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sleepie76
enjoying every minute
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visiting a newborn
DH wants to go visit friend's newborn baby girl today.
I respond - a baby girl like we would have right now.
He responds - why do you always say that. It makes me sad doesn't it make you sad to say ?
I respond - I'm thinking it, I have to say it. Gotta get it off my chest.
Then I said - we'll if people would be more considerate of my loss and have baby boys instead, we wouldn't be having this problem. 
I hate how seeing newborns make me feel now. I used to LOVE to see them and hold them.
Anyone else feel that way ?
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Posted 9/20/08 10:41 AM  |
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jennyal
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Re: visiting a newborn
yes, at first i was afraid to hold them or look at them...as if i dont have a right to....it takes time to heal....
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| Posted 9/20/08 1:33 PM |
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when
Maybe this time?
Member since 7/07 1761 total posts
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Re: visiting a newborn
I have nothing to say to you other than I can empathize 1000%, and TOTALLY KNOW HOW YOU FEEL.
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| Posted 9/20/08 1:45 PM |
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IrishLasss334
I'll be there soon!
Member since 1/08 6549 total posts
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Re: visiting a newborn
I absolutely know how you feel. I had my first loss when my nephew was 6 months old, there was a party the week after my D&C and I couldn't hold him. My sister ended up being mad at me for ignoring the baby, but I just couldn't do it.
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| Posted 9/20/08 5:06 PM |
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