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CJC25
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People say STUPID things...

I am not feeling my best I feel huge and SO unattractive. Our PR lady was leaving and she said how much longer I said 10 Weeks she said "Looks like a lot sooner than that" I just can not understand Why people think it is OK to make comments like that..Were they not taught manners. Even the VP was sitting here and when she left he said that's not nice to say.. I was so embarresed. Chat Icon

Posted 2/17/06 10:47 AM
 
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KangaMom
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Re: People say STUPID things...

Chat Icon These people are idiots!!! Never mind them...

Posted 2/17/06 10:48 AM
 

anon
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Re: People say STUPID things...

i guess i wasn't taught manners either as i can see something like that coming out of my mouth. Chat Icon

some comments are just comments and i take as no big deal, sorry you got offended!

Posted 2/17/06 10:49 AM
 

maybaby
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Re: People say STUPID things...

people are so rude!Chat Icon
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Posted 2/17/06 10:50 AM
 

dandr10199
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Re: People say STUPID things...

Chat Icon Chat Icon what a moron Chat Icon

Posted 2/17/06 10:50 AM
 

CJC25
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Re: People say STUPID things...

I would NEVER say something like that. Everyone carries different. If you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all..

Posted 2/17/06 10:54 AM
 

Shelly
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Re: People say STUPID things...

People do say stupid things. It's a sad part of life. Sorry it upset you! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/17/06 11:09 AM
 

dld4e
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Re: People say STUPID things...

I am sorry....some people are just idiots!!

Posted 2/17/06 11:52 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: People say STUPID things...

I was 34 weeks when a nurse on my hospital tour said the same thing. I was furious because I was due at the end of Oct. Sure enough, days later I was having the baby.


I agree stupid, stupid people. Why is it acceptable to comment on people's bodies because they are pregnant? It's like they become public domain for everyone to evaluate.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/17/06 12:26 PM
 

ARIELSMOM
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Re: People say STUPID things...

I have said this to pregnant women before. I even said it about myself when i was prego. I wouldnt take it offensivly, im sure she didnt mean any negativity in her comment.

Posted 2/17/06 12:34 PM
 

anon
where's winter?

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Re: People say STUPID things...

Posted by CJC25

I would NEVER say something like that. Everyone carries different. If you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all..

see, in this case i don't view this comment as being mean, just maybe an observation?

i got the same comment from a checkout girl who noticed that i was doing the pee pee dance while standing on line. she couldn't believe i said "june" for a due date.

of course people carry differently. i am tiny and a Chat Icon . i get "you're so big", "you are due WHEN?" types of comments all the time. it doesn't bother me at all, and with all the recent posts of "that's so mean", "how could she" i am genuinely confused! i LAUGH at comments made to me as i pretty much agree with them. i AM huge! i'm pregnant!

i don't know if i have a super thick skin or if people are just more sensitive than my group of friends. if anything "questionable" ever comes out of my mouth, people know i don't intend to be mean as i am not a malicious person. and comments made by strangers or people i don't necessarily like, who cares? i don't...life's too short...

Posted 2/17/06 12:43 PM
 

Diane
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Re: People say STUPID things...

people need to think before they speakChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/17/06 1:01 PM
 
 

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