What is wrong with people?

DH and I were REALLY suprised by our pregnancy and ended up losing the baby. (We found out 4 days after the wedding) For some reason people feel the need to say things that pretty much make it sound like we should just wait now. I am a changed woman now and we are going to TTC when we can...6 months due to a molar...I feel like people think we are doing the wrong thing. Not that I care but why do they think they should have the right to judge when we should or shouldn't have a baby. I guess it's because I just got my masters and they think I should get settled in my career first but ya know what, I am taking a different route...so what?

Sorry....vent over.

Re: What is wrong with people?

You know, it's kind of interesting because a few people that I know are pregnant now and the way people react to them are different and sometimes downright bizarre. I know it all stems from jealousy but it's jealously that is coming from people that have nothing to be jealous about....

Don't let it bother you and just continue on your plan with your DH....no one matters except you and your family. People will always have an opinion but that doesn't mean you have to listen.

Re: What is wrong with people?

I am sure you had practice on how to deal with people and their opinions while planning your wedding. Sometimes people feel the need to share their opinions even when they haven't been asked.

When I got really upset by it during my wedding planning, DH told me to just say this:

"Thanks for your input, I will take it into consideration" and then go on your merry way doing whatever you want anyway.

Try not to let it get you down, some people live in their own little bubble and have no clue.....