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listen to this story
so this girl I used to be friends with has been with her boyfriend for 10 years or more....They have 2 kids together.so he is a HABITUAL liar and cheater and everyone knows this. Well she had a feeling he was being sneaky so she put a video camera under her bed and went to work and when she came home and played the tape He was HAVING SEX with their friends neighbor
so they broke up for almost a year
I just found out THEY ARE BACK TOGETHER
Why would you get back with that PIG!!!!??
He used to hit her (he probably does still)
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Boobobunny
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I feel for your friend...unfortuantly some people have a hard time walking away from abuse...it doesn't really matter if its physical, emotional or mental...some people just can't walk away. I hope your friend finds strength within herseld soon.
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| Posted 2/16/06 8:47 AM |
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ChristineR
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No, I would not have gone back with him but then again she has to live with him not us  
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| Posted 2/16/06 8:48 AM |
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LAMGAJ28
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Posted by Boobobunny
I feel for your friend...unfortuantly some people have a hard time walking away from abuse...it doesn't really matter if its physical, emotional or mental...some people just can't walk away. I hope your friend finds strength within herseld soon.
This is absolutely true. I think it has also to do with the person's low self-esteem. That's really unfortunate for your friend.
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| Posted 2/16/06 8:50 AM |
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she isnt my friend anymore......long story short I helped her leave him once and she totally backstabbed me and told him and he is a violent lunatic so I can never help her again
She does has very LOW self esteem........but I still cant believe they are back together
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| Posted 2/16/06 8:58 AM |
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Summer05
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That is very sad
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| Posted 2/16/06 9:02 AM |
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LAMGAJ28
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Posted by MamaNDaddyof2
she isnt my friend anymore......long story short I helped her leave him once and she totally backstabbed me and told him and he is a violent lunatic so I can never help her again
She does has very LOW self esteem........but I still cant believe they are back together
That was nice of you that you helped her. I figured that she had to have low self-esteem. When you love and respect yourself, you'd never let anyone treat you that way. Sometimes it also has a lot to do with how you were brought up and what you watch at home. For some people, they are unfortunately just repeating the same cycle from their parents.
We can only hope she gets to face what's happening to her....but she has to do that on her own.....
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If she has been putting up with his sh*t for 10 years I bet she will let him do it forever
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| Posted 2/16/06 9:06 AM |
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Posted by MamaNDaddyof2
If she has been putting up with his sh*t for 10 years I bet she will let him do it forever
That's really sad....for her...and for her children......
Let's hope that she gets some "enlightment" and is able to get out of that vicious, and sad cycle.
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| Posted 2/16/06 9:10 AM |
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luvsbob4603
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I think she should have not gotten back together with him he sounds like a real scumbag! maybe she feels she has to be with him because of the kids?? I hope thats not the case because anyone who abuses a person physically or mentally they need to get out of that relationship she can find another nice guy for the kids.and get this abusive guys rights taken away he should not be a father.
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| Posted 2/16/06 9:13 AM |
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nrthshgrl
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Actually it sounds like an ideal situation for both parties (except for the poor children that will learn from their parents ).
A habital liar & cheater should be with a doormat.
Mama - I know it's painful to see them back together after you helped her leave . I'm glad you've distanced yourself because unfortunately some people never learn.
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| Posted 2/16/06 10:19 AM |
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dandr10199
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Posted by MamaNDaddyof2
so this girl I used to be friends with has been with her boyfriend for 10 years or more....They have 2 kids together.so he is a HABITUAL liar and cheater and everyone knows this. Well she had a feeling he was being sneaky so she put a video camera under her bed and went to work and when she came home and played the tape He was HAVING SEX with their friends neighbor
so they broke up for almost a year
I just found out THEY ARE BACK TOGETHER
Why would you get back with that PIG!!!!??
He used to hit her (he probably does still)
Ummmm....NO! What is up with her??? Why put your kids in that situation??? I feel bad that her hit her and cheated, but she is a moron IMO for taking him back. Not to metion the what it will do to mess up her kids!
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| Posted 2/16/06 10:21 AM |
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Gertyrae
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I know someone like that...went to her cousin's house the other day(I am friends with her cousin) and her boyfriend was there with her...***!!!!!!
As my mother said "Sometime's, Love Lights on a T*rd"
All I can think is just break the pattern already!!!
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| Posted 2/16/06 11:47 AM |
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Bebalina
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wow....thats soo sad...
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