?
Am I the only one that thinks it's sweet that FIL picked out a bag for his DIL and the MiL doesn't want his feelings hurt?? For that alone I would wear it when I see FIL. 
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| Posted 12/15/15 4:31 PM |
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kahlua716
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Re: UPDATE!!! Tricky gift problem- would you have DH say something?
Posted by luvbuffet
Am I the only one that thinks it's sweet that FIL picked out a bag for his DIL and the MiL doesn't want his feelings hurt?? For that alone I would wear it when I see FIL.
I think it's sweet too
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| Posted 12/15/15 9:40 PM |
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MrsDrMatt
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Re: UPDATE!!! Tricky gift problem- would you have DH say something?
Posted by luvbuffet
Am I the only one that thinks it's sweet that FIL picked out a bag for his DIL and the MiL doesn't want his feelings hurt?? For that alone I would wear it when I see FIL.
I cannot comprehend doing anything else but this.
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| Posted 12/16/15 10:23 AM |
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Kitten1929
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Re: UPDATE!!! Tricky gift problem- would you have DH say something?
Posted by MrsDrMatt
Posted by luvbuffet
Am I the only one that thinks it's sweet that FIL picked out a bag for his DIL and the MiL doesn't want his feelings hurt?? For that alone I would wear it when I see FIL.
I cannot comprehend doing anything else but this.
Normally I would agree but given the backstory her FIL doesn't seem like a sweet man who did it out of the kindness of his heart. And $300 is a lot to throw away on a gift.
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| Posted 12/16/15 1:01 PM |
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Re: UPDATE!!! Tricky gift problem- would you have DH say something?
Posted by Kitten1929
Posted by MrsDrMatt
Posted by luvbuffet
Am I the only one that thinks it's sweet that FIL picked out a bag for his DIL and the MiL doesn't want his feelings hurt?? For that alone I would wear it when I see FIL.
I cannot comprehend doing anything else but this.
Normally I would agree but given the backstory her FIL doesn't seem like a sweet man who did it out of the kindness of his heart. And $300 is a lot to throw away on a gift.
I agree. Her FIL bought a coach bag off a private seller. It's not like he saw it at the store and thought of her. Personally I always like to give the person the option to return it.
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| Posted 12/16/15 1:16 PM |
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ineedababynow
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Re: UPDATE!!! Tricky gift problem- would you have DH say something?
any reason why my response was deleted?
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| Posted 12/16/15 2:20 PM |
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luvbuffet
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Re: UPDATE!!! Tricky gift problem- would you have DH say something?
Posted by Kitten1929
Posted by MrsDrMatt
Posted by luvbuffet
Am I the only one that thinks it's sweet that FIL picked out a bag for his DIL and the MiL doesn't want his feelings hurt?? For that alone I would wear it when I see FIL.
I cannot comprehend doing anything else but this.
Normally I would agree but given the backstory her FIL doesn't seem like a sweet man who did it out of the kindness of his heart. And $300 is a lot to throw away on a gift.
in that case, is it possible MIL bought it for herself and ended up hating it and is now giving it to DIL since they cant return it? in that case, shame on them. but in 5 years, will you be stressed about this? probably not. I'd just let it go. a coach bag is NOT worth stress or a potential wrinkle. pshh!
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