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mbscheer
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Member since 11/09 115 total posts
Name:
Melissa
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what to do
My MIL has been dying to host a wedding video party for us where my IL's and my parents and all our siblings come to watch.
I got the call that my video is in. However I have not picked it up. My wedding by far was not the happiest day of my life. People I thought would be there for me forever have come and gone.
How do I let MIL know that I don't want to watch it with everyone without hurting her feelings? Its so sweet that she wants us all to get together but I know I am going to cry and I just won't be able to hide. No one really knows how I feel about that day either so it makes it harder.
TIA
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Posted 11/17/10 10:33 PM  |
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peanutbutter2
Carpe diem!
Member since 11/10 5287 total posts
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Re: what to do
I'm so sorry that you feel that way. 
This is a tough situation. Could you maybe say that you and DH want to watch it alone first? A ton of people have already said that they want to watch our wedding video with us...but I'm going to say that DH & I want to watch it together alone first, and then we will invite everyone over.
Maybe watching it with him or alone would allow you to get some of those emotions out?
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| Posted 11/17/10 10:46 PM |
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fight the future
Master of my domain.
Member since 3/10 2067 total posts
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Rebecca
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Re: what to do
I think you should just say you want to watch it alone first and then if after you don't want to watch it with everyone just say you're not up for it.
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| Posted 11/18/10 9:01 AM |
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BsMomma2014
Fly high little one
Member since 6/10 2662 total posts
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nicole
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Re: what to do
Posted by JAAMS
I'm so sorry that you feel that way.
This is a tough situation. Could you maybe say that you and DH want to watch it alone first? A ton of people have already said that they want to watch our wedding video with us...but I'm going to say that DH & I want to watch it together alone first, and then we will invite everyone over.
Maybe watching it with him or alone would allow you to get some of those emotions out?
I completely agree
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| Posted 11/18/10 12:19 PM |
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jilliibabii
Mrs. O'Connor
Member since 6/10 12821 total posts
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Jillian
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Re: what to do
Posted by JAAMS
I'm so sorry that you feel that way.
This is a tough situation. Could you maybe say that you and DH want to watch it alone first? A ton of people have already said that they want to watch our wedding video with us...but I'm going to say that DH & I want to watch it together alone first, and then we will invite everyone over.
Maybe watching it with him or alone would allow you to get some of those emotions out?
Definitely! Sorry you're feeling this way.
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| Posted 11/18/10 5:03 PM |
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gdubs
This baby is awesome!
Member since 11/10 2467 total posts
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Gina
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Re: what to do
Posted by JAAMS
I'm so sorry that you feel that way.
This is a tough situation. Could you maybe say that you and DH want to watch it alone first? A ton of people have already said that they want to watch our wedding video with us...but I'm going to say that DH & I want to watch it together alone first, and then we will invite everyone over.
Maybe watching it with him or alone would allow you to get some of those emotions out?
I completely agree!!!!
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| Posted 11/20/10 2:38 PM |
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