Vent - Really want to start trying

DH and I really wanted to start trying this past fall...but then I ended up getting a new job in November so we decided to push it off.
I'm really struggling with how long to wait! I just don't feel comfortable with being there for so little time and then being like - "Oh, I'm preg" - but I really dont want to wait to long!! The place is very family friendly, so I'm not worry about any real repercussions, but I dunno - I just feel weird getting preggers so soon!

Ok vent over...

Re: Vent - Really want to start trying

hey-- I know you are anxious but, we were just talking about this-- and I think 6 months is totally cool to wait.

Think about it-- you have been there since Nov, if you start trying May/June, you wouldn't tell them until the Fall- if you got PG right away-- that would put you at almost a year that you are there, and then you still have another 6 months before you go on Maternity. From the sound of the place-- I think that is totally feasible.

I completely understand and appreciate where you are coming from-- I sorta struggle with the same thing- as you know... Anyway, I told Matt last night that I think I want to try in 6 months-- be in the first tri-mester over the summer when work is slow and i have half day Fridays-- and be big and fat in the winter time.. and then have the summer off for maternity-- it's the best time to PG!!!

We can do it together!