Waiting to tell

I am only 4 weeks and a few days and I have my first appt on Nov 7. I want to tell everyone after I go to to Dr. just to make sure everything is okay. DH on the other hand wants to wait until I am 18 weeks! That is going to be impossible since its my second and I will be showing waaaay before then. He tells me to wear sweatshirts and baggy stuff til then.....Grrrrrrr How long did everyone wait to start telling??

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I told my mom this past weekend, an we are waiting to tell the ILs until Thanksgiving. At that point I will be 12w.

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I'm on my second too, and we plan on telling right after my 1st dr's appt. With DD we didn't tell anyone but siblings and parents, til 12 weeks.

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I think its fair to wait until after your first appt- but 18 weeks is very far along- you will be showing already- tell DH that everyone will be asking you before then anyway!

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I told immediate family after my 8 week appt. There are many who still don't know now at 11 weeks but I am not ready to go public.

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I am waiting untl 12 weeks to tell friends and family.So i guess that would be like December. My mom already knows but i haven't told DH that i told her yet. And i told her just to act surprised when we tell everyone. LOL

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We've told our parents this past weekend but won't tell others until Thanksgiving....I'm bursting to tell. My first appt is the day b4 Thanksgiving